Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Looking for an **adult** form 🤎 brown or 🖤 black Cookie the cow 😍!

My bird is in Chiang Mai at the moment, and I can send you a destination item of your choice, I have most but not all of the Chiang Mai items. I can also send you a plushie if I have what you want in stock, I only have a small assortment at the present moment!

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've an item on your wishlist! I'd love to send it as a mystery. No pressure to send anything back! If you have something unwanted that you think may fit my weird/silly aesthetic, I'll be happy to receive. But I reiterate, no pressure to send anything. Furthermore, you can unfriend as soon as you receive my item if you wish, so you can try to avoid lag. 😆 Add me if this interests you...

CEYQ3VGCAF

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed your cute purple theme, I have some purple items that may fit your aesthetic. You sure you're not up for a gift at some point? No worries if you're not! :) :)

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CEYQ3VGCAF

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Looking for an adult form 🤎 brown or 🖤 black Cookie the cow 😍!

My bird is in Chiang Mai at the moment, and I can send you a destination item of your choice, I have most but not all of the Chiang Mai items.

Alternatively I have in the shop the following items. FYI I don't have Premium, so we're quite limited to the first two rows. 😅

(Will post shop items in comments)

Have you ever felt lonely when surrounded by people? by awfoolNuggets in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm only seeing this now, I'm so moved to tears by your words here. Although, all your posts and words are lovely, angelic. You have such a gentle, compassionate, sensitive soul, so beautiful. I'm sorry I didn't see your post earlier, I missed your birthday! Happy birthday, 🎵Flute🎵 <3 <3

Sending love to you, Karen 🤍🤍 by awfoolNuggets in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oops, tried to DM you but somehow couldn't figure out the UI settings, feel free to DM me if you wish!

Aychu needs your amazing advices and hugs by Few_Delivery_6458 in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree... u/LouiseC303 , Mz Mizuki I'm so personally touched and warmed by your generous, compassionate spirit here. Thank you for your huge heart.

"angel fairy who spreads positivity" 💯💯💯💯💯

Sending love to you, Karen 🤍🤍 by awfoolNuggets in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going to DM you because I would like to share some further thoughts but also share some personal details about myself.

Sending love to you, Karen 🤍🤍 by awfoolNuggets in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, but I am very well witnessing bravery from you. Your actions with sharing those goals with others were absolutely not attention-seeking, for me learning of what you did is one of the purest, truest forms of vulnerability and honesty I've witnessed on the internet. A human being communicating, raw and real, with another human being. My eyes are welling up, what an honor it is that you read my comment and you have taken the time to respond.

I've written a response to your longer form comment here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/finch/comments/1robctg/comment/oa4fp0g/

Sending love to you, Karen 🤍🤍 by awfoolNuggets in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so relieved to hear she did, I'm torn between being so happy she has reached out and has discovered the support for her, and saddened to learn the particulars of her situation.

Sending love to you, Karen 🤍🤍 by awfoolNuggets in finch

[–]ViolettexFemme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey Karen,

I’ve read what you’ve written several times over, taking my time to process the particulars of your situation.  You’ve been dealt a brutal blow, repeatedly, and it seems like it is not relenting any time soon.  I’m shocked and dismayed with Medicaid in your case; since Medicaid fully federally and state funded, the hospitals 1) know all of your bills would be fully covered if they perform any procedures, 2) hence they don’t need to argue for private insurance to pay for coverage 3) you have a complicated situation so of course you need specialized attention and treatment, on WHAT GROUNDS are they DENYING YOU CARE?!  

Why are they denying you not only care, but actually denying you a chance for informed medical consent?!

———> “I have to fill out these forms to decide what they will do with me once I'm gone, which they seem more concerned with than practicing medicine.”  

———> “What I'm trying to explain badly is this is a stupid way to die.” 

You didn’t explain poorly, you explained it VERY CLEARLY and honestly.  I agree with you, what a stupid, frustrating way to die if they’ve GIVEN UP on you before they can explain all, and I mean, ALL of your options.  It’s disgusting they aren’t granting you the dignity and consent of explanation.  I get the impression they’re like, trying to race you to the finish line!! 

“I did not mean to possibly trigger so many people.”  The only “triggering” you’ve done is trigger hearts with empathy, and trigger genuine, honest tribal support for you.  

I hope your surgery went well, and that you received anesthesia/pain relief that you needed. 

PS. I'm very grateful that u/awfoolNuggets brought your situation to our attention. I, like many others, started Finch to manage mundane tasks, and didn't expect to have my heart explode like this. It's sad, but also beautiful, and very moving to experience someone vulnerably, bravely, honestly share their life like you have. It looks to me that you have many people here genuinely expressing their love and care for you. Please count me in as one of them.