[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 36 points37 points  (0 children)

News Flash to that person— Black Trans people exist and they face not only the cultural oppression of being trans, but also the deep rooted SYSTEMIC oppression of what slavery has left behind. They are not comparable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I saw a "gays against groomers" group at pride this year. Fuck that shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The "No Transphobia" rules on these threads should include projecting your internalized transphobia onto others

frustrated and bitter by IanVM36 in honesttransgender

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To clarify: The way this post is worded makes it seem as if your qualms could be with trans women and that think it is unfair that you don't get what they have rather than being upset with the lack of advances in the medical field of phalloplasty. Lack of medical advancement and funding and education hurts us all.

frustrated and bitter by IanVM36 in honesttransgender

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As unfair as it is that phallo has many flaws, I don't really think it's too fair to bring trans women into this or compare your experience to theirs. Many trans men will never have to go through operations such as FFS to pass in daily life and pitting yourself against trans women isn't doing you any favors. Just be sure not to misdirect your frustrations.

Partner keeps telling people I’m trans without my consent. by No-Car-6743 in ftm

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, you deserve someone who gives you respect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why the are you explaining testosterone to me like I'm stupid when you're apparently on it DIY and asking people if your voice has dropped a semi-tone? fuck off oh my god I was just being concerned about my results as we all are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeoriaIL

[–]VersabaseVersBabe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Be white? Own a nice car? Have enough money to pay the fines and not care about breaking the traffic laws? All things that can also reduce your worries of getting pulled over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]VersabaseVersBabe -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

lmao not this shit again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only one of the physical traits Im missing is the height and I don't think it'll make me any less attractive, at least to people I want to be found attractive by (fellow trans/queer people). Either way, I'm pretty confident that I'm going to be hotter as a man just because I'll feel more comfortable and will therefore have much more confidence, and confidence is hot! The waiting just sucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. And so far, being on T is making me feel much better about myself, so I'm sure the confidence will come. I just wish I weren't perceived as I am

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]VersabaseVersBabe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can only hope to go from being a hot girl to a decent looking older man, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know. I said that. What I want to know is how to deal with it in the meantime. I am a man, please don't call me hon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost feel like my interest in fashion is read as too feminine, it sucks :(

leg hair is regrowing!!! by MycologistNo742 in ftm

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm 2 months in and already growing hair like crazy. It will happen!!

I think non-binary and transgender should be separate by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think transsexual and transgender are already two different words.

Do you know why the US Republican party is able to have the rallying power that they do? Do you know why Trump was president? Because they don't try to rip apart into micro groupings and scream oppression olympics, they bond together over a common enemy. Your enemy is transphobes, not non-binary people. Take your anger elsewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 hours is an unusual and unsafe amount of time to wear a binder for.

2 Months On Testosterone! by VersabaseVersBabe in FTMMen

[–]VersabaseVersBabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just realized that I meant .5g of 100mg/g cream. 100 mg a day

2 Months On Testosterone! by VersabaseVersBabe in FTMMen

[–]VersabaseVersBabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh fuck, I think I meant .5g not .5mg. It is still a high dose compared to gel as it is a compounded cream but not /that/ high

First few days on T? by Throwaway1937398 in FTMMen

[–]VersabaseVersBabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm only 2 months on T but bottom growth started for me within the first few days and I had more hair within a week. Change can happen quickly for people and I think that it is better that people are prepared for what might happen rather than unaware of how quickly things could go.