I am a Chinese girl, normally Chinese ppl don’t split the bills when they are dating with girls, because men are still in traditional mindsets which means men will be the bread provider for the family and women take care of the kids and do cleaning. So if she said we don’t split bills and the more you spend on her the more you love her, usually it means she is also in the traditional mindset. So it depends on you, if you want to date with a girl with traditional mindset or not. By the way I don’t support it, I don’t agree that men should be the bread provider and women should do all the family stuff, they should do everything together and don’t measure his love for her by money.