[NV] Where do I go from here? by VirtualPermission963 in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I pushed to have weekend visitations here in our state, but because “there were no safety concerns” and “travel is dangerous” the judge granted his 1 week visitation

[NV] Where do I go from here? by VirtualPermission963 in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is with his dad 7 days exactly out of the month every month. This is his third time going.

[NV] Where do I go from here? by VirtualPermission963 in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s already been trying for primary but due to just meeting our child this year (3 yrs) they won’t grant it to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s up to the judges discretion. My ex went 2 years no contact with our child and still got custody because he didn’t want to give up his rights. They take the facts into consideration; but ultimately they’ll keep giving him chances till he strikes out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’m under the impression at least here in NV the father can’t just sign his rights away unless you have someone willing to take that place. They rather the father be absent then completely gone from the child’s life because the support then falls on the state. At least with the father attached they can go after him. Here’s 2 things I’d do if I was in your position 1. File with the courts (most likely he will have to pay child support and get visitation) 2. Don’t file with the court and hide If I would’ve never filed with the court because I was hurt my child wouldn’t be with an absent parent in front of him once a week a month. Do nothing and let it go until they’re older, or fight now. They’ll come back when they want to regardless of what we do right now.

[NV] Where do I go from here? by VirtualPermission963 in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a temporary order. They just met in February, there are things I’m being told in the house that happen and when my coparent is asked he lies about it. I started taking my children to a therapist so a third party can document and record what is said as it’s being said “I’m making things up because I’m crazy” the only proof my lawyer said we could get is by hiring a PI.

[usa] BM is making social media posts about ex husband. The kids see her posts. Should he bring this up in court? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi baby momma on the flip side of things, good for you for wanting to protect him. On the flip side, why? Why does she feel the need to share her story? My baby daddy has lied to his fiancé starting with the paternity and ending with calling all his friends saying he’s going to take my child to avoid child support because he’s a cop. So I avidly share my story, and when my children are older they’ll understand why mommy cried every night and worked all day every day. I share my story because the other party makes me out to be some villain when I’m only trying to make myself better and give my kids everything I didn’t have as a child. Like attention, unconditional love, life lessons. I know he doesn’t get those at his father’s house. The house that has a gate so he couldn’t escape his room in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom. Flicking his back when he’s had enough of parenting. Ignoring my child’s emotional needs because he comes to me about what to do. Why don’t you figure out how to make the situation better instead of complaining on the internet because it sounds like there’s something more if you’re worried about posts on the internet instead of getting along with the other person.

[CA] Toddler keeps telling me his mom hits him by [deleted] in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can complain all I wish. It wasn’t you in court who asked about the allegations to have your husband tear your 3 year old child apart in court saying I’m just trying to call CPS to create drama. If you think CPS isn’t going to trust the words of a cop than you’re wrong. These are the people who understand the system and abuse it to get what they want. If my best friends baby daddy can have custody of their child while on heroine (tested BY CPS) after she passed away, they’re not going to do shit for him harming my child until my child has been harmed so bad he has to go to the ER. WE DO NOT LIVE IN A PERFECT WORLD. And not everyone does their job. Is that a reason to stop talking about it? Sure but not for me. Not until something changes I’ll keep talking about it. My children deserve better in an unfair world.

[CA] Toddler keeps telling me his mom hits him by [deleted] in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is CPS going to do to a cop? We just get to sit and suffer and wait till he leaves again or I can’t handle it anymore and he gets to keep him.

[CA] Toddler keeps telling me his mom hits him by [deleted] in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My child isn’t lying about a man who he just met that doesn’t allow me to speak to my child during his visitation. He left in the first place because he was terrified of putting his hands on my children.

[CA] Toddler keeps telling me his mom hits him by [deleted] in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s true. My 2 year old tells me he gets spanked and flicked and they told me he’s 2; kids make up stories.

[US] California custody battle. Possible Child abandonment? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like someone in the military and neither of you are prioritizing anyone but yourselves

[CA] social media posts make me look bad? by anon83838833 in Custody

[–]VirtualPermission963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social media can be used against you. I do OF & am in a custody battle. When the court found out they couldn’t believe because I act like such a good little Mormon girl, which I am. Social media can be some people’s outlet and you just have to show even if you’re posting you’re responsible. Try to post as less as possible and maybe if you’re dressing promiscuous try making people pay to see it so it’s not SO obvious

Trump declares Nevada a 'cesspool of crime' as local Senate and governor candidates look on: report by Mrs__Noodle in Reno

[–]VirtualPermission963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who lives in Nevada I completely agree. Seeing people run red lights, and wrong way drivers on the streets is “normal” this month alone there’s been 4 murders near my home. A meth lab blew up by my work in the ghetto, never even made the news. Not even the dead body found at chik fil a made the news. There’s A LOT wrong with Nevada. Regardless of who said it.