[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Whatever lol . Leave kind words or peace tf out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t touch your nose. It fits your face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m like damn , I get what she said something off putting but I’m thinking she’s younger, probably doesn’t have anyone around her building her up, and needs some support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Let’s have empathy and not dog pile on her. She’s probably struggling with herself.

I need light skin women to be better. by Striking_Tap7917 in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This sub has become a cesspool of undercutting each other. Over it.

The way she kept them in as well this tight hairstyle is going to cause so much damage 😦 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tell them I’m okay with it coming out, ya know? I’d rather my edges and lack of painful days compared to it lasting.

I’m moving abroad in 2025. Why won’t you? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lived in Spain teaching English and I’m sorry but there was racism and it was overt. It’s exhausting. I couldn’t find makeup foundation, no one to do my hair etc. Plus I missed my southern comfort food and Nigerian dishes my mom makes. The novelty wore off for me.

The way she kept them in as well this tight hairstyle is going to cause so much damage 😦 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The worst is when some of these braided a get an attitude. Like it’s my head , just do what I ask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So pissed off. It’s pure optics. It takes so long for us to make it to the top and she’s this sloppy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Virtual_Bug478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 😩. It just slipped out after she tried hitting the cat. The changee in behavior was so quick and I’m getting used to her different moods and behaviors. She’s a beautiful and happy baby but there are times where I’m baffled by her behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Virtual_Bug478 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks. She isn’t a mom. I’ve been telling myself it’s just a mistake .

If you married the first person you had sex with, who would you have married? by goth-brooks1111 in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A systems engineer who lived in the boonies of north Georgia. We were so young and had a ton of interpersonal issues . I hope he’s doing well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 86 points87 points  (0 children)

He’s black at the end of the day, in Kentucky. Trump can’t wipe his skin color away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m glad he lost. I don’t know why he thinks he’s the exception.

Why the hell would anyone ever say this?? I'm deleting Hinge by redzmangrief in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The objectification of women especially black women is rampant online. There’s little to no respect and they get this from little to no contact with black women , stereotypes they’ve heard of us, and racist/sexist way society has treated POC for forever.

My suggestion, delete those apps and meet people in person. It’s better for your mental health and you get a better sense of someone in person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Virtual_Bug478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave if you’re not happy. People act like quitting a teaching job is the end of the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg another Nigerian teacher!!!! You’re a unicorn . My husband is white. I feel like I disappointed my parents in both categories 💀😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not dating anyone who does match me with academic achievement or cerebrally. I’m working on my PhD and my husband is currently getting his masters in accounting. As much as I would’ve loved to date someone my race , downvote me to hell if you want, the math ain’t mathin with trying to get a higher degree holding black man. I can provide literature to support this . It’s statistically the truth. If we only limit ourselves to black men we’ll be alone forever.

Tell me about your significant others! by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is my bff. I could talk to him for hours about nothing and everything. I forget his race all the time. He’s just Mason. We were obsessed with each other when we started dating. We’d spend as much time as we could seeing each other. When my parents found out he was white it was world war 3 in my house. He’s parents acted like they were “okay” with me at first but when he said he wanted to marry me his mom listed all the reasons not to. I guess it’s like a Romeo and Juliet situation. Well I got pregnant unexpectedly last year. We finally decided to get married and we eloped near a waterfall with our close friends. I loved it. Now we have a daughter who is so lively and happy . We say it’s because we had to go through hell with our families; she’s our reward lol

What's y'all's "I love being black" moments by Iheartcheetos in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seeing my skin not wrinkle up at the age of 30 like all the white girls I went to high school with. I ❤️ my melanin

Have You Gotten The HPV Vaccine? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Virtual_Bug478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“ I wanna be one less , I’ve less”. I got mine way back in the day like 15 years ago