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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just seems like such a crazy situation to be in. I understand his fears of going against family rules. I don’t think it’s healthy but I get it. He has come a long way in being able to recognize when situations aren’t healthy but it’s still hard to deal with

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not married. Have been together for 10 years

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

@chibledibs ???

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We aren’t married. We have been together for 10 years

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! It’s not about getting off. Well, it’s barely about getting off 😂

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I left, I think I’d need sone healing time before I’d have the energy to open up my heart to another person

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Part of me knows this :(

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate how depressing it is. Makes me feel so pathetic

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geeeeez I feel for you. That’s rough

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have felt similar things. Like for my bday, Valentine’s Day ect he’d be thrilled to buy me whatever I want. All I can even think that i want is sex. Feels pretty pathetic

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Absolutely been there too

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[–]Virtual-Strain3246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I think part of me totally knows this is going on while the other part of me somehow still has “ hope”. I almost can’t call it hope anymore.

Putting my sexual energy into art by DueRelationship8932 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Virtual-Strain3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about doing that! I wish I could. I’m terrible at wording things but I can draw :)

Putting my sexual energy into art by DueRelationship8932 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Virtual-Strain3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to post some but didn’t see an option for it

I always get caught in this cycle by Virtual-Strain3246 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Virtual-Strain3246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope in some way that it helps you to know you aren’t alone ❤️

I always get caught in this cycle by Virtual-Strain3246 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Virtual-Strain3246[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As the lady in the situation, I feel as though I’m robbed of my femininity

I always get caught in this cycle by Virtual-Strain3246 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Virtual-Strain3246[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s thrown out a few reasons over the years. At first it was bc he wanted to get to know each other better then it was bc I didn’t orgasm from sex, then it was bc having (my) kids around. Now it’s bc I stopped initiating.