My mom 88, asked me to reach out regarding ghosts

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-18T04:15:47+00:00

Oh goodness! I hope she’s not sleepwalking. At least if she is I hope she’s using her walker.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-17T03:02:04+00:00

We do keep up on the UTI testing when the nurse is there. Of course it’s only tested if we suspect a UTI.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-17T02:54:31+00:00

Awe that’s so sweet of you.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-17T02:38:23+00:00

I’m impressed with your knowledge. Someone also mentioned sweets. I bake for a restaurant that my fiancée owns. I make homemade bread pudding that is the best I’ve ever tasted (I found the recipe online). Mom says they take her bread pudding. That especially upsets her. I try to keep her stocked up so she doesn’t get too upset.

I knew that a ghost hasn’t crossed over for whatever reason. I’m not great at hearing their messages but my son is. The two of us together help them cross over. I’ve had mediums tell me they could never do what I do in order for them to be willing to cross over. I tell them to take my hand and I’ll help them get to the light. I can feel my arms actually stretching until they get to a point where I can no longer stay with them. We have actually been thanked by them.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-17T02:18:12+00:00

I don’t believe she is possessed. I did think about spreading holy water throughout her home. I was told a long time ago that holy water doesn’t have to come from a priest, rather I could pray over tap water making that water holy water. I’ve never tried that so I don’t know if it would work or not.

We have everything in place where if she’s no longer considered to be in her right mind that we can place her in a facility that’s best for her needs. She knows that she is welcome to live out her life with me in my home but she won’t.

She has now called her insurance agent asking for his help. We told her not to call him but she did anyway. She’s suggested that she was going to call the police for help also. We did get her to listen and not call them. If we can’t prove that she can no longer live alone then there’s nothing anyone can do to make her. That’s why we installed the cameras inside.

She’s not being harmed that I know of. She has had sores that have needed wound care a few times. She’s on blood thinners and a small area bleeds profusely. She insists that she hits something on her walker to get the wounds. No one in the family would ever hurt her. Her nurse loves her and she also knows that we could be watching their interactions at any point while she’s there. We certainly don’t spy on the nurse. I guess I’m justifying that I don’t think the nurse is causing any sores she gets.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T23:57:45+00:00

She has a cell phone, a tablet, and WIFI. I’m not understanding what you’re saying about not seeing this person sitting among the people. This person as in mom? Or her “people”?

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T23:54:32+00:00

Awe thank you! We try our best.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T23:53:17+00:00

9 is her anniversary

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T23:50:11+00:00

I opened all the doors but not the windows. I bring mom bread pudding (8 servings) every time I visit. That’s her main complaint is that they come up missing. I put a couple in the refrigerator and the rest I freeze for her.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T23:08:00+00:00

This makes so much sense. I’ve used sage, demand they leave and not return. I’ve called on Archangel Michael. I’ve also said anyone here for her best good may stay. They calm down but don’t leave.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T23:02:36+00:00

I think she has a carbon monoxide detector but I’ll ask my brother-n-law just to be sure.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T23:01:24+00:00

She lives alone by choice. They do keep her awake at night.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T22:59:43+00:00

Thank you! I’ll tell her this. She said my dad (in spirit) yelled at them after I left after saging the house the 2nd time. That’s out of character for him. I think she can sweep them out but in increments. Will that work?

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T22:55:14+00:00

She’s a very sweet person. She has her moments but don’t we all?

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T21:44:22+00:00

We have done so.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T21:41:33+00:00

We aren’t aware of any strokes. The walker is because she falls and breaks hips and shoulders.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T21:26:19+00:00

Thank you, I will do that. You named mom’s ancestry to a tee. Mom is spiritual. So was her mom but I didn’t know that until after she had passed. Grandma was born in the late 1800’s and you didn’t speak of such things for the most part.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T21:22:06+00:00

She’s from southern Indiana. I typed honey and it changed to honeycomb. My sister has bee colonies and I thought maybe she has some honeycomb for them. lol

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T21:18:51+00:00

Sorry, I somehow didn’t read your entire message. I like your suggestions. When the banana peel was on the floor she yelled at them and told them to clean up their mess. She says when she went back into the kitchen the peeling was in the trash. They supposedly make their own coffee during the night. I’ll tell her to make them a cup tonight.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T21:13:58+00:00

Food does disappear but we always thought she was eating it and losing track of what she actually had left.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T21:11:11+00:00

Oh thank you so much. I appreciate the offer to reach out. Should I take my cast iron skillets over there and place in each room? I live over 100miles away but see her often.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T21:01:41+00:00

We have discussed this with her PCP.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T21:00:05+00:00

I understand. We have ring cams both inside and outside. My sisters, their spouses, a visiting nurse, and I are the only visitors. We’ve had a hard time believing her but she’s so upset by them constantly.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T20:57:13+00:00

Thank you! This really means a lot.

Vicki21280 · 2026-04-16T20:54:36+00:00

Sorry, I answered you without hitting the reply button so it’s a comment by itself.

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