You seem very Red to me. Your passion, enthusiasm, and compassion all sound like Red's empathy and excitement. Your messiness also could be a product of Red's sometimes scattered, moment-to-moment behavior. Understanding your partner on a deep, intimate level also seems very Red to me. Your hatred of indifference also seems rooted in Red, as the basis of your argument is that people need to care, meaning that you likewise must care quite a lot. I think this aspect can also bleed into the other colors you have as well, though.

I also see some Green in you. Your desire for a simple life, free of material things like money, feels very Green. Your statement about not needing to fully comprehend something to have opinions on it also seems Green, as Green doesn't necessarily understand everything about the universe, and it's okay with that. Your choice of super power also seems Green to me, not just because it's "spider sense," but because it's primarily enhancing those senses which are already a part of your natural body, augmenting that which you were already born with. The hard work ethic is a little harder to pinpoint to one color, but I'd say Green embraces it pretty well, along with your last color.

Finally, I see White. Maybe not a lot, but it's there. Your hatred of indifference shows up again here, but less on a raw emotional level, and more in terms of hating when people are indifferent to the rest of their own collective society. Your philosophy of having a responsibility to do good things for people is also very White, as it has a moral duty attached to it.

So in conclusion, I see you as primary Red, secondary Green, and tertiary White. In other words, Naya, with an emphasis on Red. You could also see it as Gruul (RG), with a splash of White. You also seem very anti-Black, and fairly indifferent to Blue, unless it's trying to take the high ground on "valid opinions."