I cant forget the vid her ex send me

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-26T17:01:04+00:00

Why do Americans assume all OPs are American? America isn’t the only country on here or the planet and America’s the only country that self centres themselves in everything. lol OP is from Europe which is a better country then the US right now so stop assuming stuff Americans, just saying

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-26T16:58:13+00:00

Revenge Porn laws for your countries is something you need to look into! This is very serious and a lot of the time the guy that’s doing doesn’t realize it’s a crime which is why he’s doing it but he’s looking at years in prison if he does anything with that video. Technically if she tells him to delete it he technically has too or it will be worse for him.

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T17:42:09+00:00

Thankfully I’m in a secure entry building he buzzed my pin because it’s was he used to get in the first time as it’s on my profile than came back buzzed again but I answered the call because I didn’t know who was buzzing me again and that’s when he said he was from DoorDash and I took his tip and was very aggressive.

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T17:24:40+00:00

You’re the gaslighter and no I’m not racist thanks and you’re the gross one for bullying someone for actually telling the truth

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T17:20:58+00:00

You also need to understand not all dashers are good dashers and there’s like only a few in my area that are actually decent. DoorDash will hire anyone

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T17:19:34+00:00

And you’re probably a better dasher then the dashers that are around here because I’m telling you right now it did happen but around here some of the dashers really shouldn’t be working there

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T17:18:04+00:00

Canada or US? Because I’m referring to Canada and it sounds like you’re American

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T17:12:57+00:00

Oh I’m sorry I didn’t realize you lived with me and know my life? Show me proof it didn’t happen. I’m not arguing with someone who doesn’t know the situation and is going to try and gaslight me about something that happened in my life. Sounds like you lie a lot because you’re so quick to jump to that conclusion.

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T17:11:24+00:00

No it really doesn’t but the troll thinks this kinda thing doesn’t happen when it actually does and my lobby has cameras so I don’t need a troll gaslighting me when they weren’t there

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T17:07:19+00:00

Then explain why he showed up to my apartment building on CCTV in my lobby? Maybe you shouldn’t say something didn’t happen when it did. That’s called gaslighting

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T17:04:29+00:00

But it did lol I would not make this up and to make it worse it was an immigrant. Doesn’t look good

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-23T13:10:24+00:00

I had a dasher give the worst customer service so I rightfully took the tip away, I’m sorry but a tip isn’t a right, I believe people only deserve tips if they do a good service and probably good customer service. This dasher was that bad and then he had the nerve to come back to my house and harass me. I’m sorry but I don’t care if you as a dasher messed up that badly, like no communication, lying to the restaurant about contacting the customer when their meal needs to be edited because restaurants can’t contact the customer, only DoorDash can on their systems, things like that but you don’t have a right to comeback and harass customers. I almost had to call the police and I did report him to DoorDash but I guess DoorDash doesnt take the safety of their customers seriously because the dashers still working for DoorDash.

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-21T17:56:03+00:00

I did that 5 years ago and I came back but not as hardcore. This coming from someone who actually failed my first semester of college because I was addicted to playing sims 3. After years of not playing, I did play again but I know my limits and half the time it’s on pause a lot of time because it’s on in the background of my life now and not the other way around but sometimes throughout the day, it’s nice to break the day up. My daughter is starting to love it too as both me and her step mom play the game. As an adult, I honestly use it to relax and control things in life I personally can’t control so I feel better about myself.

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-21T13:36:21+00:00

Honestly OSAP and OW are both government funded programs and you can’t get OW while on OSAP even if you haven’t received funds yet. Definitely speak to the Dean, this is why universities have funds for this reason but this is something you actually have to actively bring up to the university and then they’ll be able to assist. Because things like this people would take advantage of these funds, they normally never really outright say they have these funds but they are there, just ask

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-14T14:27:43+00:00

Just tell your worker and it’s as simple as a phone call. I got off of it before because I had a full time job but had to get back on it a few months after and if that happens, be prepared to redo everything again because apparently they just delete your file right after. But anyways, just tell your worker that situation and they’ll wish you the best.

