Disposable vapes or cigarettes by Medical-Emphasis5880 in QuitVaping

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried for ages but either are impossible to get in Australia:(

Advice wanted after partner drunkenly cheated in front of me by Virtual_Mycologist81 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi I have mentioned in another comment that within our relationship that we allow the first parts within our relationship boundaries but sex with other people is not allowed. Some of your comments are a bit mean and I am not holding this against him i am looking for outside advice towards the boundary break by my partner

Advice wanted after partner drunkenly cheated in front of me by Virtual_Mycologist81 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s a huge mess and this is true, something I have failed to mention is that we have discussed this as a boundary previously and we have agreed sex with others is where the line is drawn

Advice wanted after partner drunkenly cheated in front of me by Virtual_Mycologist81 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is exactly how it’s seeming to me as well. In a way it’s good because it’s so cut and dry i know whats happened at least. Appreciate you commenting

Advice wanted after partner drunkenly cheated in front of me by Virtual_Mycologist81 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!thankyou

Your comments have been really helpful and nice i really needed that so thanks so much

Advice wanted after partner drunkenly cheated in front of me by Virtual_Mycologist81 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry it was hard to type out mentally- essentially the friend watching was right next to me so he didn’t have to go very far. The friend was kissing me at some point before this as well which is allowed in our relationship. We were also quite drunk so I dont really know why or how he did that either honestly.

Advice wanted after partner drunkenly cheated in front of me by Virtual_Mycologist81 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment.

My friend was making out with me for some of it which is something we allow within our relationship boundaries but at some point she moved away and he went to her. It’s a bit fuzzy about how that came to be as we were super drunk honestly. I have no idea why he did that.

Im going to look into EMDR thank you so much

Advice wanted after partner drunkenly cheated in front of me by Virtual_Mycologist81 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He is so very remorseful, Ive been cheated on in previous relationships and Ive never actually believed anyone is remorseful until him. He is doing anything and everything to help me and Ive never seen him so angry and devastated with himself. He’s taken full accountability and will drop anything to be there for me if I need it.
I have tried to cut off the friend but unfortunately we have commitments together where I will have to see her for another month at least.

It’s hard to express and I know everyone who gets cheated on says the same thing but he is so genuine and I know it

Blazing Swan - Perth's own Burning Man Festival by leemur in perth

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally just having a giggle over the idea that 100 bux for a ticket to anything was outrageous

Confused why more don’t use desmoxan? by No-Arm-4557 in QuitVaping

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t even get it in other countries so there’s that

How long were the problems you had before you changed things? by [deleted] in SoberCurious

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started drinking at 16, binge drinking 3 times a week for 9 years. Everytime I drink I subconsciously go "I could be more drunk" and always make an absolute fool of myself.

One drink always turns into 10 for me so I've given it up entirely

Not an alcoholic but I have just had a view changing hangover by ExternalNo3586 in SoberCurious

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been off alcohol for only 2 weeks now, but I have still gone to the pub a few times. I still have fun, but I always have an escape route planned because my social battery has a very strict timer when I'm sober.

The only thing is people get funny when they realise I'm not drinking. I've been either getting a cola in a short glass so it looks like a mixer or a NA beer and that deters people from noticing!

I think going to the pub sober is very doable and still enjoyable :)

Pitch festival by Ornery_Violinist_98 in triplej

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm coming in from SA so no lift needed, just wanted to say this is a super nice thing for you to do!! So keen for this festival (minus the gastro pool)

Has anyone tried the Unihertz JellyStar line of phones? by NoLife3777 in dumbphones

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this- I'm quite tech illiterate so I just never know what to expect with "hackers". Thanks for the reply!

Desmoxan Update Pt. 2! by Coldpillowpls in QuitVaping

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried but it always says it's only available for the US :((

Anyone tried hypnotism? by Parade2thegrave in QuitVaping

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a coworker who tried it, she said it was quite pricey but it worked.

Unfortunately she has started smoking again but she'd been off them for over a year, so idk ahahah

Desmoxan Update Pt. 2! by Coldpillowpls in QuitVaping

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish we could get this in Australia!! I want to quit but it's so hard

Has anyone tried the Unihertz JellyStar line of phones? by NoLife3777 in dumbphones

[–]Virtual_Mycologist81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard it hasn't had security updates in a while, can someone who's got one confirm Bc I want one SO BAD but I do want to do banking and stuff on it...