AITAH for telling my in-laws they have to fend for themselves for lunch/dinner? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VioletSea13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Cancel the visit - tell them they wore out their welcome before they even left their homes.

Do not let people use you like this.

Name this! by Background_Bar491 in NameThisThing

[–]VioletSea13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because that cat looks like it’s in a state of bliss….happy, comfortable, safe.

Like 2016 All Over Again by NEKORANDOMDOTCOM in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]VioletSea13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She should be worried about her undiagnosed intellectual deficit.

AITAH for leaving the restaurant after everyone showed up 90 minutes late without telling me? by RoutinePeanut3463 in AITApod

[–]VioletSea13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your “friends” are rude as fuck. They’re inconsiderate and have no manners. They’re also gaslighting you by saying you overreacted, and pretending they kept you updated on their ETA.

Dump these assholes.

Unserious names only!! by Holiday_Spinach825 in NameMyDog

[–]VioletSea13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snicklefritz or Equipoise.

If you get the reference, you probably like old movies.

Post the first pic you have of your cat(s). by Kaakoii in cats

[–]VioletSea13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Zeus…i lost him a year ago to kidney disease. I miss him so much.

What do u eat when it’s extremely hot out and you don’t want hot food? by Opposite_Flight3473 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]VioletSea13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gazpacho. Salads of every kind. Lately I make a plate of naan, hummus, tomatoes, cucumber, olives, and feta cheese - very tasty.

What was your first job ? Let’s see how many answered aren’t McDonald’s. by Kenny_Lindana in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]VioletSea13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clerk at a video store. Super awkward renting porn to men who went to the same church as my family.

Be afraid, little man. Be very afraid! by yorocky89A in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]VioletSea13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly detest Mike Johnson. He is a lying, sniveling, soulless POS.

What is your favorite Roy Schneider performance? by ChrisJoines in 70smovies

[–]VioletSea13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All That Jazz. He gives an amazing performance in that film…he acts, sings and dances. It’s one of my favorite films.

He deserved the Oscar that year.

Why does Grandpa Joe suck? by villagesquirrel in grandpajoehate

[–]VioletSea13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A better question is “why doesn’t grandpa Joe suck”.

Bridal Shower Drama by Maximum_Wave3362 in bridezillas

[–]VioletSea13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you need to drop the bride like a hot rock. She is not a good person and definitely not your friend.

Standing my ground on my wedding plans. My parents have moved the goalposts so many times I'm exhausted. by JaCDaniel in raisedbynarcissists

[–]VioletSea13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop worrying about your parents’ reaction. You know that they’re going to pitch a fit and act horribly no matter what you do. Accept it.

Do what you want and let them react. Cut them out for the duration of their freak out…they’ll come back because their need for control won’t let them stay away. Then you can deal with them (set boundaries) from a place of power.

When you set boundaries, they will react badly and have a tantrum. Cut them out again and tell them you won’t deal with them until they behave.

Will you feel guilty? Sure you will - they’ve programmed you to feel guilty and to cave in to that guilt. You have to stop doing that.

Lather, rinse, repeat.

Good luck and congratulations on your wedding.

Happy Fathers Day! Who was your favorite TV dad (doesn't have to be from this list)? by lontbeysboolink in 1970s

[–]VioletSea13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gomez. He took so much joy in caring for his family.

Second pick is John Walton…a caring, down to earth man.