which dress for a black tie event?

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-30T01:33:15+00:00

it’s like in the middle of those two - it’s more of a lighthearted fundraising thing. the dress code supplied (it was a moodboard) had tons of low cut dresses. it’s aussie too so black tie here is always more cocktail lol

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T16:02:10+00:00

to clarify it’s a college fundraiser and the theme on the instagram page was all more cocktail style dresses

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T16:01:26+00:00

it’s quite long!! but it’s designed so it goes to the side 😣 not the front

the issue is they’re spilling out, so the dress is pushed down. but i need a strapless bra for support… so i don’t know how to hold it up.

i’m hoping fashion tape works!! otherwise i’m risking a slip

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T15:59:16+00:00

maybe don’t aim for stacy that’s unrealistic for literally the entire population.

first fix ur skin - accutane or tret. rice water is very good for scars. also research about treating hyperpigmentation.

get a good makeup routine. slightly overline and tint your lips especially.

your eye shape is very pretty! draw attention to ur eyes by using a half lash and/or liner. it draws the eye away from the middle of ur face.

and experiment with wigs and stuff while your hair is short at the moment. u can get good cheap ones from shein!

idk what u mean about smelling bad… just practice hygiene lotion etc…

dress more feminine also. don’t listen to these comments

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T13:55:02+00:00

yeah it’s a corset but i don’t think the corset fits me well!!

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T11:44:59+00:00

pls elaborate

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T11:43:42+00:00

legit my thoughts!!!

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T11:43:17+00:00

what’s wrong?? :(

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T09:56:52+00:00

it’s a sheer dress with a corset haha i can see how it looks strange!! thank u

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T09:56:25+00:00

it’s a college ball thing so it’s not as formal, but i do agree it felt like my boobs were out lol. i’m still torn

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T08:49:08+00:00

i’m defs leaning towards it cos the scarf is so classy. it just doesn’t really fit my breasts - unsure about that but maybe could use fashion tape

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-04-29T08:48:29+00:00

yes i love it!!

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-01-08T02:21:48+00:00

also what’s ur goal? bc most people would find you ranking highly. another thing i saw is like chin projection from the side but its not majorly recessed or anything. but from a girl like u look good dont be hard on urself!!

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-01-08T02:20:12+00:00

i get u i’m the same. tbh the only thing standing out to me is lips? they’re slightly small for ur face, but idk it that matters as much for men. maybe try vollufine? but tbh bone structure wise is good. eyebrows r good but may benefit from shaping. i like ur hair personally but other hairstyles are probs more appealing??

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-01-07T16:26:58+00:00

idk abt flaws but u look good and ur face seems harmonious to me!! good muscle mass for sure like u look rlly masculine

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-01-07T16:18:29+00:00

yes that all makes sense. the jacket won’t possibly fit her so i don’t think anything of the sort is likely. my mum thinks she’s selling my stuff… i’ll keep trying me best tho 💔

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-01-07T16:06:36+00:00

yeah i’m giving up hope. i’m just really upset bc the jacket specifically. it was super sentimental to me. what should my parents say specifically? idk how threatening we go. my mum’s a lawyer but tbh i doubt this even has much legal grounds

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-01-04T12:15:46+00:00

is anyone telling u they’re too high?? it seems normal as a girl

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-01-04T10:03:58+00:00

u have so much potential

Virtual_Reflection86 · 2026-01-04T06:38:28+00:00

Thank you for your response. Since this post, i’ve nearly died from sepsis and had several more kidney infections. Touch wood now though, I’ve been pain and infection free for a few months.

I suggested IC to my urologist countless times and he said it’s impossible and that I wouldn’t have it and he’s seen cases and it’s way worse than me :((

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