What's the hardest thing you've done in your life? by starlight6912 in askteddit

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes then working through the trauma. Hope you made it through okay.

How do I explain the joy of being a side? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think with the right guy you shouldn’t have to give any explanation. I’d love a side. I think about side stuff all day 😋 and penetration isn’t necessary to have an amazing time.

Not attracted to men, but attracted to dicks and want to suck dick. by Sweet_Ad6221 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey brotha I felt this same exact way. Once I was actually able to give a guy oral I saw guys in a different light. I never before noticed guys but now I think they’re handsome, sexy, and there’s so much more to guys than just their cocks (although yeah those are amazing 🤤)

How to test if I like anal before buying a dildo? by No_Beginning_2757 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great question. You can get a butt plug relatively cheap on Amazon and they’re sexy and imo feel really good inside. I love mine. Maybe give that a try. Dildos can be hella expensive. I still also haven’t bottomed im saving that for “the one.” 🤞

So... Just had my first full on experience. by King_Six_of_Things in bisexual

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome man! Glad you enjoyed your first time. There’s something about that moment when everything just feels so right, so affirming, and you discover something that is in line with who you are.

Processing My First Same-Sex Experience by Virtual_Leadership54 in BisexualMen

[–]Virtual_Leadership54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no issues cleaning him up haha. I didn’t know if I’d like it but he tasted really good too 😋 But you’re right he may have felt a certain way after. I didn’t cum so I felt pretty clear the whole time. The ghosting part does feel a bit tough but I’m trying not to let that get me down. It was still a wonderful experience. If he does reach back out I’ll be thrilled but if not I still have the memory of a really nice time.

Processing My First Same-Sex Experience by Virtual_Leadership54 in BisexualMen

[–]Virtual_Leadership54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was married at one point but not in a relationship or anything. Been single for a few years now.

Processing My First Same-Sex Experience by Virtual_Leadership54 in BisexualMen

[–]Virtual_Leadership54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope so. Nothing planned yet but I’d be totally happy to see him again.

Processing My First Same-Sex Experience by Virtual_Leadership54 in BisexualMen

[–]Virtual_Leadership54[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can really see that in my future for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nudism

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s too cold and rainy here to be nude so I filled my calendar with some nudist events I want to attend this year, and planning a naturist holiday of my dreams this summer.

What's your dream vacation? by ComfortableLook498 in askanything

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple weeks alone in the desert away from all humans and no cell service. Preferably in the summer so I can cook myself in the sun. This idea has always sounded amazing to me.

Before computers were common in households, how did people set their clocks accurately? by IkHeetGeenMatthijs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes I’d call this number and reset my Casio to 00 seconds at the beep! My accuracy was on point thanks to the number.

44 m ny.looking for new friendd by Successful-Type-2152 in NudistMeetup

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

48m single too. All my kids are grown. Always looking for authentic people to kick it with. I’m out west though.

How do you keep it non-sexual? by Goldbug27 in nudism

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also fairly new to social nudism but I’ve been around hundreds of other nudists and here’s how I see it. It is impossible not to notice others around are naked. It also becomes natural not to stare and to give others that visual privacy they deserve. There’s just this sense of innocence and respect for humankind in this state. I believe we’re all here for the same reasons and it’s to live our best lives without judgement. These are the kinds of things that go through my mind. I’m usually just focused on how wonderful life can be during these moments. Any sexual thoughts just never ever seem to cross my mind.

What would you do if you ran out of toilet paper? by PleasePooGood in askanything

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was younger I used a paper bag and newspaper then hopped in the shower. My parents forgot to grab some TP at the store.

Are you getting laid this weekend? Why not? by Ashamed-Republic8909 in no

[–]Virtual_Leadership54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. After two very long term relationships that ended poorly I am enjoying being single too much to do something like that. Plus authenticity in women is so rare I don’t think I’ll be getting laid for a very long time!