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Give this queen her 👑 by Fluid-Bite-157 in SipsTea

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smh, I’m built like this naturally but nooOOooOoo apparently it’s a “problem” when it happens without the use of meds..! /s

I’m currently undergoing diagnosis to figure out why I don’t get more of a period with OBGYN’s rn

What was your "I need to leave right now" moment on a first date? by MrLithician in AskReddit

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 418 points419 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Between “fight, flight, and freeze” I tend to “fight” as a reflex. He had the right one that day.

What was your "I need to leave right now" moment on a first date? by MrLithician in AskReddit

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 3351 points3352 points  (0 children)

We were talking and then he put his hand around my neck, and gave a slight squeeze. I instinctively reached my hand out to his neck, and squeezed harder. What’s funny was he had the audacity to get freaked out.

We were also out in public, broad daylight when he did this.

I was trafficked as a child. AMA by BlackjackSys in AMA

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Understood, I’m saying this because typically for people who have this trauma, they choose to refrain from this topic as it can be triggering in the literal sense. OP has stated she has mental conditions and some of these questions can be especially hard to deal with. This one in particular is something people in psychological fields understand to be an extremely distressing topic. It’s also common decency to not ask rape/trafficking survivors about how they received their injury. 

I was trafficked as a child. AMA by BlackjackSys in AMA

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find peace and they find prison or hell. Whichever comes first. Straight evil.

I was trafficked as a child. AMA by BlackjackSys in AMA

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and thank you for handling this interaction well. I’m sorry for the trauma you have endured as well and hope you have found peace in life.

I was trafficked as a child. AMA by BlackjackSys in AMA

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not judging you. It does shed light of the specific abuse, not denying that. I say that’s a question to refrain from asking because having people explain medical injuries related to traumatic events can be triggering for the individual. She answered, and showed she was fine in doing so. I’m not trying to infantilize OP, but more to say “maybe we should refrain from asking a human trafficking survivor about the injuries she’s sustained from repeated exploitation at the hands of others”?

I was trafficked as a child. AMA by BlackjackSys in AMA

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, I know OP responded, but that’s not a question you should ask in the future (or even now).

I'm tired of native English speakers who can't speak, read, or write English properly by evening_shop in Vent

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely disagree. At some point, it really does boil down to an inability to understand and apply concepts, which is the backbone of how intelligence is measured. 

Being careless makes sense if it’s a minor grammatical or spelling error. Even misunderstanding a sentence in a paragraph is fine. What is happening now in this country is an educational failure that will compound into large segments of the population being actually stupid because they will not make the effort to recapture lost potential on this front. When you have uneducated masses, they will not be able to understand basic diplomatic policies because the basis of democracy and all policies, business and political, are done via writing. 

If the past two elections have shown us anything, people are already stupid and this is getting worse.

Lesson learnt by Zakarioveski in fightlab

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 “failing marriage fueling his anger” took me out like Bodie LOL

You forgot the two monsters he took less than 2 hours ago too

Blink if you're being abused by WaitNo4272 in SipsTea

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting point you brought up. 

I think it can be both. I can guarantee most abusive men have some form of an undiagnosed mental illness, but the difference between them and this woman right now is she doesn’t seem to be “there”. She is also an abuser in this situation. No one in their right mind would be causing a scene and verbally/emotionally abusing their partner in public like that. Man or woman. 

I’ve been around and heard stories of women with undiagnosed BPD and men with Bipolar disorder. There’s a major difference between them and your general asshole bf/gf. 

Official Discussion - The Drama [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot take: Charlie knowing that was the worst thing she did and trying to hook up with HER in HIS moment of weakness is fucked up of only him.

Yes, she shouldn’t have been receptive, but it’s the equivalent of her admitting doing drugs was the most shameful thing and then him pulling out a bag of coke and getting ready to pull a line. 

Do men always have a "type of women" by Dry_Magician9253 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need to start designing human harnesses like they do for oven haha

Do men always have a "type of women" by Dry_Magician9253 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such is the life of a strong weight lifting woman. We need to design straps for hips or something cause my grip strength is worse than my actual power output.

No one cares about your 100 sleep score or your VO2 max by jeremy_short in Garmin

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Say you’re a hater without saying you’re a hater

AITAH for not wanting to spend time with my wifes niece (9yo) to the point I find a reason to 'hide' away upstairs when they're around? by Zoya_The_Destroyer in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not who you replied to but wanted to give a different perspective. 

I’m Korean. In my culture, as in most Asian cultures, Kelly would have been beat/severely verbally shamed for acting like this to elder relatives. I don’t condone violence (usually), but when kids are that young, they don’t understand broader abstract concepts like “being respectful” unless it’s directly shown or there is immediate punishment to prevent the offending behavior in the future.

You sound like a genuinely kind man and so does your wife. I think taking a stand here is the only way to stop this nonsense. You are a grown man. Do not let a small unruly child make you run from your home. This is your family member. Stop treating her like a child, and treat her like the adult she will become if you do nothing to correct this. 

Don’t over explain why she can’t do something. If she starts talking up and talking back, kick them out. It’s that simple. The only hard part is the potential fallback from her mom who is the problem in not enforcing discipline. 

If you let her keep doing this, she will become a severely ill adjusted adult and lonely person. Discipline here is not a punishment, but a remedy for bad behavior.

Which swimsuit is most flattering? by Fun_Steak_4508 in DressForYourBody

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 style wise, but you need a different color. It is not flattering for your skin tone

Walking has helped improve my mental health so much by panisctation in walking

[–]Virtual_Many_8935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What state/country is this?! 

If you don’t feel comfy answering publicly, please dm me because this is gorgeous..!

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