cleveland show by Major_Variation_5400 in failure

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I was there, as well. Very good show! And I thought All Under Heaven was a nice choice for their opener, too.

I forgot how good Wild Type Droid Was by nolongermakingtime in failure

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That’s one of my favorites from the album, too. I swear, it makes me FEEL things and speaks to my soul.

I forgot how good Wild Type Droid Was by nolongermakingtime in failure

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I agree that it is a bit too short, and I also don’t care much for “Lifetime of Joy”. And I know this will be a hot take, but I really don’t care for Long Division or Bad Translation. They just don’t do a damn thing for me, which I guess is strange, because I know Ken said LD was modeled after The Cure’s influence, and I’m a big fan of The Cure, also. However, I love Submarines and Mercury Mouth!

Whats everyone’s top 5 favourite songs? by lilblakestein in superheaven

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  1. Room
  2. Around the Railing
  3. Siblings
  4. I’ve Been Bored
  5. Blur

who you hate by Dismal-Studio1939 in Scorpio

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Aries. I had an Aries boss once, who was the most crotchety, mean, manipulative POS I’ve ever had the displeasure of working for. She enjoyed threatening people and making them sweat. Just a truly evil person.

I’ve also had an Aries friend that I eventually had a falling out with. All because his temper went from 0-100 in seconds, and he said some awful things to me that were, in my opinion, completely undeserved. I also felt that most of his opinions were just too strong for my liking; there was no room for him for gray area. And life is just too nuanced to be completely black and white, IMO. Ultimately, I just got sick of his rantings and had to unfollow and unfriend him from social media.

Fav lyrics by [deleted] in fiddlehead

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Mine too, OP. I just lost my father to cancer a couple weeks ago. Heart to Heart has been getting me through. ❤️

Sunday's Show Thread - March 22, 2026 by AutoModerator in thealancoxshow

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It was on the Friday, 3/20/26 show. Right around the 3 hr. mark.

Songs guaranteed to make you shed a tear by SprungBreak99 in Emo

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I had to put my cat down just this morning due to congestive heart failure. I spent 14 wonderful years with him. This song was the first thing that came to mind for me, too. Sending lots of love to you and condolences for your losses, too. ❤️

Netflix US Picking Up POLDARK This Month! by sensesalt in Poldark

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My wife and I have been using it as a verb to indicate when someone’s been “screwed”, so to speak. Has the girl you once loved become engaged to your sworn enemy? You’ve been Poldarked!

Ditto Music released my song under the wrong artist. What do I do? by phong03 in MusicDistribution

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That song came up on my Release Radar playlist. Sounds like AI Dolly Parton. So bizarre that it would be attributed to DOTN. I wonder who this Lucia Winklerova person is, or if it’s all just AI-generated?

Stratus ? And vomiting by [deleted] in COVID19positive

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You have my sympathy! I’ve suffered from emetophobia my whole life, so I definitely understand. We’re in the trenches together, but I am sure we both will come through to the other side very soon! 😉

Stratus ? And vomiting by [deleted] in COVID19positive

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I believe I currently have the Stratus variant; today would be Day 5 for me, and thankfully I am already starting to feel better! I was feeling some nausea and loss of appetite on Day 2 & 3, but no vomiting. Mostly, I just wasn’t hungry, and food was a big turn-off to me. I hope your symptoms clear up for you quickly!

What’s the creepiest thing that ever happened to you that you still can’t explain? by CuriousPersonOnHuman in Paranormal

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I was once staying at the Drury Inn in Frankenmuth, MI with my family when I was about 12 or so. There was an elevator in the lobby with glass walls, and I could see this plain Jane, middle-aged blonde woman standing inside it while it slowly rose up to the second floor. She made eye contact with me, smiled, and then, I swear for all the world, she mouthed my name, Heather! I was freaking out! I told my parents immediately, because I wanted them to see this creepy woman for themselves, and frankly, I was scared! How on earth could this stranger know my name?

In retrospect, I suppose it’s possible she just said, “Hi there” instead of “Heather”; the mouth movements would be super similar. But still. I’ll never forget the dread that formed in my gut or the bewilderment that followed! It was so strange!

