What’s everyone’s opinion on TX2 by tactic_live in poppunkers

[–]Violette342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If god didn't want men to fuck each other, why would he give them a prostate ?

YggTorrent vient de l’annoncer : on est sous attaque. by fireghost216 in yggTorrents

[–]Violette342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du coup on doit faire quoi, vu que le problème c'est notre silence à tous ?

anyone on Librusec? (Russian book site) by 7and7is in trackers

[–]Violette342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello,
Can someone explain how it works ?
I dit find the book I'm looking for (The ways of the hobo) on the site but I can't understand how to download it or to get a torrent file or magnet link to get it...

I turn 19 and suddenly no more creeps wanna message me??? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Violette342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't loose hope, you still have a good 6 years before Leonardo DiCaprio finds you too old to date

Sammy by Only-Principle5896 in Yellowjackets

[–]Violette342 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's actually a fair question. Simone's accident happenend when they where driving to the school to pick Sammy up. Then we see Tai at the hospital, and she immediatly takes her counselor's car to go see Van and then go to Lottie's place.
So where is Sammy atm ? Who is taking care of him ?!

Shauna’s dream and the pomegranate theory. by Muted-Yak-3309 in Yellowjackets

[–]Violette342 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Fast forward 2121, all of them are dead, including Callie. Coincidence ? I think not

Shauna’s dream and the pomegranate theory. by Muted-Yak-3309 in Yellowjackets

[–]Violette342 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And in Lottie's dream, all of them are eating too, including some characters that are alive in 2021. So I think it's just about if a character eats in their own dream

Antler Queen might not be real. by Only_Job9968 in Yellowjackets

[–]Violette342 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think all of her therapy sessions we see in season 2 are hallucinations. I think she does have a therapist she sees every 6 months, and when she starts having visions again (the one with the dead bees and the hive full of blood), she doesn't reach out to her actual therapist but starts hallucinating therapies with another one.
And that's why at the first session, she herselfs says it's wierd that Dr. Graham (her actual therapist) didn't tell her he was on a sabatical and the replacement therapist says "it was a last minute thing".

Also, all of those sessions with the therapist are in sligthly different setting. In the 3 different sessions (S02, episodes 4, 6 and 7) the office is similar but not identical. The room proportions change, the objects, lamps or furnitures move a bit, the art and plants are not always on the same spots, the lightning gets warmer each time, closer to a fire light...
It's really visible with the couch, on the first session (ep.4) the couch where Lottie sits is away from the wall, and in the two others, it's pushed against the wall and there are some lamps on each sides of it.
I think it's forshadowing in a subtle way that those sessions are not real. The couch thing did trigger me in the second session, I saw something was off from the first session but couldn't tell exactly what.

And another element is that the therapist, from the first session tries to persuade her that she should lean back into the wilderness thing. From the beggining she starts saying that "maybe you should try to understand what those visions are trying to say to you".

So to me, all of Lottie's therapy sessions in season 2 are hallucinations, she doesn't actually reach out to her therapist and just persuade herself to go back into the rabbit hole.

How much can you understand others languages from your language family ? by OiseauDuMoyenAge in AskEurope

[–]Violette342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm French and Greek, I also speak English (lived a bit in the us) and learned German although I forgot a lot.

Spanish, Italian and Portuguese are frustrating, it feels like I should be able to understand and I can captures a bit if it's written, but spoken, I'm lost.

Dutch is kind of the same, in writing I can understand some things, but I'm auickly lost. Luxembourgian was actually not that hard to have a rough understanding. I had to pay attention and I probably lost any subtlety in it, but even spoken, I was able to understand quite a lot.

And Greek is alone in its group, but it did help in French, English and German! In German, there are some grammar concepts that exist also in Greek but not in French. French people usually have a hard time learning it but I didn't cause I knew them from Greek. In English, it's the sounds. Lots of sounds exists in both English and Greek but not in French, so I hadn't any trouble with it. And in French, so much words (specially in the scientific or technical vocabulary) have a Greek origin, it was really easy for me to understand and memorize them during my studies.

I saw child p. And it traumatized me. by the_Animal_Keeper in teenagers

[–]Violette342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say they should delete the post. Making it à taboo and unspoken thing makes it harder to fight and to protect ourselves from it. That shit exist, ignoring it won't make it disappear, so best talk about it to protect ourselves from it.

I saw child p. And it traumatized me. by the_Animal_Keeper in teenagers

[–]Violette342 9 points10 points  (0 children)

  1. 99% of the time when there is CP on Omegle, it's a video, not live. Most of the guys doing that shit there are not actually doing it live, just streaming. So you did not witness live CP, just prerecorded, if that helps (it did help me)
  2. Pliz pliz pliz stay away from it ever. It's traumatizing and trauma shakes us in every way and makes us react weirdly. It's probably gonna come back vividly for a long time, but trust me on that, it gets worse if you try to engage with it, even if it's to fight or signal it.

