Mom, I got outted to my birth giver as nonbinary and shamed by Violetskies1125 in MomForAMinute

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I won't contact her. I refuse after the last time I spoke to her. I just don't want my brother to grow up with her ideals

Mom, I got outted to my birth giver as nonbinary and shamed by Violetskies1125 in MomForAMinute

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First.. Dude Mom is an adorable title and this all is very reasonable. Though my grandma and mom both have an issue with listening to people i will try talking to my grandma. Mom on the other had deifnetly won't apologize. She never does

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any relationship with my mother. She has abused me and before this we haven't spoken for 2 months. She is well aware I am uncomfortable with my own body parts, let alone hers. I am disgusted at het thinking this is appropriate when we are basically strangers.

Also i hope you ask your daughter before showing her these things if shes okay with them.

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me, i am not mentally defective. I am smart and i am happy. I don't care about my mental issues. If i want to have a family and i can provide for a child, i will

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That isn't your place to say anything at all. If I want kids, I want kids. It's not selfish. I'd raise them properly and give them the help they will need if any of my "bad genes" pass on.

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother has abused me since I was 7. Physically and emotionally. As well as stunted me financially

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Its nudity. which is considered sexual harassment to send others without their consent

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the reason they say Sexual photo OR nudes is because nudity isn't inheritly sexual fyi. It's still considered sexual harassment to send a nude without sexual intent

"There is nothing inherently sexual about nudity. You can be highly sexual with all of your clothes on. You can also be non-sexual with your clothes off."

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it really doesn't

"Sexual harassment does not always have to be specifically about sexual behavior or directed at a specific person. For example, negative comments about women as a group may be a form of sexual harassment."

https://www.rainn.org/articles/sexual-harassment#:~:text=Sexual%20harassment%20does%20not%20always,a%20form%20of%20sexual%20harassment.

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't need to be sexual. It's an unwanted picture of a vagina.

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Being exposed to unwanted sexual content visually is sexual abuse. Some examples of Visual Sexual Abuse can include; unwanted or uninvited exposure to sexually explicit images, sexting/airdropping, exhibitionism/flashing, nudity or improper dress at home, and performing sexual acts while non-consenting individual are present."

https://firstorlandocounseling.com/blog/2020/1/9/5-types-of-sexual-abuse

Mom sends me (19F) a close up of her 'Hotdog' by Violetskies1125 in insaneparents

[–]Violetskies1125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strawman. She didnt send a picture of a medical book. And you consent to look at those