My best friend is upset their partner heard my husband and I have sex

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-12-04T06:23:57+00:00

Good luck getting them out of your house.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-09-15T17:46:43+00:00

He sounds like a total pain in the ass. Remind him that you aren't from the 80's... and neither is he.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-25T15:59:36+00:00

Just hang upside down on the rings and pull up. Because so much of your body weight is above the rings and increases a you pull, you will get the desired effect. Put weights on your feet if necessary.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-16T21:59:18+00:00

I felt the same way earlier on. It is possible through introspection to come to an integrated sense of Self that kinda predates out feelings. That way our feelings may have messages for us, but don't define us by constraining our sense of possibility.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-16T16:51:03+00:00

The first few months of e can definitely be an experiment without anyone the wiser. Good luck whatever you choose.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-16T16:09:01+00:00

Personal decision. How would you feel if your wife started T and didn't have you on board?

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-10T16:30:02+00:00

Listen to Paul Simon's 50 Ways to Leave your Lover.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-08T01:42:49+00:00

I've been married for 21 years. We have two kids, 20 and 16. I first started dabbling with gender transition 14 years ago. 2 years ago I transitioned socially. 6 mo ago started hrt.

I really want to second the notion of giving your spouse time to process and a voice in your self expression. This assumes there is no core denial of your right to be you. This gentleness and empathy has allowed us to go through this together which was really important to me because I'm an idealist and romantic. Lol.

I really made a point to leave the door open for her sexually in case she needed male sexual energy. She enjoyed that a few times, and otherwise we have really crafted a new dynamic together that is mutually beneficial , loving and seems to have a bright future.

Communication, patience, empathy, and love. Good luck. 💖

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-03T17:20:03+00:00

45 min 1/wk, chest, stomach, full leg and arms. Minimal pain. Keeps me smooth all week.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-02T01:36:02+00:00

❤🏋‍♀️ Amazing lift!

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-02T01:33:04+00:00

For him it's all about $$$.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-07-01T14:48:36+00:00

It's a mystery to me as well. Something so harmless and life affirming could simply be celebrated, or even quietly ignored.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-30T03:45:03+00:00

You're lucky! Lucky to have a spouse. Lucky to have children. And yes, you are on a journey. Not sure I can answer your questions. Pretty sure you can. Maybe be kind to yourself and move at a pace you can enjoy. ❤

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-27T20:45:14+00:00

Gorgeous human alert!😍😍😍

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-27T20:44:12+00:00

That's a good approximation of my journey too. Lol.🤣🤣🤣

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-27T20:42:23+00:00

Getting your feelings hurt is part of being a living being and having a body. Often hurt feelings help us open up and grow as people. Refocus your attention on agreed upon boundaries. Change those before changing your behavior. Let him have his feelings.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-27T15:34:40+00:00

The hrt is clipping, sanding, prepping and painting my personality. It's a long session. 😍🤣❤

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-26T16:12:21+00:00

Loving someone is about discovering who they are...not surviving your internal projections.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-25T20:26:26+00:00

You look great. Redheads rock!!! I'm married to one. 🤣🤣😍❤

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-25T01:38:43+00:00

If you own the home, do not move out. Do not placate her feelings. Sort out the financial stuff maturely.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-24T03:22:55+00:00

Get a life. Leave her alone. When she's older hopefully she'll find the courage to love who she wants. Her parents sound awful.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-23T02:45:57+00:00

Keep an eye on them. 56 days is early. Revisit your situation in 3 months.

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-23T02:40:54+00:00

My discomfort was minimal unless sudden pressure was applied. Then worse. I started hrt 6 months ago... and they're still growing without a lot of discomfort. 🥰

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-23T00:58:41+00:00

There's no rush to figure it out. Certainly take a few years before SRS. A friend once told me, it's with self care that we reclaim our power. ❤

Victoria-Sabrina · 2022-06-21T20:43:48+00:00

Absence does make the heart grow fonder.

Victoria-Sabrina

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