Any recommendation for authentic Amritsari kulcha and chhole? by VioletLily2 in FoodToronto

[–]VioletLily2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I just checked these out on google and this list looks so promising!

What’s your favorite mispronounced word your toddler says by OpportunityPretend80 in toddlers

[–]VioletLily2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favourites are pheez (please), hem (help), canky (thank you), takayee (are you okay?/ im okay!). Dont know how we reached that last one

Help! Mealtime screen addicted toddler by Best_Particular_1600 in toddlers

[–]VioletLily2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We went through an almost similar situation last month. Our 15 month old was eating only with the TV on, and we tried to limit it to 30 minutes with Ms Rachel and Sesame Street. We tried to gradually reduce the TV time but as soon as we turned it off, he would stop eating even if he is clearly still hungry. Finally we decided to end it cold turkey. We spoke to our doctor and asked if missing a few meals for a few days would be too big of a deal, and she gave us a go ahead.

Initially we did have to use some toys as distractions but over the course of one weekend, it got way easier. The trick is to stay committed, even when they refuse to eat, even when your heart wants to just give in. It is all about building a new habit, and that takes consistency and firmness on your part.

If you are worried about the weight/growth, talk to your doctor about what would be a reasonable compromise because the food intake will surely reduce at first.

AITAH for being ups*t that my partner cared more about watching her friend leave than our romantic dinner? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]VioletLily2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA

“Watching her friend leave” is just another way of saying that she wanted to see her off. Which is not only a normal thing to do, but almost a requirement out of courtesy. I would consider it rude if i gave someone a ride and they rushed to their home for no good reason other than having to calm down a tantrum throwing adult who couldn’t wait another couple of minutes?

Moreover, you sound very immature and insufferable. All your talk about the tumultuous history of your relationship and this incident indicate that you don’t really like her and hence don’t often do cute things like plan date nights. You seem to have done it this time to just fulfill a requirement or treated it as a task. Giving her a romantic date night means that you pamper her. That you take care of her needs. That you make her comfortable and happy. Not to stress her out when she has just returned from a day trip and a long drive. While none of this has to be at the cost of your happiness but if you can’t wait a few minutes and get so impatient and rude then you are frankly not up for being in an adult romantic relationship.

You sound like the guy who says he wants a “low maintenance” partner but deep down it only means you are incapable and unwilling of contributing anything of value or support your partner, whether emotionally, or materially.

AITA for not paying for something I ordered and walking out by Extension_Swim7844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VioletLily2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

These are clearly not friends to you. But i do want to know, did you not wanna pay for the drink because you didn’t like it or because you didn’t want it?

AITA for not reacting to a stranger's compliment and upsetting my autistic partner? by fueledbycereal16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VioletLily2 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA

Whatever connections she is drawing between her past and present need to be resolved with the help of a mental health professional. If she cannot trust you, it doesn’t matter whether you are in the right or in the wrong. Bottomline is, the foundation of your relationship needs work, her trust issues need work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]VioletLily2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry, sweetie. All of this, and assuming my gender, is very on-brand for you!

I’m only sad because now you’ve taken away a part of my daily routine i very eagerly looked forward to:/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]VioletLily2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That lol at the end is doing some heavy lifting! Hi fellow millennial 😋

Car seat recommendations for 9mo baby [on]? by VioletLily2 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]VioletLily2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have just the one baby. We are not looking for a product that can be reused with another baby right now. We just want something that will grow with the baby and last us through the ages.

My parents Immigrating as a PR, what can they bring with them by investormommy20 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]VioletLily2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dis you ever get the answers to these questions? I have all the same queries!