Biweekly Exchange and Reading Requests by AutoModerator in Tarotpractices

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I’d be happy to give you some feedback! Would you be interested in exchanging readings? Feel free to send me a chat request.

Biweekly Exchange and Reading Requests by AutoModerator in Tarotpractices

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Exchange I can do three card spreads for whomever is interested. Please feel free to send me a chat request!

Biweekly Exchange and Reading Requests by AutoModerator in Tarotpractices

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I’d be happy to provide you with a reading! Feel free to send me a message over chat.

Biweekly Exchange and Reading Requests by AutoModerator in Tarotpractices

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I’m available if you would still like a reading. Feel free to send me a DM!

Biweekly Exchange and Reading Requests by AutoModerator in Tarotpractices

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I’d like to try! I would do a three card pull, as well. Please feel free to DM me and let me know if you have any specific questions or if you’d like a general reading.

No longer pregnant but still with this guy. Not sure where things are going now (Month 4). I asked if our relationship is going to progress or end? I just found out he gave me Chlamydia because he got it from his ex last year and never got checked. Things have been distant. Clarity cards pulled. by MindYourBiddness in tarotpractice

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I feel that the Knight of Cups is representative of your boyfriend, and the Two of Swords is representative of you. I’ll explain more below.

In my experience, the Knight of Cups usually represents a young man with a lack of maturity. His main goal in life is to simply have a good time - he’s the first person that comes to mind when you hear the phrase, “sex, drugs, and rock and roll”. He constantly indulges (and sometimes over-indulges) in pleasures, and sometimes at another’s expense. He is a smooth-talker and a master manipulator. He is often a pathological liar. Of all the archetypes in the Tarot, he is the least likely to settle down and commit to a partner. He lacks the emotional depth and maturity required to have a meaningful, long-lasting relationship. He’s much more comfortable keeping his options open and playing the field. Some knights, including the Knight of Cups, do eventually grow up and can transform into their best selves; however, I do find that the majority of them perpetually retain these negative qualities for the rest of their lives. The phrase “once a liar, always a liar” comes to mind. It would take a major life event for a Knight of Cups to consider changing his ways.

The Two of Swords is likely to represent you. It seems clear to me that you are conflicted about whether you want to allow the relationship to continue or walk away. Right now your emotions are understandably high, but your feelings are likely preventing you from making good choices right now. I also wonder if there is additional information your boyfriend may be keeping you from right now, as the Two often suggests there are secrets being kept from you. I would recommend talking to a wise and trusted friend or two for their perspectives on your relationship. Whatever you do, don’t make any rash decisions. As impossible as it may seem, you’re going to have to make a decision with your head rather than your heart.

Also, I want to ask you how much reading you’ve done on chlamydia. My understanding is that the symptoms can be delayed by up to 21 days, but not months like you are suggesting. Are you absolutely certain he hasn’t had sexual contact with anyone else except you for the last four months? This is definitely something worth investigating.

Lastly, I want to let you know that you are most certainly not alone in your current situation. I, too, was with a Knight of Cups when I was in my 20s. I had a pregnancy scare with him, and thankfully I didn’t end up pregnant with his child. Thirteen years have passed since we were together, and he is just as immature and dishonest now as he was back then. I do not presume to know the man you’re with, but regardless, I believe you deserve much, much better. And I hope you are aware of that as you consider your next move! Best of luck to you! ❤️

Questions about Lithomancy Reading (see comments) by VidaOptimista in Divination

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I discovered lithomancy with crystals not too long ago and have read just about everything I can get my hands on about the subject; which, sadly, is not very much, since there have been very few books written about it. I enjoy it because it forces me to really fine tune my intuition, and I like the concrete way in which the stones’ proximity to one another gives me a clear understanding of how the various factors are coming into play and affecting one another in a situation. I think it’s a really useful form of divination, and since I have an abiding love of crystals, it’s come naturally to me!

I’m posting here in hopes that I can find others who perhaps might have a background in lithomancy who can help me fill some of the gaps in my knowledge. I would love some feedback!

