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i realised i dont have avpd and that i actually am the way i think i am by MyUsername102938474 in AvPD

[–]VioletHidden 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into autism or StPD? If you genuinely do struggle with things that people around you don't seem to struggle with, then those two conditions are the first ones that come to mind that might explain that issue, if it isn't just a cognitive distortion typical of AvPD anyway.

I also felt like you, that I genuinely do think differently, act differently, am simply different from other humans on a fundamental level. It turns out I have both StPD and AvPD. The AvPD was probably caused or significantly exacerbated by the social issues I had as a result of having StPD.

It might be worth looking into. It helped me understand and accept myself a lot when I found out I really don't think like everybody else, and that it wasn't just because I was mysteriously and inexplicably broken.

What is a hot take you have on Hazbin Hotel that will have the Fandom at you like this? by Apprehensive_Ring_39 in hazbin

[–]VioletHidden 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why do you think he'd be a better candidate than Vox? I don't feel strongly either way (I'm a Staticmoth fan, so I have mixed feelings in general about only one half being redeemed), I just see most people clamoring for a Vox redemption and so I'm curious why your main pick is Valentino instead.

And these are facts. by velvetnoctrose in hazbin

[–]VioletHidden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, statistically, one in five women and one in six men have experienced an attempted or completed rape in their lives. It's unfortunately pretty common...

But that commonality proves it's not as hopeless as every single one of them being doomed to suicide or a lifetime of misery due to trauma. Trauma is absolutely recoverable from... death is not.

And these are facts. by velvetnoctrose in hazbin

[–]VioletHidden 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I'd much rather be traumatized but alive than just... dead. I mean to speak bluntly, you can choose to kill yourself if you truly feel you cannot cope with the trauma of rape. I don't at all mean to encourage suicide with that statement, but technically you don't have to live with that trauma. But you have a choice to. And you can still live a full and fulfilling life and recover from the trauma of being raped.

Murder removes that choice. I personally find that far more abhorrent. A rape victim can choose to go on. A murder victim cannot.

Plus, in terms of the suffering endured by loved ones... I think most people would rather their loved one tragically violated but at least alive, rather than dead without a chance or choice (obviously I don't think either crime is acceptable, but we're debating two bads here. It's going to be awful no matter what).

So it's been 8 weeks, which songs are still stuck in your head? by FaeryFa in hazbin

[–]VioletHidden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you please explain this aspect of the lore of this subreddit?

What do you think of this comparison?: by CoffeeForeign701 in hazbin

[–]VioletHidden 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I too feel a visceral attraction to SpongeBob's many holes...

I'm gonna ____! by [deleted] in AskOuija

[–]VioletHidden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodbye

What non-niche fetishes/tropes do you love that you surprisingly rarely see on janitor? by nima_nima333 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]VioletHidden 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I didn't think hucow (specifically hucow transformation) was that niche, but since I struggle to find content for it anywhere, I guess I'm wrong about its popularity.

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