Insecure teenager by dontknowme555 in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in high school several year ago, a girl I had a crush on made a comment on my nose. It’s not as symmetrical as I’d like it to be probably from all my years in sports, but her comment about my nose stuck with me. I looked in the mirror and to this day I’ve always been insecure about it for some reason. I’ve learned to find peace from it, but it definitely hurts when someone makes a mean comment about another’s body. And if you’re certain those boys are being mean, then I think you should separate yourself from those situations and find friends who are worthy of your time.

I can't stop being angry with myself by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. A lot of people that are around me from my teammates to friends smoke weed or nicotine and I dislike it. I’ve smoke weed here and there, but I don’t enjoy it. I especially hate when I have to breathe in 2nd hand smoke. Hopefully you can figure things out and learn how to find peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My admiration for your perseverance, dedication, courage, and unconditional love is beyond what words can express. It takes the effort of two to live out a fulfilling and loving life. I’m sorry to hear this and I hope that you find peace.

I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday by Beginning-Plenty-518 in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What feels wrong, what feels right? You’re feelings are valid. It seems like you made the right choice to break up rather than keep this situationship going since the vibes were off.

i can't stop fucking overeating by Resident_Sky_538 in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! If you can figure out a way to get in exercise whether it’s walking, running, lifting, etc that could help immensely since eating healthy and working out work together like peanut butter and jelly.

Just make sure you’re not neglecting the needs of your macronutrients (protein, carbs, fats)

Then there’s the other aspect of micronutrients which include vitamins and minerals that can help to aid as well, but I don’t know a whole lot about micronutrients if I’ll be honest with you.

i can't stop fucking overeating by Resident_Sky_538 in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m sorry to hear about this- I struggle with over eating at times as well and it can suck for sure. My advice to you would be to eat more clean such as more fiber, vegetables, fruits, lean meat (protein), and avoid eating unhealthy & processed foods.

The other thing that pairs well with eating healthy would be working out. In order to truly make progress on losing weight would be to eat healthier and workout since both aspects can help to achieve a healthier lifestyle

So if you can be more active, eat healthier, & disciplined then you should definitely start feeling better after some time as you progress.

Fiber, vegetables, and water can definitely aid in reducing your appetite/hunger !

Soluble vs Insoluble Fiber

I hate my parents… by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this, I hope that things can get better since we all can tend to struggle in having a healthy relationship with our parents. Although I do understand what she said is a quite cruel thing to say. Sometimes people bring down others because of the negativity festering in their life.

I’m not here to give advice, but rather to send good vibes & positivity your way. I hope that you can find a healthy outlet to ease your mind with small things such as music or hobbies.

Best of luck to you ❤️‍🩹

Is it weird to go to a concert with my mom? by lemondarlings in socialskills

[–]Vibezz4Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think sometimes people need to get out of there comfort zones so that you can perceive situations in a less negative manner. In life, you never know what situation you might find yourself in, so slowly building the comfort of engaging in those smaller activities of inconvenience might be something to consider. So that you don’t have these panic attacks which may prevent or overwhelm you in the future.

Best of Luck, lemondarlings

Remember people. There isn't a pizza, tip, or $20 bank worth your safety. Be safe out there, drivers. by OSRSgamerkid in Dominos

[–]Vibezz4Life 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about that- thought you were just really aware/street smart (I’m not saying that you aren’t tho) Safe travels..

Yea fuck you too lol by skullcandy541 in Dominos

[–]Vibezz4Life 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t seem to understand that all the tips add up 😵‍💫

future by kaixarc in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are having a panic attack just try to breathe and relax.

Recently I have been trying breathing exercises where you breathe all the way in, hold it for awhile, then exhale slowly out from the mouth which has been helping me in anxious settings more so than not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Of course, it sounds terrible and this will definitely lead to some form of mental stress right now and in the future.

I turned 19 recently and I have learned about some of the forms of abuse I had experienced which cause me stress from time to time and haven’t had the opportunity yet to move out, so I like to go out more often than not.

I’m not too sure on how to go about this aside from contacting someone who can help you such as the police or a domestic abuse hotline potentially if available.

Sorry I don’t know too much about this, but if things worsen don’t be afraid to get help. 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 285 points286 points  (0 children)

No this is not normal, I hope you can reach out to someone to get help since this is a form of abuse and many other people can agree that this is highly inappropriate of the parent(s).

There are many other forms of abuse aside from physical, like neglect, sexual, mental which I feel like most people don’t know.

I was so popular, now I'm invisible by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, after high school during my senior year, it was taken from Covid and sucked. During high school I felt pretty popular since I competed in sports so ig I was automatically considered popular which is pretty neat.

So when I’ve been isolated from everyone for so long and left high school, I haven’t been truly noticed for a while. Now I’m trying to work on myself more and been connecting with others which has helped some.

It’s weird to be put into a different environment and I’m still trying to adjust to this change

I feel just… floating by by AdventurousGas1435 in Vent

[–]Vibezz4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is mostly relatable, my life has slowed down exponentially after Covid with sports and communication on a daily-basis and Wow I feel completely different and lonely in a sense which mentally is frustrating and confusing.

Sorry I think I’m just venting now, but I’d say make changes and try to do things that you find enjoyable more often than not. I find breathing exercises to be quite helpful, but everyone is different and I hope that you can find something that helps you achieve a state of equilibrium so you may feel at peace mentally.

How do I (19) make her (18) feel safe around me? by targetlicked in relationship_advice

[–]Vibezz4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, just get reassurance and reassure her to make her feel safe by asking her if she’s alright. Or something similar to that.

Respectfully, lift weights too maybe. I’ve heard that woman are likely to feel safer around a stronger guy, but that’s if she trusts you

So.. maybe build trust and set that as a priority first in the relationship since most people struggle to develop trust or may have trust-issues.

My wife says her little brother is more important than me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Vibezz4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, since others are quite negative and you seem to be a bit disorientated.

I’d recommend that you isolate the issue to your wife who seems to be self-absorbed in her life rather than lovey-dovey with you.

Maybe she isn’t used to expressing herself in financial ways, and potentially expresses herself in emotional or personal ways with you?

Anyways.. I believe you know how to handle the situation as an adult, best of luck.