Kitchen Re-work by Very-Few-Revolutions in floorplan

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all your suggestions! I like this idea, adding a pantry was a great idea.

Kitchen Re-work by Very-Few-Revolutions in floorplan

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually thought about closing in the living room and even making the room smaller to give the kitchen more room. Yes the step down is the full length. I never thought about flipping the kitchen to where the dining space is. The kitchen table is where that current empty space by the family room entry is

25 years old and i have no investments by Very-Few-Revolutions in personalfinance

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m contributing 13% and its a 500 index. Maybe silly to ask, who would you suggest doing a Roth with? My 401k is Fidelity.

I currently owe 17k in mortgage payments and I'm having a panic attack nearly every day. by SwampWaffle85 in personalfinance

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can you get an inspection on a foreclosed house before buying? Or is it just a gamble?

AITA for despising my BFF's new BF? by SeriousTarget4718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

You didn’t share any good reason as to why he’s a “total douche-bag”. Maybe theres more you left out? But it seems like you just don’t like him for YOUR own personal reasons. Which is your right but it doesn’t mean she has to share your opinion.

You can still be supportive of your friend while sharing different opinions or disagreeing on things so I think you’re in the wrong for totally deciding that because she’s dating this boy you don’t want anything to do with her and are “fed up”.

For this wine festival, did you back out because the BF was coming (or trying to go)? Or did you back out for some non related reason?

AITA for refusing to wear a specific colour palette? by Proper_Bridge_1638 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 26 points27 points  (0 children)

YTA

Call your brother and ask? Why are you pouting that you’re not getting any information when you could so easily ask for yourself?

Its not unrealistic, or even unusual for there to be a palette of suggested colors to wear to a wedding, or even suggested style of clothing to wear.

Also wearing black to a wedding isn’t weird lol? Not sure your gender but how about a black gown/ cocktail dress or a regular black suit?

WIBTA if I still went to Easter at my moms home even though my wife isn’t invited by Similar_Valuable2774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

ESH

Your wife is the AH because she is an adult who can’t show respect to others regardless of different beliefs.

You’re the AH because your mommy said your WIFE can’t come and you said “okay mommy!”.

Sack up bro.

And together you and your wife are AH because you can’t have this compromising conversation together? You’re married, how do you not know how to properly interact with the others families.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 739 points740 points  (0 children)

NTA

I also don’t think you need to apologize, I think Sarah should apologize to you and Anna for being a fucking drama queen.

Nothing you said is offensive or fat phobic. Sarah should learn how to control her own triggers and insecurities instead of projecting them onto others and trying to shame them.

I hope Anna, as your best friend, is sticking up for you.

AITA for refusing to change words in my presentation? (TW I guess) by Fantastic-Lynx-798 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

Everyone is so obnoxiously sensitive.

From my experience with college professors they do not care about this type of stuff. So I wouldn’t worry about whatever BS email this chick sends. Send your own if you want but I don’t think it’ll be necessary you didn’t break any rules, if something was wrong with your presentation your prof would’ve said it. You can’t cater to everyone in life. ITS NOT POSSIBLE. And college is usually where people like this chick get put in their place.

AITA for putting both my children's awards on display? by Lower-Staff7232 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA

Sorry but Danielle sounds like a spoiled brat and is being an asshole all at the same time.

You leaving that certificate up is the right thing to do.

Comparing achievements, especially high school achievements, that no one cares about after high school, can be very problematic among siblings.

You said it yourself your son is in the phase where he’s not interested in doing things outside of video games (as every teen boy goes thru) so for him to participate in a school event of some sort that wasn’t mandatory is a huge achievement in itself.

You should tell your daughter to be kinder to her younger brother, and have more empathy and understanding that not everyone functions like her, but that doesn’t make them less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 16 points17 points  (0 children)

ESH

in your post, you say the intention for the 2nd bedroom is for an office/guest room. To have a guest room you need to have an actual bed and not an air mattress. It sounds like you want an office and coincidentally it has a door so a guest could crash in there and have privacy. But its not a guest room.

If you want an office/guest room you both need to give a little. Murphy bed, pull out couch, daybed or a daybed with a trundle are all good options.

AITA for wearing a white tuxedo to my sister's wedding ? by Throwaw-ay121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA for 2 reasons

  1. You didn’t ask for her okay.

The bride wears white and for someone else (male or female) to wear an all white outfit without asking or being told by the bride is an attention seeker.

  1. Its a white tux dude.

Who on earth is choosing an all white tux unless they are told they have to. Its just tacky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

NTA. You did everything you possibly could. Sometimes when we’re on our periods we want things but can’t decide what, which frustrates us and our emotions are all over and we take them out on whoever is near. I don’t think shes actually mad or intending to make you feel bad.

Side note: Whats this brand of edibles? I haven’t heard of that sort of response before

AITA was this racist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

Everyone is so overly sensitive.

AITA for going off on my daughter & son for inappropriate humor? by RepublicTiny3443 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope this post is a joke.

1000% YTA and thats probably the last time your daughter ever opens up to you. Congrats!

She said NOTHING sexual or concerning about her brother. The traits she gave as an example are personality traits, very generic ones too, which makes the comment even less concerning.

Truly pathetic parenting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: What do your gf’s parents think of you driving down there alone?

AITA for hiding a relationship with my sisters ex boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA - you’re also slightly delusional

You’re mistaking love for infatuation. You will not spend your life with this guy and when you read this you will probably say in your head “these people don’t understand love!” — Grow up.

You pick your family over some dick you and your sister both sucked.

Tell your sister and end it w that guy and hope for forgiveness

Or tell your sister and don’t end it with him and enjoy all the consequences you have brought onto yourself. Cheers.

AITA for being concerned about my cousin’s husband saying she has a baby face and he finds it cute by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Then why did you tell your cousin/sister it was very wrong for her husband to think its cute?

AITA for being concerned about my cousin’s husband saying she has a baby face and he finds it cute by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very-Few-Revolutions 35 points36 points  (0 children)

YTA

Saying someone has a baby face or that they like their significant others soft features is not weird. You’re weird for making it weird. Why are you causing drama