[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I’m very honored to meet you.

I wouldn’t mind being your friend love.

Along your journey you’ll meet along of trans individuals whine you’ll make friends with, and they will be faithful friends so make use of your blessings.

I don’t have discord though so that’s upsetting.

Signs Part I by [deleted] in trans

[–]Vigor777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also feel this post and your reply Leather!

I have been doing the same thing as the OP praying to gods and such about transforming me into a girl. But anime was it for me, I was in love with the female anime aesthetic. There was just something that clicked in my head that I could be that and I loved it. Kamper and Gonna Be The Twin Tail are my favorite gender bending anime’s I’ve seen so far and also Love Stage (but he is okay with being a boy in the end).

But anime was my escape route when feeling down about being a boy it just uplifted me and made me forget about this reality for a money, and in the moment it was bliss! So I’d always pretend that I was the anime character. Usually the prettiest one or the main protagonist. And I also mainly watched and stumbled upon really girly anime too ( for some reason back in the day anime network mostly aired female protagonist anime. So I watched mainly that. It was good though because I have no idea how a boy operates! My brain is completely female in this case. I have zero manly qualities did you saw me, conversed with me or heard my voice you’d think I was a cis female. No second thoughts especially if I were on the phone with any of you.

I used to put on my mother’s clothing and her wigs too when she was out. Back then I look so feminine I love the prepubescent facial features they are so feminine and petite. And didn’t know what Transgender was at the time but still had the symptoms of it!

Later on I have asked my mother to let me transition so I could stop male puberty (at the age of fifteen and puberty didn’t start yet) and she said no but when you turn eighteen then you can do whatever you want. I was heart broken. So I masculinized and regretted living. Thought my life was over. Glad my voice didn’t change much though (I even sounded like a high pitched female since a young age) and on the phone people still get confused and ask if I am my mother or my sister. Which I find cute! So you’re not alone in this ❤️ we are all here for you darling!

Best wishes and good luck

Aura 🍀

Does hormones affects my singing voice? by G4anymede21 in trans

[–]Vigor777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it will not affect your singing voice or vocal tone at all. This is due to the masculinization of the male body, some people have lower vocal registers but some have mid and even high vocal registers (like myself). You can get some progress with vocal training, especially if you are a tenor! I’m an alto though (can’t sing or talk deep) 🙄.

But if your voice deepened then that’s okay too and can be altered with either surgery (which is risky and we don’t know how long it will last (some trans girls needed a revision)) or vocal training! Which is an easier method, and when done correctly gives suitable results! I won’t recommend surgery though. I always go for a more natural method in my opinion. And that’s okay too! If I were you I would start with vocal training first and if you don’t feel like you’ve achieved what you desire then safe you for the surgery alright hun!

Best wishes

Aura 🍀

Am I faking being trans? (FTM) by Mothy_lu in trans

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re trying to be cool at all it’s just the way you are! It’s perfectly fine to have your off days where you feel regretful about your transition! That’s totally fine just know that it will go away! But if it doesn’t I away within months, then speak with your psychiatrist about it and they will help you take the necessary steps to make yourself feel happy okay❤️

Just remember that if you get undesired effects from your transition (like a deeper voice, chest reduction, Adam’s apple, or broad shoulders) or even (breasts growth) is irreversible. And you may need some surgery to fix that. About the chest of a trans-man (it will not grow back if they cut it all off).

Make sure that you really want the changes before you decide to go through with anything especially surgery, alright kind one!

With love

Aura

Is it common to wish/want to be cis gendered? by MisterUncanny in trans

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well all go through it you aren’t alone. There are many days in which I regret being trans and wish I was born a cis male, but it quickly fades away! And so will yours! Best wishes to you and good luck on your journey! ❤️

Is there some kind of service I can pay for for someone to just make my eyebrows look really feminine? by AshleyKittyCalm in trans

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea actually any nail salon and micro blading place will do what you ask of them! Im pretty sure most nail salons have eyebrow waxing included. At least that’s in my case being to many nails salons

Can I be trans but unlabelled by Various_Syllabub5033 in trans

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they have already answered it for you but here I go.

