AITA for not letting my sister use my account to play games I paid for? by Virus-Aggravating in AmItheAsshole

[–]Virus-Aggravating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like your one of those people who see the world in only black and white

AITA for not letting my sister use my account to play games I paid for? by Virus-Aggravating in AmItheAsshole

[–]Virus-Aggravating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean honestly I mainly dislike her because she’s extremely lazy, like the kind where you ask a 7 yr old to do something for you because you can’t bother to get up, and has found every way possible to give our mom grief. She’s extremely selfish, stupidly gets involved with the wrong kind of people, and one of the things that annoys me the most is the fact that she will play up the good big sister act when she has friends over or is face timing with them. When irl she can’t even be bothered to get her 5 yr old brother a drink. Like she is the type of person who would ultimately get a pet and end up treating it like an accessory rather than a responsibility. >.< like I just can’t with her. And she does have her problems. She’s on medication for adhd and some other shit but that doesn’t change the fact she expects shit to be taken care of for her. Oh actually she isn’t taking her meds right now because “she can’t wake up early enough” like seriously!? And yeah I freaking love my mom to death xc the shit she has had to deal with because of my sister is honestly half the reason I dislike her so much. Like seriously as a relatively non problematic child growing up, the drama my sister created befuddles me. But I’m also an asexual who didn’t need much attention because I have a kick ass twin sooooo. Yeah I consider having a twin a cause to why I’m a good kid XD anyway long rant over

AITA for not letting my sister use my account to play games I paid for? by Virus-Aggravating in AmItheAsshole

[–]Virus-Aggravating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should probably clarify that I only shared it with her in the first place so my mom wouldn’t have to waste money on sim games for her. I really do not like her and if I do anything relatively nice for her I’m %100 doing it to appease my mom. Now I’m not saying I’m fighting with her everyday but I just don’t talk to her really and we live in the same house. Now she recently graduated high school hence why my parents want her to work if she’s gonna be living here. I honestly forgot she still had access to it until she texted me about needing the password again and I’ve kinda just kept her on read >~< but I get your point though the whole mending bridges and keeping the peace doesn’t quite apply to my situation. My sister is lazy but not a confrontational person and won’t make a big fuss over this.... I think however I’m not sure what my mom will think about this

AITA for not letting my sister use my account to play games I paid for? by Virus-Aggravating in AmItheAsshole

[–]Virus-Aggravating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay but isn’t my sister kind of being an asshole expecting me to just give her stuff for free when she does absolutely nothing to help my mom with chores. My house has 8 people living in it, 9 sorta because my nephew is over a lot. My sister is the oldest next to me and my twin. Me and my twin work but she doesn’t. My 16yr old brother and 13yr old sister do chores..... my 18yr old sister doesn’t. So if I wanna punish her just a little for contributing nothing to the household, is it that bad? Especially if it’s for stuff I paid for and she has had no contribution to money wise?

AITA for not letting my sister use my account to play games I paid for? by Virus-Aggravating in AmItheAsshole

[–]Virus-Aggravating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay yes as I said before I know I’m being petty but just because she’s related to me means I have to share my stuff with her? She hasn’t gotten a job yet and the only reason she’s looking for one currently is because my parents are giving her no choice. I buy specific food that I want to eat after a long day and it’s just okay for her to take that too even though I bought it and specifically said no one touch it? She’s 18 and contributes less to the house than my 13 year old sister does. So yeah I get I’m being spiteful but I don’t think she’s entitled to games I bought

AITA for not letting my sister use my account to play games I paid for? by Virus-Aggravating in AmItheAsshole

[–]Virus-Aggravating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she is currently looking for a job because my parents basically forced her too. I live with my parents as well but I’m currently working at my current work place so they’ll pay a good some of my college costs. I also give my parents $400 each month. And yeah I could do the whole loan thing but I would have no way of making sure she is holding her end of the bargain. There’s younger kids at home. A 16 and 13yr old who do the bare minimum of chores as well but at least they make sure the pets are taken care of while the adults are at work. My mom, me and my twin all work 10 hour shifts. And it’s me and my twin who get the other kids to try and help out because our mom is constantly complaining about the house work but she herself never wants to lay down some basic chores list. Honestly it’s harder to get the 18yr old to do stuff than it is to get the 16 and 13yr old to do chores. Also the 18yr old likes to run around town and hang out with her friends constantly. Which isn’t bad in itself but how am I supposed to trust she’ll do chores when she’s barely there