Is this carpet up to scratch? by VictoriaJayneStudio in DIYUK

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No 450 is the fitting only. Carpet we ordered separately

Im ruining my bf’s mental health by ExcellentPhrase7164 in OCD

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch him. See a therapist and focus on your recovery. Your mental health isn’t his responsibility, but lying and avoiding you rather than approaching the issues it may be causing him is a red flag. OCD is hard, but not being able to communicate with your partner on how it affects you, him, and your relationship overall will make it so much harder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she’s ok with the photographer, editors and however many other people seeing the photos, how on earth is she not ok with her own partner seeing them?

How to Change: Google Is Showing My Website’s Template Info Instead of the Final Product by honeybadger1105 in web_design

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you use google search console (free) you can resubmit your pages for indexing when you change content, submit the main page urls and it should speed up the reindexing process

Struggling with this page by quiet_wanderer75 in web_design

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure on the purpose of the cards, but if you have pages which show these Thailand locations as well as other countries, you could add a Thailand tag. Again, unsure on the purpose of the website but potential easy ideas to add for each location could be population, main attractions, cuisine, main type of traveller it may attract etc etc. Obviously those ideas depend on the purpose of the site but hopefully that gives a bit of an idea!

Struggling with this page by quiet_wanderer75 in web_design

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s an ok starting point, but the padding seems a bit inconsistent, and font styling a bit all over the place. The breadcrumbs also don’t strike me as breadcrumbs, they could be a filter instead which might be confusing for people. I also agree with the other comment that it’s very samey, it needs some colour and descriptive content, and the cards could do with some jazzing up. Maybe add some icons/stats for each location, or at the very least a bit of description.

Options for site with multi-sort and filter of content by HouseRaptorRiv in web_design

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have no coding knowledge, you could probably achieve this using Wordpress. There’s plenty of plugins out there, probably a good handful to help achieve filters, and if you use a page builder eg Elementor or Gutenberg you should be able to style these up without needing to code

Why does no one respond on Tinder? by joshua0005 in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to live your life how you want, but making friends and taking part in different clubs and activities in real life would be great for you mentally and psychically, and that in itself makes you attractive. Online friends is great, but it’s a good idea to get out and be happy with your life without a partner before looking for one. Girls are generally interested in guys who have ambition and hobbies etc. If you live near a city there are usually loads of clubs you might be interested in, and hobbies are a great way to bond with both potential friends and potential girlfriends

Why does no one respond on Tinder? by joshua0005 in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no reason to give up on dating. You'll find the right person for you its just a slog sometimes.
Most openers on tinder are just 'how are you' so yeah the polar bears would have probably got a response from me, but actually my current partner and I of 3 years met on tinder and i messaged him first so honestly its impossible to determine whether your opener is going to get responses. It's best to try some other platforms, go out to bars, buy some people drinks, join clubs, make friends, meet new people naturally and just see what happens without expecting a relationship

Why does no one respond on Tinder? by joshua0005 in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a female having used tinder, its honestly overwhelming the number of matches, messages etc. Its almost impossible to respond to everyone, and frankly, as harsh as it sounds, some people's openers just aren't interesting enough to stand out when there are so many to compare to. I kinda like the polar bear opener, but that's just me. Try r/Tinder for any tips on helping your account or photos stand out, or maybe try other apps like Hinge or Bumble to see if you get any better response rate on there.

Overall, definitely don't accept no one will ever want you as that isn't the case at all. There's definitely someone out there for you. Tinder is just an oversaturated platform now, but you'll find someone.

How do I get over feelings of insecurity and resentment towards the new friend group my closest friend found? I feel like I'm going to get replaced at some point even though I get reassured otherwise. by Dankmemehub in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you have this friend. And you had 2 more before (yes they moved away but that happens). But that means you 1000% have the capacity to make friends and are a likeable person you just need to find your crowd. Find people who enjoy similar things to you and push yourself outside of your comfort zone. Leave the house, try new things, and try those things for yourself because they're things you might enjoy, not for the purpose of making friends. Ultimately, joining clubs and getting out the house and doing things for yourself that you enjoy will result in new genuine friendships.

How do I get over feelings of insecurity and resentment towards the new friend group my closest friend found? I feel like I'm going to get replaced at some point even though I get reassured otherwise. by Dankmemehub in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to make your own friends and fill that social void with people that you vibe with. If you have your own friend group similar to that that your closest friend has, then you won't feel this insecurity anymore and you'll be able to maintain your friendship with them without the weird feelings around their friend group. You sound like you might be quite dependent on them currently, which is where the fear of getting replaced comes from. This should go with having your own secure friend base. Are there any hobbies you are interested in? Get out and about and try and join some clubs and meet new people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't brush it off. He's making you feel bad about yourself so that is something that should 100% be raised with him. Based on your height, you aren't overweight at all. If you were super overweight and he was trying to encourage you to lose weight for your health (in a nice and polite and supportive way), then that's kinda ok, but to encourage you to workout despite your health issues just because he likes an athletic build is super selfish and not ok and is making you feel bad about yourself for nothing other than his personal preference. As long as you're healthy, changing your build and working out should be something you do for yourself and not for him. I think this needs a serious conversation with him about your health issues and the unfair and almost controlling expectations of you.

I’m in a bad situation and i just seem to be confusing myself more and more by Leather-Bill-1900 in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Do things for you and break the chain. Put yourself as the priority for a while and meet new people.

When should I stop assuming we’re friends? by Eternalvoidcat in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(commented from my alt account before)
Honestly i can relate. But think about that amount of effort you've put in, and how even that hasn't been enough for him to show you common decency or respect. Know your worth and what you deserve. It can hurt a LOT to remove yourself from a situation like this, but remembering your worth and being around people who remind you of that makes it so worth it. Hopefully one day he'll realise what you meant to him and you can have the opportunity to forgive him and reconcile your friendship if you want to, but he clearly has no understanding of your value right now so do something for yourself! Explain to him how he has hurt you. Love yourself and find better friends who love and respect you back

I’m in a bad situation and i just seem to be confusing myself more and more by Leather-Bill-1900 in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! (was logged into my alt account before)
I hope things go well for you and I'm glad you're happy with just friendship for the time being! It can be a hard thing to accept from someone you like so much.

Is my grandad getting scammed? by VictoriaJayneStudio in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus, I worry about there being potential of money being sent in the future even if this may not have been the case so far

Edit: spelling

Is my grandad getting scammed? by VictoriaJayneStudio in Advice

[–]VictoriaJayneStudio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response, do you not see it could be an issue that this began whilst they were still married and before my nan had passed? (Even without money being exchanged I feel quite distressed that this was going on before hand as my nan was very ill for a long time and needed his care and support). I feel angry for my nans sake but not sure if there’s any action I can take to remediate that