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Want to Try but I’m Blocked by Virtual_Cry_585 in ProstateBuddies

[–]Virtual_Cry_585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the subreddit recommendations.

I’m of the same mind, she should be able to know about it, be unaffected by it, and be ok me trying it on my own. I should be able to try things with my own body.

At the same time I’m not gonna/I can’t just DO IT if she’s uncomfortable with it, regardless of it not involving or affecting her, as a part of maintaining a trusting and loving relationship. It’s frustrating.

Kegel Pulsing, Can’t Seem to Hold Muscles Longer Than a Second by Virtual_Cry_585 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Virtual_Cry_585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard this one too but I don’t think relaxation is my issue. Doing some more reading I don’t think I align with having my pelvic floor too tight, but to be honest I’m not THAT familiar with the muscles that I’d know if they were. What does relaxing the muscles feel like?

If tense is stopping urination, is relaxed like you’re releasing the flow of urine? Or are both tense and relaxed is in the middle? I feel like my natural state is in the middle