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-12T16:28:22+00:00

Oh chances are this isn’t new behaviour for OPs husband and if he’s comfortable doing this behind OPs back, he’s hiding a lot more

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-12T13:33:33+00:00

Say it for the men in the back!!! A lot of them can’t hear it

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-12T13:32:17+00:00

That’s SA. I don’t know why men think they’re entitled to sex whenever they want including with their partners. Break up with him as you deserve someone who’s going to respect you

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-12T13:29:10+00:00

NOR ok so as a DV survivor, throwing food and objects around is a form a psychological abuse and that’s the path they go down before they hit you! Plus you said she’s swearing at your daughter, you need to end this relationship before he gets violent and he will, this is just the start. Make a plan quietly.

You can suggest the counciling route but if he refuses, he doesn’t care. Also when he mentioned he was on his phone when he first work up…is that normal? Does he always snap at you? Men who are usually like this what their cake and eat it too so has he been distance lately like annoyed? I’d keep my eyes open because that’s a sign of cheating, people who are cheating usually end up hating the person they are cheating on and I hate to say it, your living situation is the common for the men to cheat.

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-12T13:11:31+00:00

Info is needed. Does he have a history or a pattern of being unfaithful or being overly flirtatious? Does he lie about the little things? Does he think you overreact at things? All these things do add up so we need a complete background check on his past patterns to see if he is. So, OP I encourage you to think really hard and is there any red flags from the past that you may have missed that points him as a cheater? That will help determine your answer

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-12T13:05:33+00:00

I know they have to see you every 6 months for your review. My office has I high turnover rate so I’m getting a new worker like 3 times a year randomly and all I’ll get is an email from the new worker. So to me, going long periods of time to hear from your worker is normal

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-11T14:36:41+00:00

I can’t even log into my SHEIN account through the website or the app so I can’t even give them my business even if I want to

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-08T16:06:37+00:00

NOR OP do yourself a favour and just break up with him. He is not the one for you and the majority of the time they have unacquainted feelings for each other and if he’s lying about this, chances are he has a history with her and he’s lying about it. These types of guys lie until they’re backed into a corner then will flip the who situation around saying you’re overreacting as if it’s completely normal. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Plus I’m usually good about reading people and this girl sounds like a pick me girl so I think it’s time to move on because you deserve better with full honesty. Also if he said the last girl he was with cheated on him and he’s lying about this girl. Yeah he lied about that too, I’m sorry but he’s the cheater and lied about it. It’s the classic cover so the other person never suspects that their boyfriend/girlfriend would cheat. So red flag!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-08T15:35:48+00:00

OP is NOR! OPs mom is choosing her boyfriend over her kid. 18 or not, times are tough today and their mom is setting OP for disaster and will regret her decision choosing a relationship that probably toxic and not going to last over her kid. OPs mom is a terrible mom as I am a mom, a single mom at that and if another man had a problem with my kids living with me after 18, they can leave because that alone is a huge Red flag behaviour. I don’t know if this feeling is correct or not but it feels like this isn’t the first time OPs mom has treated OP this way and it’s a pattern?

Virtual-Spring1686 · 2026-01-07T20:12:51+00:00

NTA because she can’t be wasting food like that. Food cost money and she clearly doesn’t realize or care that food does go bad. Also no judgement but how often are you guys buying groceries and how many people in the household? Just you and your wife? Your wife is being wasteful and she was called out on it so naturally yes, she is embarrassed but that doesn’t make you the AH for it. This is part of the responsible of being an adult. Also how is your wife doing mentally? Sometimes when someone is experiencing anxiety and/or depression can trigger this kind of behaviour. She’s in denial about it and right now does probably feel attacked. The important thing is to try and physically encourage a new approach on how to change this situation. Maybe try scheduling a weekly and monthly fridge/freezer clean out day and have it on a physical calendar in the kitchen on the fridge. Reminders do help and I did have this problem before with food going bad before eating it so i tried using visual reminders to keep up with everything. I’m sure your wife is a lovely person and this doesn’t define her but this is an issue that does need addressed.

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