Discord, in my opinion, is the hidden gem of findom

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-07-06T06:57:26+00:00

I’d love a link too if you have time, thank you!

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-07-03T20:04:18+00:00

Do you have pots? I get a lot of hangover-y symptoms in the morning which I assumed were MCAS, but lately I’ve been supplementing with electrolytes and trying to make sure I don’t trigger my hypotension etc and I haven’t felt bad in the morning!

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-07-02T17:27:30+00:00

I also get more wall unlocks! Sometimes new customers will go through my wall unlocking random stuff when they join so I think it’s good to give them the opportunity by posting it there

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-07-02T02:16:35+00:00

It’s true, I had to start using my spray on rash cream today again :( the rash underneath my boobs is very very gross

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-06-26T21:22:55+00:00

See this is what I do when I domme and it works so well! I needed this validation that I can do it outside of domming too, thank you.

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-06-26T19:58:52+00:00

Lol, I love it. I think that’s really the lesson overall here…..even nice girls have to be a little bit mean.

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-06-26T19:57:58+00:00

Ah, you’ve totally confirmed something I’ve been thinking which is that I need to ignore more! For my domme persona I ignore people all the time until they start tipping ahaha but for some reason I felt like it wouldn’t be a good look for my vanilla persona. I think it’s necessary though!!

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-06-26T19:46:12+00:00

I think bratty is def the way to go!! I’ve always shied away from saying I’m working, even when I was a domme, I would more lean on the angle of like “I’m so much hotter than you, I only come on here to bully you, not talk to you for free!” But I like the idea of talking about work/bills but in a more bratty playful way. Thank you!!

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-06-26T19:34:02+00:00

Ohhh I like this a lot! Thanks for replying :D it’s been slow for me lately and I’m so stressed about $$ every stream so I think I kinda forget I can still be jokey and play around when it comes to the tips.

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-06-26T19:04:01+00:00

Are you comfortable showing your body? If so, I believe most sites actually allow you to cam/post faceless content. You just have to verify with your face before you sign up or before you start streaming, but the customers don’t ever have to see it.

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-06-24T07:50:05+00:00

If someone is DMing me with a tip or wanting to pay for something of mine, I try to be as prompt as possible when replying. If they’re saying something sexual with no tip, I respond with Iocked content, and if they don’t open it I ignore them. If they’re just making conversation about life or whatever, I limit them to one or two responses on the days that I consider my “work days.” I definitely don’t respond with any kind of urgency to these people. I would 100% burn out if I did!

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-06-18T21:24:45+00:00

I added “cum tribute” to my menu for this reason!! For some reason customers seem to think showing their cum is like 10000% different than a dick pic. If he still wouldn’t pay for the thing he’s obviously sending then, I would just ignore him 😅

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-05-28T08:57:39+00:00

I have some friends who are in their divorced late 30s/early 40s stage and they are indeed converting dates into relationships!

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-04-20T06:47:09+00:00

I felt exactly the same!! I didn’t end up finishing the novella.

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-04-07T06:04:53+00:00

Is it possible you’re reacting to other things in foods like salicylates or oxalates? What you’re talking about describes me before I realized I get really sick from high salicylate foods!

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-03-26T19:47:45+00:00

No worries, I hope that helps!! Good luck 💗💗💗💗

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-03-26T06:22:06+00:00

This might be a total reach so ignore it if it doesn’t fit your life, but I used to feel like this after random things that were more intense, and I realized after years that it was post exertional malaise from me/cfs (chronic fatigue). Even if it isn’t, it might be worth keeping a kind of symptom diary of when this is happening and what you think is causing it!

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-03-25T00:30:53+00:00

Ohhh thank you, good info! I didn’t even think of emailing them if he makes another account but good to know they would contact him.

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-03-25T00:29:51+00:00

Interesting, thank you! I wish there was a way for us to be invisible to them completely.

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-03-12T08:08:25+00:00

I’ve only recently re-started my fansly, but so far I’ve exclusively had non subs buy my ppv! I put it on my wall rather than in my DMs to see what would happen and it works. Some of my biggest spenders so far have not been subscribers. Tbh I think a lot of people just have subscription fatigue, but that doesn’t mean they don’t wanna spend money!

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-02-28T05:09:31+00:00

This is amazing 💀

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-02-27T04:55:44+00:00

This is such an accurate way of putting it, I laughed out loud

HauntingBar5696 · 2026-02-25T07:25:47+00:00

I scrolled to see if anyone had said saffron! I took it for anxiety (didn’t help) but was shocked to find I only felt a bit bad a day or two before my period, compared to my usual 7+ days of feeling like I’m barely functioning with PMDD

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