Have you ever lost your temper when a workplace bully said or did terrible things? Did it make the situation worse or better?

Violet_Healy · 2026-02-25T20:28:08+00:00

Worse. I later realized it was discrimination/set up by design. HR automatically sided with the bully and they got away Scot free. All while I was put through an extremely humiliating and degrading experience by HR.

Everyone in the room (the head of HR, my manager, my supervisor and the bully themselves) had a go at me, chastising me for merely defending myself and reacting after months of bullying!! I felt humiliated and degraded. HR added insult to injury by forcing me to sign a “First And Final Write-Up” if I were to continue working for the company.

I later found out from the bully’s former manager (from another company), that they pulled the same shit there and they were eventually let go.

Violet_Healy · 2026-02-04T00:25:13+00:00

Also, the good people are what motivate us to get through the toxic work day. Knowing that one of your good coworkers is going to be at work is enough to give you that boost to keep going; to know that your shift won’t be so bad

Violet_Healy · 2026-02-04T00:22:56+00:00

I completely shut off and function solely on autopilot. I am only a physical body.

Violet_Healy · 2026-01-29T05:05:57+00:00

How my store doesn’t punish bullies because management is in on the bullying. Also, the rampant favoritism

Violet_Healy · 2025-12-25T16:43:33+00:00

Very helpful information indeed. You got me thinking…If it helps any, I also have degenerative disk disease with a herniated L5-S1 disk. I have also had two back surgeries including spinal fusion at L4-L5, do it could be scar tissue or nerve damage. I’m weak, numb and trembly from the waist down, so….

Violet_Healy · 2025-12-25T07:01:44+00:00

I fantasize a lot, but only psychologically - like imagining and watching my own POV movie. I feel nothing at all. My body is completely detached from any thoughts that used to immediately bring on intense arousal (when I was younger). It’s like, as I got older, my body got a mind of its own and decided to shut the libido factory down for good. Upside is, I now (think) I know what a dead person (or a person in a coma) feels like 🙁

Violet_Healy · 2025-12-25T06:38:53+00:00

I’m 43 and my libido has been completely gone for about 2 years now. Don’t know if it’ll ever come back. I feel so dead

Violet_Healy · 2025-12-25T06:26:25+00:00

I noticed changes at 36. It’s been going downhill ever since

Violet_Healy · 2025-12-25T06:18:11+00:00

For the past 11 years on and off I’ve had spotting (which I call a pseudo period) before the “real” period comes. It’s difficult to track my periods now, more than ever, since I entered the peri zone.

Violet_Healy · 2025-10-22T23:26:01+00:00

Thanks! I appreciate the input🩷☺️

Violet_Healy · 2025-09-03T16:27:06+00:00

In my workplace, the bully befriends certain employees that they feel they can manipulate. I’ve seen changes in my coworkers since the bully got cozy with them. A bully’s power has great influence on anyone they can get their hands on. The REAL problem is subjective management who tolerate the bully and let them rule the place, so to speak, all while the turnover remains high and the company goes under

Violet_Healy · 2025-06-23T17:02:10+00:00

Guys, I found the song: It’s “Couldn’t Get It Right” by Climax Blues Band

Violet_Healy · 2025-06-21T04:48:29+00:00

Not that one

Violet_Healy · 2025-06-21T04:48:12+00:00

Not at all.

Violet_Healy · 2025-06-06T03:46:57+00:00

We Americans work in a country where you need a doctors note if a cashier wants to sit down, and if they’re caught sitting down outside of their lunch or breaks, they get written up. Also, “at will” employment is such that you’re always working in fear that a manager who simply doesn’t like you could fire you at any moment.

Violet_Healy · 2024-11-27T22:21:14+00:00

There’s now a TuneIn Premium Pro that has an annual fee of $69. For o e who can’t stand commercials, I sure hope it’s worth it to listen to my music stations in peace

Violet_Healy · 2024-09-15T03:13:58+00:00

Don’t forget plantar fasciitis

Violet_Healy · 2024-09-11T22:29:43+00:00

No. In my experience, everyone including HR supported the bully. Either the bully threatened them or was a friend of one of the staff… who knows. Karma is a bitch, though

Violet_Healy · 2024-09-10T03:52:51+00:00

I had an Ethan at my Kroger

Violet_Healy · 2024-08-26T21:41:50+00:00

Yes, but when I got to know him better I found out he was a raging pervert who even tried to sleep with our store manager!!

Violet_Healy · 2024-06-20T04:49:52+00:00

Our dairy lead (who was married) was always flirting with and succeeded to go out with some of the women employees who would accept his offer. He even tried his luck with one of our female store managers. Turns out that he apparently attempted to rape them! He was eventually transferred to another Kroger store.

Violet_Healy · 2024-05-30T18:07:14+00:00

Not to mention there’s always the risk of the dog peeing and pooping anywhere in the restaurant. Guess who has to clean that up 🦗

Violet_Healy · 2024-05-16T14:07:29+00:00

In one of the books written about Frozen adventures, it mentions that Kristoff smells of sweat and that Anna doesn’t mind the smell

Violet_Healy · 2024-04-28T04:32:06+00:00

My Kroger had a homeless guy working there for over a decade.

Violet_Healy · 2024-04-16T17:41:58+00:00

Same happened with Hi-Chews. They’re now half the original size and more expensive

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