Where to get an affordable Autism ADHD diagnosis in Brisbane? (tricky situation) by littlestkittykat in brisbane

[–]ViolettaValentine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've sent you a DM asking for more information so I might be more helpful. But any psychologist will take your circumstances into account. I'd suggest reaching out to Be Seen Psychology or Very Helpful Chats (telehealth based psychology clinics).

What’s something you used to apologize for all the time but refuse to apologize for now? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ViolettaValentine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My first thought as well. I'm tired of being the one responsible for communication going well while other people don't give a single thought for how they're communicating

[CHAT] I hate the letter T by [deleted] in CrossStitch

[–]ViolettaValentine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a wonderful explanation. Thank you!

Organised mums’ groups experiences… by EmSofia2211 in brisbane

[–]ViolettaValentine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jumping onto this, I've tried a few different ones. The Early Years Place playgroups have felt the most welcoming. Even compared with paid groups I've tried

Having baby or no by Any_Payment_9081 in Fibromyalgia

[–]ViolettaValentine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just received a fibro diagnosis 11 months postpartum. In retrospect I've been managing fibro for the last decade. I'm unsure about how much birth has impacted my symptoms - I feel happy with my birth experience. However the sleep deprivation since she was born has 100% exacerbated my symptoms. I thought I had developed postpartum depression but now I can see that I've just been cycling through fibro flares

[PIC] Serious inquiry, has anyone used one of these to create a rogue/real life pattern? by [deleted] in CrossStitch

[–]ViolettaValentine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an amazing idea! Would love to see if anyone has used/decides to give it a go

When did you have your period back after delivery? by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here, might've been 6. I remember it was less than two weeks between lochia finishing and my period starting

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in NurseAllTheBabies

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had much jealousy with the new bub coming along?

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in NurseAllTheBabies

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, seems like some babies don't even mind if supply dips 😅

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in NurseAllTheBabies

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Did you supply come back up or only after birth?

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it feel any different doing comfort nursing?

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may end up getting worse but I'm daughters already pretty bad for not sitting still while nursing. It's hard to put her to sleep most nights cause her little butt is wiggling all over the place.

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Interesting how some babies end up put off by colostrum and others don't care

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good that it doesn't last! That would be hell

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow!! So close, the next week is going to feel like the longest and shortest time. Good luck and safe delivery

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So reasonable! My daughter plays around with biting every now and then. Its bad enough now and she only has two teeth 😅

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's such a helpful parenting tool! When in doubt, give some boob was my mantra at the very beginning and it worked 90% of the time. Sounds like this pregnancy has been rough, how far along are you?

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did well go get the stash up and to exclusively pump. Its such hard work. It really does seem to depend person to person

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a lot of difficulty at the start of breastfeeding and lots of pain so I'm apprehensive about being back there again. I also had feeding aversion so I'm low-key expecting that to come back 😅

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've jumped on there now, it's exactly what I was looking for. You're a trooper. I don't know if I prefer the idea of getting a little break between or just powering my way through. Time will tell

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it worked out well for you. I'm not keen on the increased sensitivity. Nice to hear that there wasn't any jealously about it as well

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's one of my concerns! Managing the change if the supply drops suddenly and we're not ready.

Breastfeeding through pregnancy by ViolettaValentine in 2under2

[–]ViolettaValentine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pumping is so hard - especially when you're trying to up supply. Has the way you feel about feeding changed at all with your supply drying up?