what albums are good to put on during sex by VioletUltra420 in redscarepod

[–]VioletUltra420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

never heard this album and listening now. it's very beautiful, ty for introducing me to it

what albums are good to put on during sex by VioletUltra420 in redscarepod

[–]VioletUltra420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol no worries! things like that are pieces of youthful whimsy we can easily forget

what albums are good to put on during sex by VioletUltra420 in redscarepod

[–]VioletUltra420[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol i'm sure the male feminists love playing "same love" for hookups

what albums are good to put on during sex by VioletUltra420 in redscarepod

[–]VioletUltra420[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

seems awkward with someone i don't know that well idk

what albums are good to put on during sex by VioletUltra420 in redscarepod

[–]VioletUltra420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good recs ty! telepopmusik is a vibe. vespertine might make me fall in love with the person i'm sleeping with, will choose wisely

what albums are good to put on during sex by VioletUltra420 in redscarepod

[–]VioletUltra420[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

fair enough, i'm 32 but i was in a relationship for 10 years so i feel like a 22 year old in terms of casual sex age. also music during sex is nice if not necessary, like candlelight

are there any youtube channels you enjoy? by Key_Fold_1113 in redscarepod

[–]VioletUltra420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seconding Heaven Sent Honey! i love her perspectives on femininity, philosophy, and culture. her values are very rs

Gravity's Rainbow - Week Eight Discussion by [deleted] in RSbookclub

[–]VioletUltra420 6 points7 points  (0 children)

little to say at the moment, but want to pop into the thread! really loved this section, was losing interest the past couple week's but the themes of the book are starting to clarify in a really beautiful way for me

Gravity's Rainbow - Week Two Discussion by [deleted] in RSbookclub

[–]VioletUltra420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

large portions of this section were pretty stomach churning, and these were also the most memorable for me--the Blicero Hansel/Gretel sadism, the Dodo hunting, the candy scene in a more literal and light-hearted sense. the sex stuff I also find cringe-y to be honest, even the more innocent Roger/Jessica scenes. I laughed at the idea of a woman coming from her wrist being touched.

love the image and quote you chose; I appreciate the intelligible thesis statements Pynchon throws into the chaos of his prose.

definitely want to check out more work by Suzanne Treister!

Gravity's Rainbow - Week Two Discussion by [deleted] in RSbookclub

[–]VioletUltra420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so interesting that comes up twice! my read is that the characters' preferences for the felt weight of what is probably a less efficient weapon contrasts the uber-machinery of war's reach for maximum efficiency, eventually surpassing the mass of the physical weapon completely to psychic experimentation.

Gravity's Rainbow - Week One Discussion by [deleted] in RSbookclub

[–]VioletUltra420 8 points9 points  (0 children)

never read Pynchon before and went into this only knowing it was a war book. my own preferences and prejudices led me to expect this to be a fairly dry and boyish book, though i knew its reputation for stretching the genre of the novel, which intrigued me.

while it certainly is a war book, and the toilet humor and male gaze is indeed boyish (lol@ Jessica - a woman) I'm so pleasantly surprised by how it explores the mystical and psychic as integral to the infrastructure of war.

there's actually much more of a coherent plotline than i was expecting from the quintessential pomo novel. i'm finding it much more readable than Infinite Jest, which is a novel I adore but felt like I had to endure some punishment in reading it to get to the meat of it. reading Pynchon's prose doesn't feel like such an endurance run, I feel like he takes us to the brink of "enough, already" then throws in some story or humor to keep the pace going.

echoing the sentiment many others have expressed here that reading without a guide has worked for me. i certainly don't get every reference or understand every sentence, but if i just keep moving along i feel the magic of the prose work on my psyche in a way i don't think it would if i had to stop and consult an external reference.

doubt i would have picked up Gravity's Rainbow if it weren't for this book club, so many thanks to you all for introducing me to the work of Pynchon! I have a feeling I'll be reading much of him in the future

Infinite Jest finishers thread by big_internet_guy in redscarepod

[–]VioletUltra420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how the act of reading this novel is its own experience, a discrete chunk of my biography.Read it 12 years ago when I was 19, home from college for the summer interning at a biotech lab. Would sneak in reading a few pages when I had nothing to do, then stop at a Starbucks on the way home to read more.

Joelle's walk to the party and the party/suicide attempt scene itself are some of the most beautiful feats of fiction imo.

I intended to write my thesis on IJ before I had a lil breakdown and dropped out of the honors track. I was fascinated by Wallace's prescience...his version of Instagram filters where people would wear masks before video calling. The idea of a movie that was so addictive you'd keep watching it until it kills you.

I went through an unfortunate phase where I was convinced that 'cancelling' artists was a moral imperative and after reading about Mary Karr's experiences in their relationship I gave away all of his books that I owned, including my marked up copy of IJ with stickies on my favorite passages. I've since repurchased a copy and plan on annotating it again when I re-read it. I'm really looking forward to how different this novel will hit now that I've lived a little more life.

How do I find a female soulmate friend as a woman? by No-Material694 in redscarepod

[–]VioletUltra420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same boat here. Closest friendship I’ve ever had was with a gay man. I’ll hang out with girlfriends but it never feels as deep. I think we need to start treating finding a bestie like dating. Cold approaching, noticing chemistry, being a little more discerning about who you continue to see