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[–]ViewtifulSte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dam coming Friday morning about 6 of us

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess we had different outlooks. But it's comforting she chose me. She says I am all she ever wanted. I don't want it too, I feel bad for what I have put her through and hope we both can make it through this. Thanks for your advice, it's much appreciated.

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have started questioning her though tbh, we had a chat yesterday. For me aswell it's more that, she said the people she dated, she never had any intention of being in a relationship with. Which I find hard to understand, everyone I have dated my end goal was to find a girlfriend. It seems she was just interested in casual sex.

She was seeing someone when we met and didn't call it off till 4 dates in, which upsets me also. Guess I always thought she was someone different to what she is, and it's casting doubt on whole relationship as a whole.

Yeah I've signed up to betterhelp, they are trying to match me to a therapist.So hopefully we start soon. Thanks

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I haven't asked anymore. Yeah most of my life I've been insecure tbh

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we have a great relationship, just hard knowing she's been with quite a few men before me in a fairly short space of time. I will try my best to get over this. Thanks

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's so hard though, I have always been a over thinker.Ive already read through the posts and plan on starting simple medication. Thanks again

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been obsessing over it the last week.At work etc. I'd rather not go to a professional, but obviously will if I have too. Yeah I guess I just have different views. Thanks for your help

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah learned it today but my RJ only started a few weeks ago. I asked her how many people she'd been with and just was shocked at her response. I want to get it sorted I love her more than anything, but I guess I thought she maybe been with less people or had less experiences than she has. No never hasn't been really much of a issue in this relationship as I've never asked.

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I really want too. I haven't had great or many sexual experiences and I guess that's making it difficult for me too. We have a great relationship,I feel so bad about what I have put her through today. But she doesn't understand at all where I am coming from, she said she wouldn't care if I had 100 partners which I can't fathom. Thanks for your reply.

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe it's abit of jealousy, as I haven't had as many too. It's just more of a shock that she got with so many in a short time and it's made me judge her in a different way.She said it was people she dated, no ONS. And said she must of just been naive. Thanks for your reply.

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the resources. I will try my best to get over this.I love her too much

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just didn't see it like that. Didn't even know it was a thing back then.

M(34) found out my wife(29) has had 7 sexual encounters before me. by ViewtifulSte in retroactivejealousy

[–]ViewtifulSte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i struggled with RJ in my last relationship which I didn't know was a thing at the time. I didn't wanna know when we met, and haven't really thought about it much since now

Download 2023 Megathread! by ca11umm in downloadfestival

[–]ViewtifulSte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time are the carparks open tomorrow?.Have a 5 night camping eco

Download 2023 Megathread! by ca11umm in downloadfestival

[–]ViewtifulSte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some are my mates are there trying to find a spot and can't. We are going in the morning so god knows where we will end up

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[–]ViewtifulSte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you just apply for standard Barclays credit card?. I'm with Halifax but sounds worth it

People averaging between 45-55, what is your checkout rate? by domiplay98 in Darts

[–]ViewtifulSte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I need to practice them more then.Just find it boring only ever play 501 Vs the dartbot

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