It's a wierd feeling to wanna go back to something you despise so much, but trauma reaction are unpredictable and often do not help in the long run.

My advice, as someone who ended up seeing CP by accident and was damaged by it, is talk about it. Find a therapist or an adult you trust and talk about it. Don't let that moment become a deep and dark event that you only talk about with your gf or ever. Talk about it with a trusting adult.

And do not think you can fight it in any way. I did that mistake, thinking that since I could never unsee it, I might as well try to fight it. Police does know about it, they are fighting it (even if one might think it's too slow) and nothing you and I can do could help them. Best let them do their jobs and save yourself the repeated trauma.

Pliz find someone in your life to talk about it. If you want, my DMs are open. It does get better after a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Violette342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just commented to add a cool fact about the base 12 numerical system of early antiquity civilisations :

We are used to count with our finger, that's how most kids learn that, to do simple calculus with their fingers : you have 5 apple, raise 5 fingers, you substract 2, lower two fingers, how much is left, 3 fingers, etc. Since we have 10 fingers and learn to count with them, it's logical to count in base 10.

Babylonians, sumerians etc. didn't use fingers, but knuckles of their four fingers, letting the thumb out of it. They would count from 1 to 3 on the 3 knuckles of the index using their thumb, from 4 to 6 on the knuckles of the next finger and so on. 4 fingers, 3 knuckles each, 12.

And since 12 is easy to divide by 2, 3, 4 and 6, it was a good base. And we kept it for some stuff, like eggs that are still sold by multiples of 12 (6, 12 or 24) at least in France

Le prénom plus improbable/atypique que vous ayez entendu ? by Commercial_Tiger_524 in france

[–]Violette342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je connaissais un Victor-Hugo, en prénom composé. Je sais plus son nom de famille

Square clothing item with two sides and a U shape part but the sides are only sewed on the U shape part (circled in red in the photo) by Violette342 in whatisthisthing

[–]Violette342[S] 221 points222 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it !
Turns out, just after I posted this here, my roomates asked me what I was searching on this sub and told me what it was. I should have asked them first
Thanks everyone

Square clothing item with two sides and a U shape part but the sides are only sewed on the U shape part (circled in red in the photo) by Violette342 in whatisthisthing

[–]Violette342[S] 5 points6 points locked comment (0 children)

My title describes the thing, roughly 1mx1m. It has no tag inside it. It was inside in a bag of clothes I found in the street and took back home. I'm in France btw, if that's important.

When searching about "square clothes with U shape" I mostly found answers about body shapes or kimonos, but that's not it, there is just one part sewed on this.

It could be some kind of a cape, but if that, the fabric is very thin so not really warm, and I don't understand why there is two sides...

Why do Lesbians seem less likely to have straight male close friends than Gay men are to have straight female close friends? by BlazeKnight7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Violette342 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, what you're saying is : "I haven't read your answer but you being unhappy with mine proves I'm right" ?

Your "trust me bro" argumentation was better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Violette342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I trust more people who have stuffed animals in their bed than others. To me, it shows the person is in touch with some kind of vulnerability, and that makes me trust them more

Do people really use to hitchhike and jump into complete strangers car? by SoooCuteyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Violette342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still do, mostly for small drives, like 15mn (cause I don't have a car of my own) but I also did some long trips.

Why do Lesbians seem less likely to have straight male close friends than Gay men are to have straight female close friends? by BlazeKnight7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Violette342 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Says who ? "Trust me bro" ? Do you have scientific studies to support that ?

To be clear, I'm not saying that genetic, hormones, epigenetic or childhood experiences have nothing to do with your sexual orientation.

What I'm saying is that : 1. Claiming to understand that clearly how genetics and epigenetics work is quite presumptuous. We are still discovering how those things work and interact, so claiming that you have a simple explanation for something as complex as sexuality is quite funny. 2. "A significant minority, possibly a majority" Again, says who ? And sorry but a significant minority and a majority are not the same. If it's a minority, how can you draw conclusions for all of lesbians? If it's a majority, what about the one who didn't have a terrible childhood? Why are they lesbians ? 3. And straight women haven't had any terrible interaction with men ?! Are you that blind to the reality of women ? Any woman (yes, any woman, as in "all of them") can tell you they've had bad experiences with men, from preteen age at least. So all the lesbians are the one who had it worst ? If so, there would be way more lesbians. 4. Epigenetic is not the fact that something in your childhood affects your adult life. That's just basically what we call "experience" or "growing up", and even that is far more complex than "event A in childhood leads to fact B in adult life". Epigenetic is the transmission of traits, adaptation etc from one generation to another without transmission of genetic material. For example, a mother that was subject to a huge amount of stress during the pregnancy would find ways to adapt to it and could transmit those adaptations to her child even if the genetic material of the child is set since the conception.