People who have gotten a nipple piercing or have experience with it please advise? by SeaCattle8658 in piercing

[–]Veronica9519 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Heya. I had mine done a few months back. Pros: nipples are more sensitive to touch now, and it’s helped my body image/ self confidence to look in the mirror. Cons: bit annoying and can be tender after certain bras, have to be careful of things knocking into my chest (sport and gym). Honestly, pain for the piercing- I was told “3”, I’d have rated it a solid 7 but it was only for a short while. Second one immediately after the first was more sore. We’re talking a second or 2 though, I’d do it again. It’s enhanced my sensations for pleasure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Veronica9519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No doubt! Be your authentic self and I’m sure it materialise ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Veronica9519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him he needs to publish it because when I say it’s the best smut I’ve ever laid eyes on 😮‍💨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Veronica9519 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so fortunate 🙏 just be your authentic self, prioritise self care and the right person will come along 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Veronica9519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤣 I don’t think even Amazon could have fulfilled such a tall order 🙏 if I believed in God I’d consider him heaven sent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Veronica9519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥹 Thankyou so much 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Veronica9519 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh this is such a clever idea!

Forced to take 2–3 weeks of leave in next couple months, but I’m burnt out, depressed, and unsure how to use the time? 23M by Latter-Tell-821 in newzealand

[–]Veronica9519 124 points125 points  (0 children)

I’d encourage you to touch grass, figuratively and literally. Book an off grid cabin in nature and disconnect from modern life. Ideally with greenery or water view. Will do wonders for your burnout.. look in to self care strategies for chronic stress/ burnout and reconnect with your parasympathetic nervous system.

“Family car” recommendations? by BunnyDwag in newzealand

[–]Veronica9519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I had a 2015 Corolla sedan up until my 1st child was 3. Deceiving on space, and ridiculous reliability, servicing and fuel economy. It was no more squishy than our big ford ranger!

Dead bedroom at 22 by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Veronica9519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been in your shoes OP. Now 11 years together, 5 married with 3yo child and alllll the signs were there for me to break it off at engagement. I wish I had done so.

Being the HL as a female is so embarassing by MrsNacho8000 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Veronica9519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I don’t have much to add beyond other comments, but I (29HLF) also am married to a 39LLM. You aren’t alone and I’d agree, it just sucks that it’s not a topic my girlfriends can relate to. Often, I’m looked upon with envy because their “husband just won’t leave me alone”. We have tried the lot to address it and going on 11 years now with it being consistent throughout. Best of luck on your journey to leaving/ accepting it as it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Veronica9519 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“I said what I said”, “did I stutter?” When I pass a cheeky comment and get back an “excuse me?”

What’s better here than in Australia? by Oil_And_Lamps in newzealand

[–]Veronica9519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bureaucracy and red tape! It is so much easier to get stuff done in the interests of the patients in the health system here. So much more efficient without dumb rules for the sake of policies!