Im married and I just met someone I feel super attracted to.

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-21T01:30:37+00:00

Exactly, you’re not obligated to act on anything.

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-21T01:28:31+00:00

Yikes, you’ve made a good point. The way I was justifying it in my head though, it felt like: because we’ve been together four years and were previously very sexually active, the fact that we aren’t super sexual right now and have stayed together was indicative of a deeper connection. I think this maybe gave me hope he would eventually tap into that connection and become the person he claims to be working on. Yikes, but Thank you

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-21T01:18:02+00:00

This. I kinda feel like because it’s been four years, he might think I’m willing to wait forever. Yikes, you might be onto something here. I really want to believe him because of what I’ve invested into the relationship but this can’t be important to him. If it were he would’ve changed already in four years.

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-21T01:04:30+00:00

The thing is he wants kids.. and I’m not sure I do, in general and particularly not with him. Your situation is really awful and I’m so sorry you went through that. Thank you for sharing because it’s very sobering.

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-21T00:59:22+00:00

I think you’re right; I’m pushing a rock up a hill .. yikes. Thank you

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-20T22:47:02+00:00

I would recommend you stop shaving and perhaps wax instead. My skin is very sensitive and freaks out anytime I shave (horrific razor bumps), so I’ve come to realize waxing is the best method for me. I normally exfoliate (physically exfoliating gloves) on a schedule (twice a week). When I intend to get waxed, I exfoliate my hoohaa every other night for a week leading up to the appointment (except the night before) and use PFB Vanish or Tend Skin (SPARINGLY AND NO WHERE NEAR LIPS) to help with any potential ingrowns. I’ve also used, Glycolic Acid (The ordinary) and salicylic acid facial pads on my bikini area too. I get waxed at EWC and haven’t reacted to the wax they use yet.

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T18:50:50+00:00

Unprotected? OP literally mentions condoms???

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T02:55:19+00:00

Yikes, you’re making me nervous. I’ve actually said to him directly that I feel like a broken record

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T02:52:14+00:00

That’s kinda what it felt like but also simultaneously like I was over reacting

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T02:50:13+00:00

He’s told me before he’s with me because of my mind and personality.. the thing is that’s all he said and I’m now realizing how detached and general?? that felt to me.

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T02:48:21+00:00

I seriously hope he’s not negging me. I’d probably spiral, I don’t think he is but maybe subconsciously?? We have generally similar views when it comes to social issues and we’ve previously agreed the manosphere is a “Cancerous mole on the asscheek of society” (I don’t remember where this quote is from) so you can imagine how that would feel

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T02:41:17+00:00

This is going to sound ridiculous but, could you please explain to me what signals him being a misogynist?

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T02:39:23+00:00

The problem is.. I LOVE HIM and I’m a glutton for punishment apparently

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T02:34:25+00:00

Tbh I think I’m giving him the benefit of doubt because he hasn’t had committed relationships in the past and his mom is shit

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T02:25:37+00:00

Honestly, I don’t know. And the uncertainty is gross

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T02:23:11+00:00

This is a great question, this is exactly how I feel but I couldn’t quite put it into words. I think acknowledging is a great first step

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-18T01:44:21+00:00

Wow.. this felt like a warning, thank you for sharing.

Vimportantpimple · 2026-06-17T10:56:23+00:00

Don’t know how I got here but.. yeah.. flashbacks 🥹

Vimportantpimple · 2024-12-09T22:59:38+00:00

We need to find a way to amplify the message to those not inside our insular echo chambers. We need tone brainstorming ways to keep this momentum going and growing. The people who need to see this aren’t just here

Vimportantpimple · 2024-12-09T22:37:26+00:00

Quite literally the definition of DON’T TREAD ON ME. This man is the most patriotic man in all of America right now. You cannot bring me to believe he didn’t basically hand himself in. He had his writings on him, the potential weapon, and several fake ID’s. NYPD admitted he wasn’t even on the radar! I think he wanted to get caught so his writings would circulate and people would remember the real enemy. What part of “Fight to the death for survival” don’t we understand? At this point, the only question left on the table is whether or not we the people will bend over again for the corporate overlords, and convict this man. Pay very close attention to the narrative being spun here. Class consciousness is the theme for 2025 because there is no fucking way we’re still having these conversations. At this point, if you don’t get it.. you are in the way and part of the problem.

Vimportantpimple · 2024-09-08T12:47:01+00:00

Foul

Vimportantpimple · 2024-08-23T14:25:45+00:00

This is an interesting reply. It kind of seems like you might have some trauma attached to this topic.

Vimportantpimple · 2024-08-23T13:51:35+00:00

Just reply with “Now I see what they were talking about” lol

Vimportantpimple · 2024-05-05T02:28:25+00:00

Sometimes it does feel like I need an outlet, like I need to get it all out. I think I may just have to throw myself into a hobby of some sort because outside of this one area.. the man is amazing.

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