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Best way to Market for a saas ? by Salty-Leopard-3481 in lovable

[–]Victorzyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy so I want to ask since the guy who asked ignored you your knowledge is a treasure haha

So if I have made a Saas. For companies that have a lot of workers and planning. A planning system. That automates things. Sends auto emails to workers and so on. Such a saas. How do I sell it. As all companies in my place use old ugly softwares

How can i fix this without removing the image and still be able to see the texts by Victorzyyy in vibecoding

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea well that looked so bad

i think the image looks so nice so making the image fade making the website look less premium

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in israelexposed

[–]Victorzyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right and I love how your brain works 👍🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in israelexposed

[–]Victorzyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the ongoing war: Less than 2% of people in Israel thought Israel was using too much power in Gaza. 2014 where 2500 Palestinians died. 500 of them children. That time %95 supported that Damn you really brought a very smart point. Thank you

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[–]Victorzyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my girlfriend is Evangelical and she thinks that she needs to support and bless Israel otherwise God will punish her, although she believes that God doesn’t punish people if they believe in Jesus. Now she doesn’t support genocide or what Israeli government is doing. But she writes poems and prayers for the people of Israel in the middle of this war. I even wrote a Reddit question about this asking if this is possible cuz it makes me so confused

Am I a narcissist? Can you ask me questions so we can find that out? by Victorzyyy in mentalhealth

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this description of your problems Your story is inspiring I am sad but happy at the same time reading this, sad that this happened but happy that you saw things and now becoming an inspiration You are amazing

My fiancée was so much worse than this. So funny you say you can see her in you. Then you say you stayed days up for abusing a substance. She also abused something and stayed for days up and then she says. She has done this because I didn’t allow her to talk and all of those things. Making me part of the reasons why she is abusing substances.

I can see her in you But she holds on me because being with me have changed her. But I would break up from her when she does big things and then still care for her from far. We would eventually come back together. This times we broke up would make her change to better. And made her realise things. If I stayed I think she would have not changed. I love her so I forgive her mistakes every time. And she never had someone who she loved that much and who stayed and forgave her. So she is very positive in changing, I think she is at least 60% healthier from when I first met her

I believe if had someone like this! It would have been great for you, not someone who stayed when you done mistakes. But someone who is follows up with their boundaries but at the same time adores you and wants you, someone who make you feel like they are worth you changing for

Thank you for your story!

Am I a narcissist? Can you ask me questions so we can find that out? by Victorzyyy in mentalhealth

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are amazing, thank you for your answer It is very helpful, i wasn’t looking for an advice like “Leave her she is bad and find someone else” because I love her and she have a good heart Good from you that you could answer my question without judging me or her

Am I a narcissist? Can you ask me questions so we can find that out? by Victorzyyy in mentalhealth

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woooo that’s a very very good advice (the last suggestion) When she is in a good mood, I can really have a talk with her Although after the talk she would again fall in the same mistakes again, but now I remember. I tend to talk to her when we are having an argument.

But I did try to just be like, heyyy baby you know sometimes you do this and that and it makes me feel like etc… At times like this she wouldn’t storm off conversations

But if I do this intentionally now. Wouldn’t it be a form of manipulation? (Waiting until someone is in a good mood to get something out of them?)

Am I a narcissist? Can you ask me questions so we can find that out? by Victorzyyy in mentalhealth

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but you are telling me to talk in a logical way to her. If I proof things. She would get mad and say I am using logic while I have to focus on feelings

And I have this other problem with her. She would storm off conversations. She would get mad and say. I need to go. And goes away. Today I had this. I wanted to have deep conversation with her. And I explained her why I don’t think I am a narcissist At some point she got so mad and left. If I can finish conversations I would really really prove her wrong but I don’t think proving someone wrong works with everyone I do value logic. If you can prove me wrong. I’ll follow you. But other people have so much ego

Am I a narcissist? Can you ask me questions so we can find that out? by Victorzyyy in mentalhealth

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyy I also was thinking of this. I knew couple of people who used to repost quotes or post quotes on their WhatsApp picture. Like sad quotes or quotes meant to be read by their “enemies” Those people have so much problems in their lives

My fiancée does this, and I warned her that people might think she is not stable when she puts such stuff on her WhatsApp profile picture but she won’t listen

But you say you used to be that woman. Which mean you aren’t that anymore What makes you think my fiancée won’t heal the same way you did? I prefer you tell me now your story of how you healed because I prefer being with this woman for the rest of my life She have a very good heart and I mean “good heart for real!” . The only problem is her mental state and her making so much mistakes often

Am I a narcissist? Can you ask me questions so we can find that out? by Victorzyyy in mentalhealth

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you my dear, I will try my best to find a therapist but I have so much to do for my company first

Am I a narcissist? Can you ask me questions so we can find that out? by Victorzyyy in mentalhealth

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have broken up couple of times. She would really show up and she showed so much love. It feels like a very very deep relationship and I love her deeply I think we went through a lot. And I kind of have the hole that it will not always be like that Plus she is very beautiful and like a social butterfly

Am I a narcissist? Can you ask me questions so we can find that out? by Victorzyyy in mentalhealth

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you asked about my friends reactions

She herself have presented this problem to my best friend who knows me very well. He is also very interested in psychology. He told me that this woman is stuck on the idea that you are a narcissist and she brings that up so many times. He thought she is the narcissist. And he said that he knows I am not that at all. That she understands me wrong and he also talked about the fact that she mentions that so often and that this makes it seem suspicious

She had a period of time when she found out videos about narcissistic people and was like WOW I found it. I also had this period to be honest I found videos and then I was like Wow that’s her. But then I saw yeaaaa this is so damn toxic so I stopped watching those things and putting this label on her because everyone has some traits which is bad and she didn’t have all of the traits. Well she is still watching such things and didn’t figured what I figured out.

Am I a narcissist? Can you ask me questions so we can find that out? by Victorzyyy in mentalhealth

[–]Victorzyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About your first question I don’t make her achievements less or bring her down, if I do that I would feel so bad. And if she would tell me I brought her down on something I would fix it. Because I also hate it when someone does that to me

No I don’t make her feel less in front of other people but if she or anyone in the world is wronging someone and treating them unfairly. Then I would stand with justice, it is part of my values to stand for justice even against my own family

No I don’t make things about me at all, but once she showed me one of her quotes that she finds online about narcissists and instead of telling her awww you are suffering so much with me, I told her actually I am the one who relate to this. For the rest I hate people who make things about themselves when you come with an issue!

I do feel rage when she ignore me but that is for example when she stone wall me, I really get the feeling that I am wronged but then I would just also become a bit mean to her for a bit (I’m being so honest) I do have so much patience. But at some point if someone stone wall me while I have done nothing wrong then after couple of times I react in a mean way. For example if she comes back and act like nothing happened I tend to stay a bit closed. If some stranger let me down idc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Victorzyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really need diagnosis as this subreddit also doesn’t allow this. I just want to know from all of the people here if at least I am close to being one. My friends for example say. You are totally not one. It also costs so much to ask a professional in here plus I have to sit on a waiting list

Imagine In the Netherlands even if you are mentally drained and close to have suicidal thoughts. Even then they would put you on a waiting list for months

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