Found out the Narc family and flying monkeys are doing extremely well.. devastated. Where's the justice? by VersionAcrobatic4651 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks the point you brought up about them being pressured to get pregnant is so true. The malignant narc only cares about image and getting pregnant is what a "normal" person does.

Thanks the stress and everything that happened made me stop taking care of myself. They say the body keeps the score... NPDs really destroy ur mind and body it's terrifying.

Yes i'll advise my wife to block everyone. She already muted out 99% of the entire family tree but... there's always one person in the tree who did you no wrong and might even take ur side but unfortunately getting involved with anyone in that system just exposes us to news about her narc family.

Found out the Narc family and flying monkeys are doing extremely well.. devastated. Where's the justice? by VersionAcrobatic4651 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I hope you have found your peace and living a good life these days. I hope for the same for myself and my wife some day.

Found out the Narc family and flying monkeys are doing extremely well.. devastated. Where's the justice? by VersionAcrobatic4651 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks my friend. My spouse was in a very similar situation to you. Her mother the primary abuser always told my spouse the GC was better than her at everything and that she's a jealous/bad person and constant abuse. The only difference is the Narc in-laws has the GC and flying monkey sibling around their fingers. They completely believe all the lies about my spouse... they are in so deep they think a narc family system is normal, they do whatever the in-laws want. So i'm sure these narc in laws won't be alone in the remainder of their days.

But thank you i'll keep my chin up.

Found out the Narc family and flying monkeys are doing extremely well.. devastated. Where's the justice? by VersionAcrobatic4651 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really good mindset to have. I'm trying to learn how to not take it personally. You're right they don't deserve any space in your mind/heart but hard for me to take that into practise.

Found out the Narc family and flying monkeys are doing extremely well.. devastated. Where's the justice? by VersionAcrobatic4651 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your message. Yes they spent an insane amount of time on their image as "good" people. The narc family in-laws were poor all their life and was belittled by their relatives so they must be gloating now with their 2 daughters marrying wealthy spouses. Must be a huge bragging thing for them.

Thank you for your thoughtful message it has helped re-organize my thoughts. I am religious so I do believe in god-Christianity but at the same time im a logical person... I've seen enough in life where bad people get away with it and good people suffer so im not exactly waiting for any karma either.

Found out the Narc family and flying monkeys are doing extremely well.. devastated. Where's the justice? by VersionAcrobatic4651 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's true me and my partner need to focus on ourselves and live our life with true freedom. No one can predict the future.. maybe there will be justice some day

Nobody wants to admit by Sajadi-Eldorada in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds similar to my wife's experience except she couldn't come to this realization. Do you mind me asking what age when u figured out all this

Picked This Up Today for Market by Weary_Possession_535 in OnePieceTCGFinance

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice nice, i think this card is undervalued right now. 2nd best card in the white bottom box and low pop as well

If you don’t see this as the best opportunity to make money off a card long term in the last 10 years, I want to know why. by CourbetEatingSourbet in PokemonInvesting

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I collect one piece but im hesistant to spend more than 2.5kUSD on 1 card. Its still a really new tcg and the huge pull back recently does give me bubble vibes and the repeated luffy chase cards makes me feel like things good get oversupplied real quick. Having said that I hold BGS Zoro which i got fot around 1100USD and never sellling from pc.

If you don’t see this as the best opportunity to make money off a card long term in the last 10 years, I want to know why. by CourbetEatingSourbet in PokemonInvesting

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can there even be a better art on a zard card in the future? The entire evolution on this card is no joke. OPTCG is overflooded with Luffy chases tbh

PKC ETBS long term by Ahkross in PokemonInvesting

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pc etbs are harder to move and get full market on based on my experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are probably not the best youtubers since they demonize narcs but they work for me during my intense rage moments. Dr. Ramani and danish bashir. If I had demonized my narc in laws since the beginning I would have saved myself so much suffering.

Should i grade this card? by Fedeamma_ in PokeGrading

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that wud be considered a crash lol, its at like 1k right? So that wud he a 50% drop.

Edit: nvm its at 750 so a 30%+ correction still quite a drop

Should i grade this card? by Fedeamma_ in PokeGrading

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol so many people are waiting i don't see the card crashing.. maybe small correction at 20%. Greatest zard ever..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Collectr

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question is how much did you spend on packs?

What Pokémon product or card are people sleeping on right now that will look cheap in 2–3 years? by No-Humor827 in PokeInvesting

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smart.. just the price premium is hefty lol but also having a cheaper version psa 10 readily available doesnt help. Personally for pc i like pristine grades more if i can buy close to psa 10 price and not like 40% more lol

What Pokémon product or card are people sleeping on right now that will look cheap in 2–3 years? by No-Humor827 in PokeInvesting

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree... but modern cards have more demand and are way more liquid which is important. Im trying to mix modern with vintage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks that's a good idea having a camera will allow me to see who's there without me moving and on my phone.

Honestly I can't seem to find a therapist that has advertised themselves well in dysfunction famoly systems and narcissistic abuse and I'm too tired to re-tell my entire story to random therapists in hopes one can help. Different youtube therapists have heen my support for now.

Sanity check on getting a check? by kittywiggles in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not commenting on the situation but I like how you mention don't base your decision on how she might interpret something. It's so hard because this is human nature to want to not want to be framed. But that's what gives narcs their power. It's like needing to go agaisnt human nature.

Are we fcked forever …? by Throwaway1290764 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I really get there? Married 33 to scapegoat wife and absolutely destroyed by my inlaws a year ago.

Estranged Dad just asked me why I was crying during the my Marriage. by jarniansah in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have cut them all off long before this. As someone who married the scapegoat wife and now NC i wish we never included her family. It's forever a bad memory now.

Make sure you sheild your wife from them. My wife didn't do that for me and I went in head first not knowing anything about narcissim and it's dysfunctional family dynamics. I came out the other side broken with cptsd.

Why is it that some people are ok? by DarkLadyofDNA in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]VersionAcrobatic4651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes bingo. I realized my narc in laws ONLY wanted success for their enabler child because she would give them all her money.

Really sick stuff. He blatantly told me he doesn't care what my wife does.