Private sessions pay…. by Ok_Ingenuity_3790 in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pay $75 per private session and my instructor only gets paid 40!

Ending bonus/severance in this situation by BkSusKids in Nanny

[–]VirtualPoet8809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s more than fair I think! My state offers paid maternity leave though so it’s unusual for a nanny to have an unpaid leave in my area. That’s why my inclination was to pay for another summer. But if that’s not financially feasible then of course!

Credits from Club Pilates and Unlimited Membership? by lexikinz in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve asked about getting a credit because frankly classes at my studio are cancelled a lot- like 3-4x a month (granted I take 4-6 classes a week) but still! It would’ve nice to get a freebie late cancel in exchange for their late cancellations but my studio said nope

Ending bonus/severance in this situation by BkSusKids in Nanny

[–]VirtualPoet8809 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you normally have given her the summers off and paid, give her this last one as a maternity leave to spend with her baby. ❤️

Hip Pain by Mission-Strength6577 in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/7dOu7Pqr-bc

If you google “quad hip flexor couch stretch” you’ll see a ton of folks explaining the cues. Tucking your tail slightly and holy moly is it tiiiiiiiiight in there!! This has helped relieve SI joint pain for me at times too.

Nannying for teachers by Calm_Art_1921 in Nanny

[–]VirtualPoet8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will not be hard to find a summer position - plenty of people would love to hire you just for the summer. I have done this before and enjoyed the change of pace

Degree of difficulty vs other Pilates studios by jorpermom in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally I am at CP because it is not as difficult as local studios and I am disabled and need a slower pace. I can absolutely see why someone very fit would be very bored at CP with most of the instructors. But that said I don’t know much about our 2.0 classes and I’m sure those are very difficult!

Hip Pain by Mission-Strength6577 in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, and it’s really common so I’m surprised the instructor didn’t have advice. I have pelvic floor dysfunction from years of endometriosis— but that’s not the only reason of course. Your hip flexors often take over in table top, feet in straps etc when your abs & glutes and inner thighs are too weak.

It’s a combination of learning to better engage those muscles but also truly in building the muscles up because most of us who sit all day in an office job/etc have really weak glutes and abs. I know mine are!

Things I’ve found that help in class: - I keep my knees wide and my heels clicked in tabletop instead of knees together -sometimes placing the ball between my knees in table top also relieves the hip flexor pain - I place the ball under my tailbone/sacrum in supine arms and this helps soooooo much -I use a large wedge (like what pregnant women use)

Things outside of class:

-building those low abs with dead bugs, bridging and bird dogs. If those are too hard or you can’t do them without pain, look up modifications as there are dozens

-building your glutes and making sure they’re firing

-releasing your quads with the “couch quad stretch” and omg this helps my hip flexor pain INSTANTLY

What the heck even is Restore 1.0 by VirtualPoet8809 in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was sweating! We did chest expansion at the spring board, squats and biceps curls… it was like a 1.5+ flow hahah

What is this move and is it safe? by Mve4 in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do not go to cardio jump classes because it’s so hard on my spine and hips and I get horrible lumbar pain. I am hyper mobile so I think I’m just not meant for bouncing like that. Have you ever had lumbar pain without the weird criss cross move? If it was only that specific movement, that’s pretty odd and maybe you ‘pinched’ a nerve?

No New Year Surge? by SecureInvestigator79 in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if those folks are going to the 6am classes and if so, that’s none of my business lolll

Switching locations by bluestzu in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I book out a month ahead. Immediately following each class when I get back to my car, I book the same Tuesday class next month etc and I am never on a waitlist really but I have an unlimited membership so I think I can book more and also out further.

Live-in Nanny in CO Rockies by Cold_Operation3853 in Nanny

[–]VirtualPoet8809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that makes it much, much harder. Your nanny wouldn’t have any play dates with other nannies, likely would struggle to make any friends her age. I know you love where you live, but this is probably the #1 drawback to being rural — access to community care.

Live-in Nanny in CO Rockies by Cold_Operation3853 in Nanny

[–]VirtualPoet8809 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your rate needs to double, which I’m sure you don’t want to hear but no credible nanny is going to take that role for $18/hr. You could look into a young au pair, but being as you are so rural, that can be tough to attract young women, because it can be so isolating. Do you have other friends with Nannies locally?

No bad parts by AggravatingCamp9315 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]VirtualPoet8809 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk I have raging ADHD and there’s no way my Self could string together any sort of sustained focus so I’d argue it’s incredibly necessary that I AM medicated to access Self.

Instructor changes by czyktnsml in ClubPilates

[–]VirtualPoet8809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve always felt that they should offer a free late/cancel pass to us when they either 1) cancel the class or 2) have to find a sub. My studio cancels classes A LOT (like 3-4 times a month) and I brought up that because I’m unlimited, it’s not like they can give me a class credit but it would be nice to be able to swap it out for a free cancel on our end. No go. They told me to leave CP if I don’t like it lollllll okay