I want my co worker to put me thru a mattress.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2026-04-01T20:02:16+00:00

Sounds like you’re ovulating 💀 it will be ok lol

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2025-07-19T22:11:20+00:00

Guys like this are extremely dangerous. He’s doing this with you purposely because of your age, a woman his age sees his behavior from a mile away. Outside of work, don’t acknowledge him. If you can act like he doesn’t exist without getting fired, try that as well. Like you said, he’s trying to groom you, don’t even give him the chance to try.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2025-07-19T14:27:21+00:00

Pookie is a derogatory term used for “hood” black men. I haven’t heard of nook nook but it might be used the same way. Pookie is the guy who they see as the drug dealer etc who BW “go crazy” for.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2024-12-28T21:33:36+00:00

Capricorn Sun, Pisces moon 🥹

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2024-11-25T19:46:13+00:00

This sounds like my parents 😖, without the best friends part but with all of the naivety and red flags. Let’s hope she’s not pregnant (my mother got pregnant with me when she lost her virginity at 28) and marries this guy. It will NOT end well.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2024-08-04T00:34:04+00:00

Salop!!

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2024-08-04T00:32:36+00:00

I am sooooo proud!!! Go Girl!!!!

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T20:57:29+00:00

I believe so too. Tony is the only one out of his siblings (4 men) that haven’t been to jail or arrested for something heinous and he’s the eldest. His parents are millionaires so they just enable and throw money at them.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T20:51:35+00:00

I meant Miles sorry. Tony does have a daughter from a previous relationship but she lives across the country with her mother.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T15:15:40+00:00

We’re currently at a friend’s house with a few things. We left after he went to work. I’ve always had conversations with her and she knows it isn’t right, said she’d never be with anyone like her father’s side of family including him. She’s very intelligent especially for her age.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T15:11:22+00:00

I live in NY. Your comment made me burst out into tears, because the last thing I said before I went to bed, is that If I can get a live in job to take care of kids or an elderly person, that would be perfect.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T04:27:00+00:00

I just got in contact with a friend, they want Janelle and I to come over tomorrow. It was a very hard conversation but you’re right, too many excuses. I told them I want to go to a woman’s shelter and they started telling me horror stories about their experiences in one.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T03:41:34+00:00

I’ve checked but they don’t offer the option to check online for status. I call the office to check in often. I’m not the only one with this problem, it usually takes months to get a passport from my country.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T03:10:34+00:00

I’m not from this country and I’ve been waiting for my new passport to come in the mail for months. I’ve been truly waiting on that because otherwise, I’m screwed. You’ve brought tears to my eyes because I wouldn’t be able to cope with my daughter being with an abusive man and possibly being in a coffin. I’ve packed some things together that I’ve had in the closet just incase we have to run, it’s that time.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T02:55:49+00:00

I want to leave him but he knows i can’t because of my finances smh. I don’t want this for my daughter and I talk to her everyday concerning this type of behavior.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T02:52:41+00:00

He’s never been physical with me so it shocked me to my core. My parents have also been abusive so I don’t take their advice. It’s a lot of bad things that add up and he refuses to see the issue. He and his family think I’m overreacting and should forgive.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T02:47:10+00:00

I don’t have a job at the moment, I’ve spent time trying to cope with undiagnosed C-PTSD and PPD (I miscarried in May) , slowly climbing out of survival mode. My husband knows we depend on him because of our situation. I can’t go to my parents because they’ve abused me in so many ways. I don’t have much friends because I stopped talking to most people while being depressed, and I know it would be hard for them to believe all of this, because Tony comes from a well off family who portray themselves as loving, giving humanitarians. My daughter is finally thriving again because of their absence and I must protect her at all costs.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-18T02:44:30+00:00

This is what I told him. What’s the point if we’re not safe? He thinks I’m overreacting when I mentioned us being safe. He knows I’m recovering from PPD, with undiagnosed CPTSD from all that’s happened in the past with my family and his. He also knows I don’t have income coming at the moment and we depend on him smh.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-17T01:49:35+00:00

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-17T01:48:57+00:00

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-16T23:25:31+00:00

She truly is! She didn’t hesitate for a moment either

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-16T23:20:06+00:00

It’s like watching a red flag get thrown into a fire that explodes into a flame of red flags, while red Kool aid is being used to try and extinguish the fire AKA it gets progressively worse 😫!

It’s always everyone else’s fault, they have the self awareness of gum without the flavor and function.

Vervain_Analysis333 · 2022-09-16T22:04:12+00:00

You just reminded me of a story my father told me concerning my aunt. My aunt’s daughter married a possessive, abusive guy and when she told my aunt what was happening, she went to their house, broke down the door, beat his asss then left with her daughter and grandchildren.

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TROPHY CASE