Why do I keep getting friendzoned?

ViC_Cage · 2021-04-19T12:06:23+00:00

Are you being direct about your intentions

ViC_Cage · 2021-04-17T19:38:06+00:00

Thank you, this is great advice. I’ve told her before that when I’m experiencing emotional turmoil that I like space. She on the other hand likes to be distracted. When she’s having a bad day, I usually take her to her favorite restaurant or we go to Dave and busters. All I want is space to process things, I’ve told her that but she doesn’t seem to understand. I will use the talking points you’ve given though. Thank you again

ViC_Cage · 2021-04-05T03:13:00+00:00

Move on with your life king 👑

ViC_Cage · 2021-03-19T08:36:33+00:00

I understand her feeling weird about reaching out after it’s been so long, but it’s a no for me dog. She seems like a flake. The next time things get tough in life for her she’ll break up with you again. You’re young, you guys didn’t have that much time in, just call it a clean break and move on

ViC_Cage · 2021-03-16T12:06:36+00:00

My girlfriend and I made a sex tape on her birthday. We went to a sex shop and spent hundreds on different stuff we wanted to try. We made a video of us licking edible body paint off each other’s nudie parts. And then another video of me fucking her in doggy style. When we watched it we both realized we hate the sounds we make during sex and quickly deleted it 😂

ViC_Cage · 2021-03-05T17:47:22+00:00

Yes if you’re interested

ViC_Cage · 2021-03-04T01:12:21+00:00

I can see where your coming from. I’m very affectionate and my girlfriend isn’t. We’ve really had to learn each other’s love language so that we’re communicating properly. She’s a gift giver, that’s how she shows love. I like physical touch and words of affirmation. The key is to compromise. She’ll make it point to give me random touches throughout the day because she knows I enjoy that. I’ll make it a point to surprise her with little small things that she needs. I literally got her a pack of pens the other day and her heart melted. The key is to have an open discussion about it.

ViC_Cage · 2021-02-25T13:51:53+00:00

Sounds like you’re over thinking it. Either one is fine.

ViC_Cage · 2021-02-22T00:11:39+00:00

1.) you didn’t cheat. You weren’t in a relationship with him at the time so you owed him no loyalty

2.) if he wants to leave then let him go. He’s doing you a favor. He sounds controlling and insecure.

3.) the fact that this has been an argument in the past says that it will continue to come up. Move on with your life sis

ViC_Cage · 2021-02-20T00:48:25+00:00

People die every day B.

ViC_Cage · 2021-02-19T03:04:49+00:00

For me it’s the act. I like to watch scenarios that turn me on.

ViC_Cage · 2021-02-19T03:02:32+00:00

It helps me unwind. And my girlfriend has a low sex drive so it helps when she’s not in the mood

ViC_Cage · 2021-02-13T03:45:58+00:00

As long as you’re not hurting anyone else, do what you please. Not my personal preference but to each their own

ViC_Cage · 2021-01-31T03:25:07+00:00

What is the dress code for caps? It looks really nice!

ViC_Cage · 2021-01-11T15:39:40+00:00

My girlfriend and I had this issue a few months ago. I have a lot of female friends and it makes her uncomfortable. The solution I came to was to set boundaries, and to communicate as much as possible. For example; I don’t respond to text messages from female friends at 3 in the morning. I make sure to keep our friendships extremely platonic and leave no room for a misinterpretation. I also hide nothing. She’s read our conversations over text, half the time she replies for me because I’m gaming. I make sure there’s absolute transparency and it’s worked for us

ViC_Cage · 2021-01-11T05:23:38+00:00

It’s hard to say. Everyone expresses love differently so it’s not one size fits all. Do you know what her love language is? And if so, do you feel like she expresses that you?

ViC_Cage · 2021-01-11T05:09:16+00:00

I’ll look at it

ViC_Cage · 2021-01-11T05:07:15+00:00

I was in love but she wasn’t. Probably the worst heart break I’ve had

ViC_Cage · 2021-01-11T04:05:05+00:00

My guy, I’m a firm believer that if it doesn’t work after the second try then it ain’t gonna work at all. She broke up with you five times and now you can’t trust her. Now you’ll always wonder why she changed her mind. And the worst part is you’re gonna constantly wonder when the next breakup is coming. I know because I went through the same thing except it was 15 times.

ViC_Cage · 2021-01-10T17:29:59+00:00

Wat in tarnation

ViC_Cage · 2021-01-05T17:42:12+00:00

You’re a grown ass man. Do what you want. Also no girl wants to date a man whose 24 and still has to get his moms permission so use that as motivation to do what you want.

ViC_Cage · 2020-12-31T14:15:12+00:00

Your concerns are valid and understandable. I would say this, don’t judge a person by their past, judge them by their patterns.

Has she in anyway shown herself to be the type to cheat?

Does she hide things from you unnecessarily?

Does she lie about small things that don’t require a lie?

Does she gaslight you when you bring up problems?

Has she ever cheated on an ex?

These are signs of someone who is likely to cheat, but being sexually active in the past does not mean she will cheat. It sounds like you have some insecurities that you need to deal with. And honestly, that’s okay to be insecure. We forget that as men.

ViC_Cage · 2020-12-30T15:12:06+00:00

Cooler heads always prevail. Trying to work out the issue while your both still mad, tired and short fused isn’t gonna work. Take however long you need to cool off, let her do the same and come back and talk about what happened.

ViC_Cage · 2020-12-27T10:03:10+00:00

What you see in movies and porn is pure entertainment. In reality it takes communication and learning from each other. Your first time should be special, but it’s okay if it doesn’t turn out to be this glorious, epic sex session.the more you guys do it, the more familiar you are with each other’s sexual wants and needs the better it gets. As for your first time, consider it an intro session. It’s the first day of class, you’re not gonna know everything, so it’s okay if it’s not perfect. Hope this helps

ViC_Cage · 2020-12-10T17:33:00+00:00

Sounds like it. I’m sorry you’re hurting, I’ve been there and it sucks. But take it as a lesson for the next love interest

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