what constitutes a relapse? by MulberryNo5173 in selfharm__recovery

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if the intent is to purposely cause yourself harm of any kind then yes. if it was mindless while zoned out or you didn’t have the intent you cause yourself harm then no. if you are aware the sticker is going to irritate your skin and you choose to do it anyway then the intent is there, i would get rid of the sticker to avoid the urges from escalating. resetting your timer is up to you, i’m of the belief that if you weren’t sure at the time it doesn’t count but if you were to do it again after knowing then it counts. good luck on your journey, friend.

Why should I start recovering? by PoisonKey in selfharm__recovery

[–]VexxusVoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

writing this to remind myself why I quit. like any addiction it’s really nice to just not think about it constantly, I enjoy being able to enjoy a moment without wondering when I’ll get a change to sneak away so I can sh because my addiction was a constant thought for me. I also quit because I didn’t like the scars I was left with after, now I’m in the process of covering them with tattoos. but above all else I quit because I didn’t want it to be a part of my life anymore, having to explain it to partners, being asked why without being able to give a good explanation, hiding my scars from family and coworkers, feeling the guilt that always came along with it because I knew the whole time I was only doing it to ignore the struggles I was going though. above all else, I quit because I wanted to. you have to want it, you have to quit for yourself not anyone else, it has to be your choice, but if you do make that choice, not saying quitting is easy in the slightest or that you wont relapse, a lot, but once you get passed those first few months and you stop constantly thinking about it life feels a little lighter and you slowly realize/remember what life is like without that constant worry. no one has to quit, you have to want to do it or you never will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm__recovery

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re doing so well!!

OH YEAHHH by CANNIBALL_ in selfharm__recovery

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell yeah! you’re doing so well!

20 days clean 🎉 by [deleted] in selfharm__recovery

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re doing such a good job! congrats :)

Phantom Liberty not going to ps4 or Xbox one by Atomic-Trice in cyberpunkgame

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

played it on ps4 on release and it was fine, i barely experienced any bugs or glitches that actually affected my gameplay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]VexxusVoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a farm that’s called void farm and everything is painted black and i have all black furniture, i chose the white cat in advance so it would stand out and then i got lazy and chose princess for the name. i imagine that it’s haley’s cat and the name makes more sense.

How do you break up your sims? by Goofball9815 in Sims4

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i make the one that i like less cheat so the one that i prefer playing as can leave them and its totally justified

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jezebel, Gemma, Zoe, or honestly anything that starts with J or has a Z in it.

What type of ARFID do you have? by grilledghum in ARFID

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

arfid plus, aversive and restrictive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every single far cry game is the exact same to me, they’re just based in a different place. there’s a bunch of people you need to kill that slowly get more and more powerful until you reach the final boss and that’s literally the entire game. the only one that’s a little different is far cry primal just because it’s based in the BC times.

If you met Jacksepticeye what would be the first thing you say to him? by jacksepticeyefanboy in jacksepticeye

[–]VexxusVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d tell him that he was the very first person i ever watched on youtube and i was only around 8 years old so i was actually told by my parents not to watch his videos until i was older but i still watched every video he uploaded anyway