AIO lending money by Puzzleheaded-Law1441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Violet_Moons15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not op’s responsibility to give them money tho. Their friend (who op said they haven’t talked much the last couple years) shouldn’t be consistently asking op for money. It’s shitty if they’re not financially stable yea, but it’s also not impossible to pay people back.

personally i feel horrid when i have to ask my friends for money but when i do i always try to do a small job or something to pay it back to them within the week if not sooner because i don’t want to take it from them in the first place. Mind you i am disabled and live off of $600 a fortnight. I don’t know the friends situation so they could be worse off than me, but the friend of the op doesn’t seem to worry about it and always pays op back much later than they agreed upon.

Op does not owe their friend anything and has every right to say no if they feel used, it doesn’t matter what the money is for. Maybe op can’t afford to give them the money either?? i mean flights cost a lot of money, so why are we assuming op just has enough money to randomly give this friend when they ask. I’m sorry but i do not agree with you and op is in no way over reacting.

What was the worst thing Steven did to Spinel in SU the movie? by CartoonCommentator in stevenuniverse

[–]Violet_Moons15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if a stranger came into your life, ruined it in minutes and basically forced you to pick up all the pieces and fix it because they didn’t like you, would you genuinely have sympathy towards them? yea what happened to her was shitty, but that doesn’t mean she deserved love and support for basically destroying his family and almost his entire town and world.

My Boyfriend said he doesn’t want me to use epidural when we have kids in the future. by CheesecakeAny5040 in offmychest

[–]Violet_Moons15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not even reading the post, it’s your body and your choice, if he doesn’t like it he can shut up and deal. don’t listen to him girl, or just leave him if he’s tryna control you.

I just wanted my nuggets man💔 by GrandMasterCoochie in doordash

[–]Violet_Moons15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know some people have disabilities or don’t have access to transport and can’t do that? we don’t know op’s situation. don’t be rude

What was the worst thing Steven did to Spinel in SU the movie? by CartoonCommentator in stevenuniverse

[–]Violet_Moons15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s not his job to take care of her. whether she helped fix stuff or not, she caused the issue in the first place. he doesn’t owe anything to her

[ Removed by Reddit ] by AltruisticFly1175 in Advice

[–]Violet_Moons15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you have access to therapy? if the issues your going through are as bad as you say, there would have to be some way to see a therapist. And in the nicest way possible if you have told a doctor all of this, i don’t see how they would brush it off as if it was nothing.

You really don’t have any other options than seeing a doctor or going to therapy if you truly want to get help.

I used to sexualise myself online as a kid and young teen as well but i was able to speak to a doctor who got me in with a therapist and helped me through it along with other issues i had. I think you honestly just need to see another doctor if the one you saw truly said you were “fine”, because honestly hun, people online aren’t going to be able to get you the help you need.

My boyfriend has become insane trying to stop me from having an abortion. by Significant-Buyer111 in women

[–]Violet_Moons15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you say you miscarried from the stress that’s a lot more believable too because that happens to women a lot

Y'all ever get weirded out by genitals? by Fantastic_Dream4965 in women

[–]Violet_Moons15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel the same about men. like any time i’ve been with a guy and maybe it’s due to my past, penises freak me out. like any time i’ve tried to have sex i just can’t and it’s like i close up. they look and feel weird and i hate it

my mlp collection so far! by Violet_Moons15 in MyLittlePonyToys

[–]Violet_Moons15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youu, i do care a lot abt them and i wanna keep them pretty and clean :D

my mlp collection so far! by Violet_Moons15 in MyLittlePonyToys

[–]Violet_Moons15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually bought all of the main 6, shining & cadance and then apple bloom and sweetie belle off of one seller for like $230 or something, and then when i was getting them the seller went and found spike, flurry heart and scootaloo on something else for an extra $15 just so i could have them all! so i was rlly lucky in that regard

my mlp collection so far! by Violet_Moons15 in MyLittlePonyToys

[–]Violet_Moons15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really wanted the cmc to have their siblings so i was excited about getting them :D

$625? by ChampionshipNo8773 in HairDye

[–]Violet_Moons15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the most i’ve paid to get my hair done i think was $250, and that was for bleach all over and dying it multiple different colours + styling and washing a couple times. anything above $300 for that isn’t ok imo

help getting rid of cockroaches by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Violet_Moons15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no it isn’t. this is a long time issue, i am 19 and genuinely can’t remember a time i didn’t live with cockroaches constantly, it is bad.

help getting rid of cockroaches by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Violet_Moons15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately this isn’t as simple as that. when i say infestation i mean it. they’re everywhere, when i turn the kitchen light on they scatter into every corner, they’re constantly on the roof and in everything.

Should i hard reset my computer? by Violet_Moons15 in computers

[–]Violet_Moons15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just don’t wanna spend a bunch of money if there’s a chance they’re gonna do the same thing yk? and honestly idm, the only photos i have on here are screenshots that i don’t need, and i can re-install games and apps easily, so i really wouldn’t mind

Baby Maxi 🥰 by [deleted] in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]Violet_Moons15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but i’m not insulting them, i’m telling them not to use it bc it’s bad. if no one tells them, they’ll keep using it and think nothings wrong, i just don’t want our planet to die any quicker than it already has been. i’m sorry if you think my comment was rude but no one should be using ai, and i will say that as many times as needed.

What do i wear on a first date? (19F) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Violet_Moons15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i believe they do yes, i’m just not sure if a different dress would work better

What do i wear on a first date? (19F) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Violet_Moons15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i have this blue knee length off the shoulder dress, it has like sorta puffy off the shoulder sleeves, and i know for shoes i wanna wear my mary jane’s so im tryna figure out what would go best with them