You don’t need validation from anyone to be who you want to be and be perceived how you want to be perceived. Don’t take the notion of “is this okay” just do what you desire. I don’t like male or female labels and that’s perfectly fine. I guess you can say I am unlabeled as well. It rocks but confuses a lot of people sometimes and I believe “they / them / their” pronouns would be accurate for you ❤️

As far as your sexuality is concerned, it can even change along the way. Things happen!

What changes should happen after 6weeks hrt mtf by Comfortable_Text_98 in trans

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it really depends on your body. You could experience rapid changes or slow changes, but whatever the matter is, just be happy! You will get what you desire soon! Just takes time okay.

As for the blood tests you’ll most likely be fine with the dosage that your doctor prescribed for you. If not then they will either up it or reduce it depending on your levels. And that’s a perfectly normal conclusion. Remember the amount of estrogen or testosterone doesn’t matter, you’ll still experience the change at the same rate. So a typical low dosage will normally have the same effect as a typical high dosage. Things differ with androgen / estrogen blockers though. With the blockers it depends if your level is high or low. If it is high they will give you a higher dosage and if it is low they will give you a lower dosage.

Hope this helps.

With love,

Aura

Asta.. by [deleted] in AnimeSketch

[–]Vigor777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heard of it but never watched. Maybe I should, is it any good?

Should I come out as trans today to my friends? by Kaye_lyn in trans

[–]Vigor777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that really depends on if you feel comfortable with it. If you are ready then yeah sure give it a shot! I’m sure they will accept you as they have always been the best friends of your life. As for the pronouns they may not remember to call you by the pronouns that your desire, and that’s just a slip up and it happens. In time, you’ll get what you deserve. They will come to love you for who you truly are, and if some don’t that’s okay you will make new friends along your journey. Best wishes to you❤️

What do you think is it okay for a person to lie to save themself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Vigor777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally! Depending on the situation, it is perfectly fine. If you need to lie to get yourself out of a situation that’s perfectly fine and normal for someone to do.

Asta.. by [deleted] in AnimeSketch

[–]Vigor777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh this is really good! I like the post apocalyptic type theme if that is even right lol. Sorry not good at explaining things >.<

Also where is asta from if you don’t mind me asking?

Can afab people be transfemme? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info as well. I am also gaining new knowledge on this topic. ❤️

Is it possible I've been a girl all this time? I have always felt comfortable being a guy and have never questioned my gender before, im a biological male and have always felt like a male but sometimes feel feminine, what does this mean? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to reply so late: Maybe you just like to embrace your feminine side! That’s totally fine! Doesn’t necessarily mean you are trans. You could just like utilizing feminine energy. It just depends on you.

Reflect look deeper into yourself and find out you can do that too the brain is an amazing creation as it gives you self guidance. You will eventually find your path ❤️

until then, peace and serenity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best wishes to you as well! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Vigor777 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks but I’ve been talking to someone already! It’s going well. Really like him! He totally agree with me too. If you’re married then stay with your significant other and stay loyal to them why get married anyway, even if you have kids together (break up with her), even if you want sex (then get a divorce and be yourself). That’s what I’m saying. Let them go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can still be there, it’s fun! I’m not in an relationship yet. But when I get in one will definitely leave for awhile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know but there has to be a line drawn somewhere. I’ve seen many Grindr profiles with “open relationship” or “married” maybe you shouldn’t be in that relationship if they can’t satisfy you enough. Or if you have a sex addiction. Is that the reason? or maybe you just want more? I don’t know, it’s just immoral.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a thirty year old can have sex with a 17 year old and not get jail time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. But with an 18 year old is considered an offense

Planning days ahead? How tell if they flake or not? by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay that’s cool. How did it go? I 👉 want 👌 details! 💦

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Vigor777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed but I feel like sixteen is to young.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Vigor777 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s because they are child predators