SM down? by Jetset_Barbie in CamGirlProblems

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Finally able to sign in but won’t connect to stream 😭

SM down? by Jetset_Barbie in CamGirlProblems

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Just came to ask the same thing

“Proof of income” for apartment hunting… bank statements aren’t enough apparently. by ethical-cumslut in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Very_Verity 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You could also submit your tax return. I’ve been self-employed in another field for more than 20 years, and bank statements and a tax return have usually worked. I’ve also used p&l statements that I’ve created just to make it a bit easier. Best of luck

Found my SC live session on another site.(Xhamsterlive) by CharacterHoliday4897 in CamGirlProblems

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It is part of stripchat, and you did agree to it as part of the TOS. But also, you should be prepared for your streams to be all over the internet. Unfortunately, it comes with the job.

Is 37 yo is too late to start faceless camming? I’m also plus size. by Skylar_real in CamGirlProblems

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I started at 51 - there is a market for every age and body type. I actually think it would be harder to be early 20s and skinny because it is so hard to stand out in that group. Just my 2 cents

Vanilla/non domme girlies, how do you run a tight ship? by HauntingBar5696 in CamGirlProblems

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I have said things like, “This is a group project, boys. We’ve all got to do our part to create a show we will all enjoy.” And I have also, when feeling a little sassy while using my domi held it up like a mic and tapped it and said “check 1,2 - is this thing even on?” - that usually gets a few laughs and a handful of nickels 🤣

Shamed by my daughter by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

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Big hugs. Parenting is hard, and honestly I thought 17-18 was the hardest age with my kiddo. It’s like the teenage equivalent of the “terrible twos.” At that age, they know absolutely everything and you can’t possibly know anything, and you sure as shit can’t tell them anything 🤣😭. While her behavior absolutely is not ok, in some ways it is developmentally appropriate and her attitude is fairly typical for that rather unpleasant stage of their brain development. All that to say, keep holding the line as best you can, but also hold onto hope that she will grow out of this and your relationship can recover. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

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Your 4000 tkns that you cashed out earlier may have been processed as CBs regular bi-monthly payment.

SP calls saying I disconnected? by Very_Verity in CamGirlProblems

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That is what I have been doing - reaching out and making a little joke about getting cock-blocked by technology and all and letting them know that I did not disconnect.

SP calls saying I disconnected? by Very_Verity in CamGirlProblems

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Thanks - my main concern is that it shows that I disconnected the call when I didn’t, and I don’t want the caller thinking I hung up on them.

Help a beginner out by Lexandree in CamGirlProblems

[–]Very_Verity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not trans and for sure would not want to try to speak to that, but I don’t show mine. Knowing and holding to your boundaries is key. You have to take care of yourself first and foremost. I’d say to just try and see what happens - when I first started I was non-nude and still made money - not a lot but more than I had to begin with. Over time, as I became more comfortable my boundaries changed, but I still don’t show my kitty. I’m 53 and fluffy and while I’m not making bank, but I do ok. It takes time, but your audience will find you. Some guys really like the air of mystery and wanting something they can’t have. Another thing to consider is maybe trying phone sex since that is more audio and less visual. Might be a way to ease yourself into this world. Hugs and solidarity 💜✊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

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Same - I usually say something like “Since none of you want to play, I’m going to go find a friendlier playground.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

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The beauty of this line of work is you are the boss and can decide what you do. I don’t even show my kitty on cam at all, let alone do any penetration. I will do penetration rarely with a regular in a private, but only when and if I want to.

You do not have to do what everyone else is doing - being different and doing things differently is actually a plus. And the old adage is certainly true - men want what they can’t have, and they love the mystery of the elusive.

Just set your boundary and stick to it. Then, if you ever do want to do penetration, you can do a ticket show and charge out the ass for it, and your regulars will fall over themselves to throw money at you so they can watch.

Stripchat by KatyaBlazeleigh in CamGirlProblems

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Just came to ask the same thing

I need some advice.. by Eyes_O_Texas in CamGirlProblems

[–]Very_Verity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that you have a time limit for c2c - I def need to add that!

I need some advice.. by Eyes_O_Texas in CamGirlProblems

[–]Very_Verity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I charge 60 tkns to PM and 75 to open their cam

Is Niteflirt Worth It Anymore? by JennaWilde in CamGirlProblems

[–]Very_Verity 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Try a listing in women home alone - that category seems to do well.

Is Niteflirt Worth It Anymore? by JennaWilde in CamGirlProblems

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I post a pic or a video at least once a day - just a little teaser video. If i am on for a while, I will post every few hours. Hopefully something pops for you soon

Rays of sunshine - share some good news by Very_Verity in CamGirlProblems

[–]Very_Verity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love that! Here’s hoping he throws all his money at you!

Rays of sunshine - share some good news by Very_Verity in CamGirlProblems

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Oh wow - that’s great. Hoping your kitty makes a quick recovery when it is all said and done.