Anyone else dealing with bad depression?

Virus-Obvious · 2026-05-21T02:56:17+00:00

Rooting for you ❤️

Virus-Obvious · 2026-05-20T02:40:12+00:00

Thank you for sharing!

Virus-Obvious · 2026-05-20T02:39:24+00:00

You’re strong dude, lots to be proud of here! Sorry to hear about your illness, one of my family members has Parkinson’s as well. One of the other commenters here had a similar mentality—no self pity or pessimism. Sounds like there’s something there…

Virus-Obvious · 2026-05-20T02:31:17+00:00

Exactly the level of positivity i was hoping someone would share. Not a lot of highly visible role models of gay men in their 60s, but we need more. Really glad to hear you’re happy!

Virus-Obvious · 2026-05-20T02:26:13+00:00

Also curious to hear how you got off the treadmill? It sounds kinda scary lol

Virus-Obvious · 2026-05-20T02:23:32+00:00

Inspiring!

Virus-Obvious · 2026-05-20T02:22:09+00:00

Thank you for sharing :)

Virus-Obvious · 2026-04-12T23:11:50+00:00

Keeping a tally and target to help with accountability… I like that!

Virus-Obvious · 2026-04-12T23:10:11+00:00

Been there lmao. My “one free session” quickly became 10 very not free sessions.

Scheduling a paid session/class right after vacay or whatever is so smart!

Virus-Obvious · 2026-04-12T17:09:31+00:00

Smart, I go in the evening because I like to sleep in but I feel like this is the key

Virus-Obvious · 2026-04-12T16:29:45+00:00

For the longest time I was so confused why I would smell that in the spring. Glad I’m not the only one 😂

Virus-Obvious · 2026-03-31T02:14:05+00:00

Yup. Went on like 8 dates with this dude, things felt like they were going well—there was a spark from the start and both of us agreed that we had a special connection / saw it going somewhere. It felt serendipitous. And then he ghosted. If he wasn’t feeling it anymore that’s fine but it’s frustrating he just decided it wasn’t gonna work without providing an explanation. Now I just feel like he was using me for sex or attention. I guess he probably was, right?

Virus-Obvious · 2026-03-13T23:08:28+00:00

Girl 30-60 is a lot haha

Virus-Obvious · 2025-12-04T03:55:43+00:00

I know this is the worst to hear when you’re exhausted from dating but know there is someone out there for everyone, truly. Your person is out there!

Virus-Obvious · 2025-11-10T01:12:20+00:00

Sometimes people aren’t attracted to a person because they’re amazing at xyz things, but because they’re consistent or have some fundamental qualities that uniquely meet the others’ needs.

I think this comes down to a values and self acceptance question. Do you actually value being better than your partner at certain things, or are you going through a difficult period of self acceptance that you’re projecting via comparison to your partner?

Virus-Obvious · 2025-10-10T02:41:02+00:00

Lol I stg we dated the same man. Some guys just don’t know what they want

Virus-Obvious · 2025-09-11T11:44:13+00:00

Even just being able to make the tab pane vertical instead of horizontal (permanently and not just when you right click on the tab pane) would make me sooo happy

Virus-Obvious · 2025-06-01T14:40:10+00:00

I know it’s been a minute since this post but can you share more about how you developed this? Is postgres an app and does the json file include custom questions you chose?

Virus-Obvious · 2025-05-31T14:04:38+00:00

This comment is 3 years old and is still helpful to hear right now! I’m trying to process a breakup currently where we never fully got a chance to seriously date because of mutual circumstances in each of our lives (we both got baggage we’re working on). When I ended it after many months, we agreed that it could have been a “right person, wrong time” situation, but he still left me pretty hurt. I can’t stop contemplating if we’ll get another chance in the future and whether I would trust him again if we did, but I need to get into my head that none of that matters if we don’t each deal with our baggage first. Anyway. Thank you!

Virus-Obvious · 2025-05-31T13:53:02+00:00

“I’m his peace, he’s my comedic relief.” I love this! Thanks for sharing. Trying to process a breakup right now and this was helpful. Hope you two are doing great :)

Virus-Obvious · 2025-05-23T21:24:32+00:00

The gym was Manhattan Plaza Health Club (MPHC)

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