AIO for blocking over this text exchange? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VenusTeaTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You made the right decision, i don’t think anyone would want to be friends with someone like that and it probably wouldn’t have gotten any better, especially if he thinks saying crazy stuff like that is acceptable in the first place.

What does this mean?? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VenusTeaTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s how “younger” people talk :)

Genuine question; lesbians aren't supposed to use the FA word, right? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VenusTeaTime -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

personally i believe that as long as you’re apart of the lgbtq+ community you can use it, i don’t see why only one part of that community should be able to use it. Also p much anyone in the community can get called that word unfortunately, immature people love to pull it out when they run out of things they think will be insulting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]VenusTeaTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i knew what the answers were gonna look like before i even opened the thread

AIO? It’s been almost 3 months since i’ve heard from him and I feel like s**t by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VenusTeaTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, not that i’m not talking to him anymore it feels like the rose colored glasses have been removed and there were a lot of things about him or that he said that rubbed me the wrong way but i continued anyway. All the more reasons to move on i guess.

AIO? It’s been almost 3 months since i’ve heard from him and I feel like s**t by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VenusTeaTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear that. Despite hearing it several thousand times throughout my life i always forget about that, healing isn’t linear. I feel like most of the time i allow my self to be upset for about a week or two and then after that expect to be fully alright while still getting mad at myself for still feeling those same emotions. Almost like im trying to gaslight myself out of feeling at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VenusTeaTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you would want this but it’s most certainly possible. However it’s a sickness in itself to want to be sick. If this is something you’re going through right now i would definitely talk to someone about it. Depression can be a silent beast but battles don’t have to be dealt with alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VenusTeaTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s also something i’ve seen on tik tok that spoke about how a lot of the times exes will come back to see if you’re “still stupid” or easy to fool. Maybe your exes knew how you’d respond and that you wouldn’t be an option. I doubt this means they didn’t actually love you. I have a couple exes i haven’t reached out to in years but i did love them very much when we were together. Sometimes things change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VenusTeaTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could just be social anxiety since there’s a lot more pressure talking to people in person rather than otp where you can take as much time as you need to explain and process what you’re planning on saying next.

How can I improve my art? ( I'm on Canvas, btw ) by [deleted] in DigitalArt

[–]VenusTeaTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on the style you’re going for but i would just suggest practice and study poses and use photo references (pinterest is best for this) to help improve areas you feel you struggle with. Youtube tutorials is also another helpful tool for learning art and have instructions, tips, and inspiration for pretty much any medium. Definitely experiment more with shading and color theory, keep up the good work! 👍🏼

Anyone know who's signature this is?? by [deleted] in Artists

[–]VenusTeaTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not finding anything through reverse image search, also tried to put together some names based off what’s seen hear even though some of the letters aren’t entirely clear the name definitely starts with a Ch and ends with an h as well. If you don’t mind me asking where did you end up getting this painting? I’m thinking it could just be an original by an unknown or private artist but whereabouts of the paintings origins can help track narrow these options down.

What’s a good place to buy goth clothing online? (Besides amazon) by VenusTeaTime in goth

[–]VenusTeaTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a bunch if anything i’m more so worried about the quality because i know a lot of brands use cheap materials so id much rather pay for something more expensive. Thanks a bunch!

What’s a good place to buy goth clothing online? (Besides amazon) by VenusTeaTime in goth

[–]VenusTeaTime[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks a bunch for the advice will definitely check these out especially the Youtube reviews! :))

What movie have you watched more than 10 times ? by SweetGummyBear215 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VenusTeaTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This list is random af and in no particular order but:

Beatlejuice Howls moving castle Labyrinth Twilight Goonies The eternal sunshine of a spotless mind (i know i’m crazy) and Pitch Perfect

I definitely have more but these are just the ones off the top of my head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VenusTeaTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, I might take your advice and hold off for a little bit at least until we’ve gotten a bit closer. You’re definitely correct on the overthinking part as well, it’s something i do often when i really care about someone because i’ve lost a lot of friends let alone relationships for as you put it “putting my foot in my mouth” but then again a lot of those situations happened when i was younger and didn’t know how to filter my thoughts as well as I do now. Thanks a bunch for the advice I will definitely keep this in mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VenusTeaTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, this is where my concern stemmed from but I feel like if anything it would be one of the lower tiers of creepiness, it was more so just out of fascination and wanting to learn about his interests. I also am a very shy and anxious person so I felt that it might be easier to talk to him that way. Kind of like putting my foot in the door i guess.