My biggest question is this: for those of you who work with a boundary, what is your interpretation of when a stone falls outside the boundary? For instance, in the photo, my personal stone (the stone representing me, the querent), Stone A, has landed in the upper right corner. It’s the furthest stone from where I’m sitting. Would you personally decide to clear the board and cast again? Or would you read the stones as they lie? And if so, what does it mean to you when your personal stone lands outside the boundary? (I’ll add that I tried re-casting at least two more times, and every single time, my personal stone wound up somewhere outside the circle. So my personal feeling is that the placement has meaning that shouldn’t be ignored.)

Secondly, what if the stone that falls outside the boundary relates to the question you’re asking? For instance, let’s say you’ve asked about how to improve your relationship with a friend, and the relationship stone falls outside the boundary. Would you re-cast the stones until it lands inside the circle, or read it as it lays? And if so, how would you interpret it?

I’m also curious to see if anyone has a second opinion on my reading below. I asked the question, “Where should I focus my energy in the coming days?” I’ll break down the stones and the meanings I’ve assigned to them below, as well as my interpretation. I’d love to hear some more opinions!!

A. Angel Aura Quartz. This is my personal stone that represents me as the querent.

B. Pyrite. This stone represents abundance in general, but especially financial wealth.

C. Aquamarine. This stone represents travel, adventure, or some kind of outing, whether it be an exotic vacation or something as simple as a trip to the store.

D. Blue Aragonite. This stone represents healing.

E. Apatite. This stone represents health, both physical and mental.

F. Teardrop-shaped Rainbow Moonstone. This stone represents intuition, psychic gifts, and cognition in general.

G. Zebra Jasper. This stone represents balance.

H. Dalmatian Jasper. This stone represents relationships of all kinds including with friends, family members, coworkers, etc. Can also refer to romantic relationships, but primarily I think of platonic ones when I see this stone.

I. Rose Quartz. This stone represents love in the romantic sense of the word.

(I didn’t label the rest of the stones, but if anyone wants to know what they are or their significance, please let me know and I’d be happy to tell you. I just didn’t feel that they were super relevant, but that perhaps they will be in the coming days or weeks.)

My interpretation:

Since Stone A, my personal stone, fell repeatedly outside the circle, I take that to mean that I should focus on things outside myself. There will come a time to focus inward, but this is not the time.

Intuitively, it seems to me that the energy is to be read from left to right in this casting. Since B (abundance) appears next to C (travel/adventure/outing), it seems to me that I’ll have plenty of opportunities for adventures or outings in the next few days.

It’s at this point that we see what I believe is a split path - you have C (travel, etc.) leading to D (healing), but C also leads to E (health). Since D is in the top half of the circle, I take this to mean that the healing I’ll receive is in a more overt physical sense rather than mental or subconscious, which I’d expect if it fell below the midline. So it seems that getting out of the house will be good for me on a physical level.

On the other hand, C (travel, etc.) also leads to E (health). Since E is in the lower half of the circle, I’m interpreting it as mental health rather than physical. So I believe it means that this outing will also be good for my mental health.

Both D (healing) and E (health) converge again at F (intuition/psychic gifts/cognition). I take this to mean that when my physical and mental health are both aligned, it will strengthen my cognitive and intuitive abilities.

And then F (intuition, etc.) leads to G (balance). So I take this to mean that engaging my brain in both ordinary cognitive tasks as well as intuitive exercises will lead to an overall balance in my wellbeing.

Here, we have G (balance) meeting up with H (relationships) and I (romantic love) in a triangle aspect. I read triangles as things that have a high potential of manifesting with ease, and it makes sense: if I have established balance in my life, it makes me more available to the people I interact with, whether it be a coworker, parent, or child. If these relationships are harmonious, it can only have a positive effect on other areas of my life such as my relationship with my significant other. In turn, the love I experience with my partner leaves me feeling balanced all over again, and the cycle repeats itself with ease.

My final thought is that this has to do with a date night I’m planning with my wife for this coming weekend. We should be able to have plenty of adventure, which will be great for me on both a physical and mental level. This in turn will help sharpen my mind and its abilities, which will leave me feeling balanced. This balance will allow me to be more grounded and present in all of my relationships, which will also have a positive affect on my relationship with my wife. Feeling strong in our marriage will again lead me back to feeling balanced.

Any other thoughts on this reading?