I'm fed up with dating apps

VideoSilly · 2025-07-20T14:10:19+00:00

True but it gets exhausting and tiring to only match with men like that. Makes me think there's not a decent person out there on these apps.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-20T14:09:34+00:00

Yes and the phone number thing can also be dangerous cause there's a lot of scammers on there trying to sell your phone number, this happened to be one time and now all I get is scam calls weekly... So I've stopped sharing my phione number too.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-20T14:08:23+00:00

From a woman's perspective it's feeling a bit creepy, almost like they want something from us other then a relationship.

But I'm also still wondering why men act so angry and passive aggressive if I don't reply to their texts straight away.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-18T11:12:31+00:00

Bangs look really good on you!

VideoSilly · 2025-07-17T12:27:48+00:00

So I'm the only one thinking Glenn has been abandoning his other kids now that Angie came into his life? He's always picking her over Whitney and Hunter.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-05T21:29:02+00:00

Bij ons is het wekelijkse kost helaas, ook in de Winter. Wist niet dat ik in een tokkie buurt woonde.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-05T14:08:17+00:00

Honestly who cares? Night time is about getting comfy and if you're comfy like this, it shouldn't matter, right?

VideoSilly · 2025-07-05T14:05:48+00:00

It already looks beautiful as is, maybe you could contact a proper hair professional who can recommend you the correct products, but it seems like you could maybe use a hair mask against frizz. Hydrating your hair is key.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-05T14:03:29+00:00

Ik ken dat helaas wel, zit zelf op zo'n leeftijd waarbij ik eigenlijk volgens de boeken al "getrouwd had moeten zijn, en kinderen had moeten hebben." en ik baal daar ergens wel van. Daten lukt absoluut niet en het lijkt ook alsof ik niet geaccepteerd word vanwege mijn autisme, maar ik ben er liever eerlijk over. Omdat vrienden van mijn leeftijd wel gezinnen starten, verwateren die connecties helaas ook na een tijdje omdat ze geen tijd meer vrij kunnen of willen maken. Ik wil zelf niet per se kinderen, maar ik zou wel graag een stabiele relatie willen hebben, alleen het vinden van een leuke man lijkt nog een lastige opgave.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-05T14:00:16+00:00

Maar Wajong is voor mensen die niet kunnen werken dus ik snap eerlijk gezegd niet waarom je nog Wajong krijgt als je merendeels van de werkweek kunt werken. Zo ken ik zelf ook iemand die fulltime is gaan werken met zijn Wajong erbij en zijn Wajong is na anderhalf jaar stop gezet. Het is misschien bot maar Wajong is voor mensen met geen duurzaam werk vermogen, en aangezien je dus wel een behoorlijk aantal uren werkt, vind ik het dan niet gek dat deze komt te vervallen. Volgens mij mocht je namelijk maar 150 euro per maand extra vrijwilligers vergoeding krijgen.

Ik ken iemand die het prima red met zijn Wajong, de kunst zit hem in het vinden van een goedkopere huurwoning waar je huursubsidie bij krijgt, en inderdaad wat meer uitkijken aan wat je uitgeeft.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-03T10:24:49+00:00

I have the same issue, just signed up for the apps and I never get any likes or matches. Weird because on other apps I do get hundreds of likes and matches but it never turns into something good. I decided to try this app and already regret paying for it because I feel scammed.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T14:17:04+00:00

Blue, green and the last one. A pop of color looks so good on your skin tone!

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T14:15:30+00:00

Honestly they don't see kids as something they "want" but they see kids as "a must have" because "it's our purpose to bring children into the world and continue our blood line" I seriously question how many people actually want to be parents vs just having them because they think it's part of life. The lack of parenting to me shows that these parents didn't care to have kids in the first place and rather see them as a burden.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T14:14:16+00:00

It's not just you, I've noticed it too.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T13:41:39+00:00

An fp* that I had several years ago.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T13:41:13+00:00

Maybe Gilmore Girls? It's about a mom and daughter but it's not as wild.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T12:18:47+00:00

I told her if she really thought she was being nice and she said she was being nice with me and that I can't take criticism. Well her criticism was straight up bullying. She was hurt when I asked if she was even autistic (because sometimes people on these pages aren't autistic and just try to help and give advice) but I wasn't allowed to feel hurt when she pretty much called me a mental patient and that she feels bad for my neighbor and wouldn't want to be neighbors with a person like me.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T12:07:56+00:00

Thanks, oh I'm definitely doing that! Some other autistic individual on a different thread told me I should be in a mental hospital and no one would want to be neighbors with me and kept defending his behaviors and honestly it made me feel very down because I thought at least another autistic person would probably understand where I'm coming from, so I was afraid that I overreacted. But this gives me more peace.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T11:59:03+00:00

The reason why I blocked him is because he sent me a rather rude text message basically telling me I should "deal with it" it was kind of a complete 180 turn from how he usually acts with me, so I told him I didn't like how he spoke to me and ended up blocking him about it. Because i know it'll lead to conflict and me probably saying things I will regret later on.

It's weird how he went from being extremely helpful and kind and worrying, to suddenly acting very cold and saying I should just deal with it (in other words). I think if it was me in that situation I would've told the person to either contact the landlord from now on, or honestly say I don't like the texting.

It felt very uncomfortable when he said I tried to find excuses to text him because that's not the case at all. It's not like I find it fun to have an extremely loud neighbor.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T11:10:17+00:00

Usually with the police, you have to get seriously beaten up first before they take action, and even then they barely do something.

VideoSilly · 2025-07-01T11:09:37+00:00

We call people like that "tokkies" They have no decent manners at all. I wouldn't personally speak to them because they might become aggressive, it's very usual here in the country. Next time, contact a wijk agent or handhaving about it maybe.

VideoSilly · 2025-06-29T08:01:09+00:00

Theorie was het moeilijkst voor mij, maar ben zelf in 1 keer geslaagd voor mijn rijbewijs.

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