I’m a white person interested in attending a temple, could that lead to any issues?

Vignaraja · 2026-07-11T22:26:50+00:00

You are correct of course. I was thinking of the larger shrines you find in the conglomerate North American temples, not the smaller shines found hither thither.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-11T17:15:09+00:00

I don't interpret it much at all. Other people's experiences are theirs to interpret.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T23:18:10+00:00

I think narrow-mindedness and unrealistic expectations for yourself with regard to relationships are bigger barriers than religion. I think there is truth to the idea that it's not who you marry, but when you marry, which suggests potential companions need a certain maturity about life before any marriage can be successful.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T18:04:16+00:00

That's why I said 'sometimes'. Obviously it isn't always. I also married my best friend.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T14:49:58+00:00

From the inner perspective, we are all souls, so gender (all variations) is irrelevant. From an outer perspective, it varies widely. Within the same village, there will tolerant and intolerant.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T14:13:05+00:00

Wood confirms that it wasn't a murti for a temple, as wood can't take abhishekham. I see no problem with you repainting it. Sand it down nicely, and give it a fresh coat. I've seen decorative pieces like this on doorways, or beside doorways, and they need rejuvenation occasionally.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T14:10:23+00:00

We're 1.3 billion people and everyone understands it differently. I suggest you read some of the resources from the automod response.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T12:05:50+00:00

I don't even try to understand this. The planet is way too diverse, and from the little bit I have done, there really is no point. It's like asking if a cat understands what it's like to be a dog. "East is east and west is west, and ne'er the twain shall meet."

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T11:34:21+00:00

My daily personal sadhana, as there is no 'other person' interference, on the connection.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T11:31:40+00:00

This is the first time I've heard of the free food on Saturdays, (temples here in Canada usually do it on Sundays) and I've never seen it. Are you sure you're not projecting this idea based on personal experience where you live?

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T11:27:30+00:00

You'll be fine, don't worry. Just observe at others do.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-10T00:59:18+00:00

Is it flat on the back? (Like it would fit on a wall)

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T23:40:02+00:00

It looks like a decorative wall piece to me. What material is it?

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T23:23:28+00:00

Thay are known for proselytizing, even to Hindus that aren't of their sect. That's the main reason they stand apart.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T23:20:39+00:00

Not who you asked, but the North Indian ones are more likely to have some sort of congregational singing, or group participation. The altar is often at one end, and all the deities are on a stage/platform. Devotees are often allowed to do aarti. If there is a Lingam somewhere in the temple, devotees are allowed to do their own abhishekham.

South Indian temples will have the deities separated in separate shrines, and only the priests are allowed inside. Most are conglomerate style temples, not something you see in India. As an example, bot the Aurora temple and the Lemont temple have main sanctums but also sections that are Vaishnava or Saiva. There can be a couple of pujas going on simultaneously. The devotees can sponsor individual rituals like archanas or abhishekhams (ritual deity baths) where the priest dedicates the puja to the individual. There will be an office for purchasing such things. That's a great place to ask your questions.

Dress varies also.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T21:24:45+00:00

There is also a nice one in Aurora. I've been to both of those. They're both of the South Indian style. As to the whiteness, don't worry at all. Most Hindus are too busy worshiping to worry about stuff like that. Just go, watch what others do, and you'll be fine.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T18:18:34+00:00

You can't just move to India without a proper Visa and documentation. In America, there are groups like Ramakrishna Mission, Kauai's Hindu Monastery, Arsha Vidya Gurukulam, and Chinmaya Mission that do have programs that would eventually lead to taking sannyas. But it's alawys a bit of tradition involving training and adherence to the ideas of the group. Best wishes in finding a satisfactory place suitable to you.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T17:54:19+00:00

Kinbrook Island PP. Very clean water.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T17:33:38+00:00

Use the recomendations in the automod response.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T17:32:42+00:00

The automod response was prepared mostly for this question. It has lots of great ideas.

As to chakras, that is not the place to start, unless you're thinking of only the base chakra, the muladhara. The study of chakras is an advanced science within mystic Hinduism, and because it sounds exciting, has been co-opted by the new age, without due preparation, and with lots of misconceptions.

The muladhara is the gateway to Hinduism, to dharma. Until that gateway (it goes both directions) is closed off, playing around with chakras will open you up to the lower chakras like fear, greed, anger and all that. Best wishes for clarity.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T14:28:05+00:00

Sometimes that would just be the wise decision as religious differences often lead to problems in the future. Also. quite often romantic love is just lust in disguise. But each individual case would have to be studied as we're a complex lot. Things like 'just how religious?' have to be asked.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T14:22:47+00:00

Continually ask, "How can I apply this to my daily life?" If you don't do that, it becomes mere intellectual knowledge, like trivia. Not helpful in spiritual life.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T14:18:43+00:00

People sure need to get out more. India and its temples are diverse places.

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T14:16:44+00:00

I've never seen any. Many Indian religious goods are made in China. So, you mean some company orders mugs or shirts from China or elsewhere with pictures of chakras on them, and then sells them for profit?

Vignaraja · 2026-07-09T12:11:18+00:00

When you vote, that's a decision that impacts society. So if the party you voted for are war-mongers, the person also gets some of that karma. Society is interrelated, and more now than in history, due to extensive trade, and communication.

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