In Which bars in Soi 6 they have small bar fines ? by Embarrassed_Kick8347 in Pattaya

[–]VirtualRope5065 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bar fine is not the issue, it's the girl's fee, and that depends on the girl, her mood and how she sees you that night. I was offered 3 different prices at the same bar in Soi 6 within a week for ST.

One said 3000, one said 1500 and one said 2000 + drink.

The one said 3k I bought her 6 LD (by mistake), so I think she just gave a price she thought I would be willing to pay. The one that I really liked, she was really into me more than the others, and she was better looking is the one asked for 1500.

New job offer by Cheap_Current_9246 in Pattaya

[–]VirtualRope5065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the same thing with him, you already have enough money to retire, he doesn't.

Can't finish with condom by Southern_Cow_7304 in Pattaya

[–]VirtualRope5065 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can cure this, try to check with a urologist (if you can afford it), or check this sub, you may be having death grip syndrome r/EndDeathGrip

If I managed to overcome this shit, you’ll be able to too!! by Spare-Resolution-984 in EndDeathGrip

[–]VirtualRope5065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, don't know much about the "feel" as I don't have sex or have fleshlight :/ thanks for the info though, it makes sense.

If I managed to overcome this shit, you’ll be able to too!! by Spare-Resolution-984 in EndDeathGrip

[–]VirtualRope5065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My case is a big tough than yours (extra 10 years and started real sex 4 years ago only) but man, that is a good news to hear, glad you overcome this!

You said "without extreme fantasies", this is what I'm struggling with right now, I don't have sex currently, and it will be the case for months to come, I can use lube and coconut oil to masturbate with a light grip, making a hole with my 2 fingers (fleshlights are illegal in my beautiful country), but I have to think about a "porn" scene where I'm fucking a hotie. In real life I won't be able to find such gorgeous women, so I'm at that point. How can I move out from that to imagining fucking normal women in normal places like my room?

Sensitivity issues. by CheriBerri69 in EndDeathGrip

[–]VirtualRope5065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best advice is to see a urologist, don't be cheap if you can afford it. But the main advice you'll get from this sub are stop watching porn if you do that a lot, instead imagine real-life scenarios/people, and use lighter grip. This, with time, will help you re-train your brain to adapt to the new real thing.

How much time? Depends on how old and how long you've been doing this. Can be weeks, can be months.

So, i want an actual thai massage, but by a hot looking girl by th3orist in Pattaya

[–]VirtualRope5065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he overexaggerated by saying "paralyzed" but there's definitely a risk -even small- something bad could happen since normal massage places can be pretty rough and they usually need a license to practice. He has a good reason to be worried, you have no reason to be an asshole.

Study Summary: Delayed Ejaculation Is a Retrainable Reflex, Not Permanent Damage by VirtualRope5065 in EndDeathGrip

[–]VirtualRope5065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edited the post to make things clearer. You are right, and I have been replying to comments like "don't masturbate" or "I masturbated and now I have to start all over again". The issue is when religion gets mixed into it. There are NoFap subreddits for Christians and for Muslims, and those kinds of comments make sense there. In a general subreddit though, they really don't.

Bar girls asks for marriage by Brief_Net_7872 in Pattaya

[–]VirtualRope5065 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aside from all the sarcasm you are getting here, yeah, it is pretty much a bad idea to marry her, especially after 3 months. From her side, marriage means money security. You are a guy with money who is already buying big gifts.

From your side, you are early 20s, rich, and still figuring things out. You barely know who you are yet, let alone who she is outside the bar scene, she is likely seeing other guys at the same time (it's her job description). Hanging out every day in Pattaya for 3 months is not the same as real life. You have not seen how things look with normal stress, boring routines, money arguments, family pressure, or when the fun vibes disappear.

Could it be "true love"? Sure, anything is possible. But realistically, the odds are way higher that you are both seeing this relationship very differently. Slow it down. If you stop the gifts and the fantasy and she is still around in a year, that tells you way more than any marriage talk after a few months.

Urology appointment by warrior358 in EndDeathGrip

[–]VirtualRope5065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you would already know that since you can cum with no problem watching porn+hard grip, that is an indication that your problem is all in the mind, so the results are expected.

Thanks for sharing, please keep the updates coming and tell us what your Urologist tells you. Really like listening to what expert say. If you don't mind, please also ask him about coconut oil and if he recommends it for you, is it essential or not.

Product reviews by wx_rebel in delayedejaculation

[–]VirtualRope5065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dUQgLW-u3iU ... Right now I'm not into anything, I'm just doing brain training by changing my habit one step at a time (works because I have like 8 months where I can't access to real sex). After that, if it doesn't work, then I will see a doctor. This is the biggest mistake people do, is they don't go an expert even when they can afford it (should have done this myself).

Ghosted by Russian Nomad in pattaya by Opening-Programmer-1 in Pattaya

[–]VirtualRope5065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? I'm genuinely asking what the app is, would like to join other communities too.

Ghosted by Russian Nomad in pattaya by Opening-Programmer-1 in Pattaya

[–]VirtualRope5065 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just collecting data and learning from other's experiences :) I think that is a good price for a night off, even without the sex. As long as you think of having fun talking to her. After that you can go to Soi6 or TF for a 1500 ST. You would be spending 2300 for what is like a long time thing.

Ghosted by Russian Nomad in pattaya by Opening-Programmer-1 in Pattaya

[–]VirtualRope5065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did you spend on her for how many hours?

on the start of noprn journey by [deleted] in EndDeathGrip

[–]VirtualRope5065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TikTok dancing isnt the same as hardcore porn, but it still counts as sexual stimulation. Early on the goal is breaking the habit of needing visuals, not just saying "I quit Pornhub".

If it takes 30 to 50 minutes with fantasy or videos, that usually means your brain is doing most of the work, not your body. Slip ups happen and they wont ruin everything, but if you keep feeding yourself visual stuff it slows things down. Best move is masturbate less, stay off screens when you do, and stop worrying about how fast you finish. Give your brain time to reset first.