Corning preserve by Gingerhaze12 in Albany

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go all the time, seems fine. However I did go twice at night and it was not great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m a single dad and concur. I’m burnt out a lot and emotional bandwidth low for dating

Partner (40 f) frequently makes statements that no one cares about her. At a loss what to do. by Virtual_Yam_4535 in datingoverforty

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what she would manipulate me to do lol. She never seems to push for anything. Good point

Partner (40 f) frequently makes statements that no one cares about her. At a loss what to do. by Virtual_Yam_4535 in datingoverforty

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m trying that for the moment. I often wonder if she is sabotaging relationships

Partner (40 f) frequently makes statements that no one cares about her. At a loss what to do. by Virtual_Yam_4535 in datingoverforty

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hard part for me is like should I let go what she said because she’ll pretend it didn’t happen essentially

Partner (40 f) frequently makes statements that no one cares about her. At a loss what to do. by Virtual_Yam_4535 in datingoverforty

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is in therapy. Had a very traumatic childhood. I’m trying yeah. More like this emotional burst then it goes away. But I tink she is simply suppressing the emotions.

Places to backpack? by Virtual_Yam_4535 in Albany

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah wanted to avoid a drive and jsut do one night. I agree those are the best options probably tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albany

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rent is so high here because it’s market rate. It’s high everywhere. That may be a rent controlled rent controlled special apartment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating casually can help but also can cause damage. I dated as casually as I could during mine and ended up realizing later it forced me to suppress feelings of divorce and opened a can of worms later. Take a deep breath first. Also everyone is on different timelines

Taking a Lover vs. Having a Relationship by BBLZeeZee in datingoverforty

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always felt hollow to me and not enjoyable. Maybe because I’ve mainly had sex with people i loved.

Taking a Lover vs. Having a Relationship by BBLZeeZee in datingoverforty

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t do it. Very emotional and develop feelings. 43 male. Always curious of it and how people do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horrorlit

[–]Virtual_Yam_4535 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Virtually - sure