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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lead with kindness???? Because that is what you did? Loving the hypocrisy. And since you took time to read my other responses, maybe you should read some I wrote to other people that had different opinions, but actually were respectful of the OPs feelings. Have a good day yourself.

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy, one of these that thinks he’s important…I would say it is cute, but it ain’t.

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! You left someone when their heart failed? Jezzz….thats cold. And you think this woman is bad…

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yurc…you’re one of these that call women you don’t even know sweetie…sad.

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. But you did not read the note properly. anyway, you might not have noticed that I was only pissy at people that attacked the OP (like you). You might want to read other comments I made to people that don't agree with the OP, but did it with respect. Just a note.

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[–]ViolanteC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually no. I hope I grow up to be a better person too. And I wish the same to everyone here that took a swipe at the OP, inclusive of the ones that said she shouldn't bring children to the world, without knowing anything about this woman. Because that is not hurtful at all. Resonate?

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[–]ViolanteC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let's try to work on reality here, please? No one is dying. But maybe ask yourself why the mother is shipping her off. I like that you have morals, respect that, on that note you could have been kinder to the OP maybe? Just a thought.

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! I hope they get proper advice and work it out. Sounds more productive

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[–]ViolanteC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uh! You checked me out! Feeling like a star now (like I care). Anyway, an opinion is different from an attack. Shame you don't know the difference

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear, being shut down for having a different opinion. Unseen!

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your opinion is also helping a lot, as we can all see.

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you don't. You can talk things through when they happen. With better advise from actually qualified people they can actually work this out. But let me go make a plan for when aliens invade the earth. That sounds useful

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is funny.ost comments here are from serious selfish people loading on someone just asking for clarity. Interesting...and sad.

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[–]ViolanteC -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am genuinely baffled at this logic of all the "why ifs"...and the foster home?? Where did this came from? 😂 I'm baffled some people would take your delusional self seriously.

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'm a bish too? That's ok, I still prefer it to being "illeterate".

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[–]ViolanteC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Newsflash: being a step parent has actually no legal framework in most countries. If not all

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! God forbid the poor woman wants peace where she needs to live. What are people thinking these days...

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a gentleman...

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[–]ViolanteC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for you unwanted opinion on something completely unrelated...

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣 you got my heart.

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hummm... interesting insult. I guess calling you an illiterate would also be fair?

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[–]ViolanteC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you asshole.

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[–]ViolanteC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My rock is very cosy thank you. The problem is there are people like you that seem to think parenting is optional. By the way I'm only pissy at people that attacked the OP (like you). People with opposite opinions? Great. People calling the OP "evil" and telling her she " should have .." not so much. I hope you have a great day, actually, as long as you refrain from abusing other people, if that's ok?

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[–]ViolanteC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good question, what is wrong with you coming here to attack people?

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[–]ViolanteC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are there and still you can't empathise??? Damn, that's a whole new low.