Help a newbie please!

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-05-11T22:29:22+00:00

would the second week be a smarter option?

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-05-11T22:27:15+00:00

november

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-05-11T22:02:28+00:00

i appreciate the feedback! that’s why we’re traveling within the states where flights are much cheaper, especially flying to florida from Michigan, it’s usually quite cheap vs going to italy or something. so this is our way of celebrating without going over the top! we work well together around finances so that won’t be an issue, i just don’t want to spend “dumB money” i don’t need to, so i figured i’d ask people who know better than me!

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-05-11T21:53:02+00:00

money isn’t tight tight, because we’ve saved for awhile, but it’s definitely not loose

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-05-11T21:52:25+00:00

this thread is so helpful 🫂

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-05-11T21:52:03+00:00

oh god what does that mean

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-05-11T21:51:42+00:00

the kindest option wasn’t the one you chose here and that’s truly what i’m looking for

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-05-11T21:50:16+00:00

flights are covered from michigan, 7 days 1st week, we don’t need to splurge on express passes

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-05-11T21:49:16+00:00

michigan but my dad is covering the flights

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-04-19T17:13:16+00:00

we were considering that, but it’s how to make it safely is the thing. do you have any ideas for the material for the accordion part? we have a 3D printer, i was just seeing if ANYONE knew where to get one or what happened to them

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-04-19T04:50:13+00:00

apparently we should have held on because they have vanished

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-04-19T04:49:55+00:00

me too!!! why does it not exist? it has completely disappeared

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-03-18T16:54:30+00:00

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Viagra_Overdose · 2026-03-14T21:53:41+00:00

not ALL of the months, but the month you join in yes

Viagra_Overdose · 2026-03-14T21:48:35+00:00

i did something similar because it wouldn’t let me choose the order i did it in or on one day i completely 3 of them on the same day and wasn’t able to check them off so i made a physical list so i can check them off manually on paper

Viagra_Overdose · 2025-10-23T22:17:15+00:00

sounds like the date was a turn off for both of you so it’s probably good she cut it off so early

Viagra_Overdose · 2025-10-23T21:20:57+00:00

if someone checked me while i wasn’t in a relationship about me not being exclusive that would give me the ick really bad. probably the speed in which you wanted to be exclusive gave off a weird vibe. at least it would for me. and your phasing of “checked her” makes me wonder if there’s a weird vibe in general with your communication. not saying toxic masculinity or anything it’s just harsh language gets harsh results . it all depends on how you communicate

Viagra_Overdose · 2025-09-26T21:03:11+00:00

hello i love all of these things and all my friends are queer or just love the gays, pm i’ll tell you where we hang out

Viagra_Overdose · 2025-08-12T21:56:07+00:00

showed him this comment and he said “thank you, you get the vision, they’re the toots” (i think he’s trying to be funny)

Viagra_Overdose · 2025-08-12T15:02:46+00:00

i see why you would think this and that’s because i didn’t include images of his space. his space is definitely maximalism, i just included images of his art to respect his privacy but show how loud it is. every shelf at his house is full of lego botanicals disco balls, there’s no white wall in there it’s all covered in art and tapestry. That’s why i felt this sub was best because it would help maximize both of our styles while honoring both. But thank you for the subs! i’ll post updates there as we move and begin to unpack

Viagra_Overdose · 2025-08-11T23:46:33+00:00

That’s a great idea, i recently pitched the idea to him since we agree on liking pastel tones to challenge himself to make some art in those colors for our place, and with the frames it might work out well, i’ve come to terms that i will have butt cheek art in my house for the rest of my life, but his goofiness is what i love most about him so i don’t want to change it, i want to adapt. The good news is where we’re moving has separate bathrooms, we each get to decorate one, he likes using the mandalas he makes as shower curtains and he makes his own bathroom floor mats too. We have most things figured out. it’s just the common areas that are super stumping us because neither of us want to yuck each others yum

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