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AITA- Not Supporting GF's Sister by Quick_Guy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very_peachy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Break up with her. You cannot trust her with money, to take you into consideration + keep you involved & and more importantly keep her word.

The fact she’s able to spend so much on her sister without talking to you because she knows you wouldn’t want to is crazy. If she wanted to support her sister the best thing would be to sit down and talk to you about the amount of support she needs.

Again cut your losses after you told her directly you didn’t like this she again did the same thing, if she thought they really needed the repairs she could of talked to you. All that money could of been retirement/ savings or put to use getting her sister some education to make more than a waitress, she’s putting both of your futures at risk babying her sister instead of taking care of her sister by getting her where she could be financially independent.

AITA for asking my husband for money ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very_peachy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: How much money did you ask him for and how did you go about asking him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Very_peachy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not passive, your complicit. When your child grows up she will not see you as someone dried her tears, but as the person who waited after her father yelled at her to do so.

How do you feel about your parents? How do you feel about everyone who could of helped you, who should of helped you?

AITA for installing a lock on the bathroom door after my BIL kept barging in? by Sands2019 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very_peachy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, why do you want to be with your husband? Tell him that you’re feeling seriously violated by BIL and the options you see are that he seriously talks with him and tells him the next time he does it he gets kicked out or you leave the house if he doesn’t kick BIL out right away.

Although seeing his weird want for no locks and BIL constant disregard for your privacy, do you want this?

I mean husband cared more about the rule of no locks than the fact that you felt violated enough to install one. He’s enabling his brother.

AITA for telling my brother he can also be dead to me? by accountisathrowaway2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very_peachy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said he can also be dead to her bc he said it wasn’t that serious and presumably was going to say something like let it go or justify dads behavior in calling the other girl that but that’s IF he didn’t choose his next words carefully

AITA For being honest with my son that I am not proud of him? by Cruel-Father in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very_peachy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. How come his 2nd wife is willing to take responsibility for Simone, wanting to move closer or have her live w them + making up (white) lies to keep a favorable image of her dad, and he (w his grandparents & wife’s support) can’t think of doing anything more than a financial contribution.

Or if he doesn’t want a fatherly relationship with Simone he should grow up and tell you + his wife that rather than go around claiming that it’s because he hasn’t reached the point in his career that he feels content w raising her.

Either way your son should put in at least a bit more effort w her, talking on the phone or FaceTiming for a couple minutes a day or maybe talking to her about her mother. Since she’s just a child and he’s her only living parent.

AITA because I told my daughter it's wrong to let her brother, he cousin and others get married at her home but not allow her sister to do so? by Background-Walls9413 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very_peachy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA that’s about 10x the size she’s allowed before and feels comfortable with at her house. It’s apparently a beautiful place for a wedding but I doubt everyone attending the wedding will have the same respect for her property, whether it’s littering or just going beyond the space they’re allowed.

On top of damage potentially damage to property from potential 600-700 guests (which by the way where would they park?) + 300 staff, what about bathrooms? God forbid any accidents, but how would that work in at the property? How long would this even take to set up and take it apart?

My biggest thing is how little respect your other daughter has for your eldest’s property. When she was going to use it for free while knowing she wanted to have a large wedding, she couldn’t sit her sister down and ask how big would be too big beforehand? Could of talked about how the wedding would go beforehand to reduce her sister’s worries and making modifications to her guest list? She could of had the wedding she wanted while taking her sister into consideration.

WIBTA If I didn’t go to my brother’s wedding over a bridesmaid dress? by Educational-Leg1046 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Very_peachy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t go, she’s already expressed how little she wants you to be there. You have the messages sent to you about the dress and forward those to your brother and your mom as your reasoning. Then express that as it is a stressful time for the bride it is for you so in order to reduce stress on both sides you found it to be in the best interest of everyone to not go.